Black women not realizing their own worth. Especially in 2021, they need to open their eyes. I’m glad I joined the hypergamy/femininity community in my teens not because I wasn’t hypergamous but because I found a community full of amazing black women. Women who look like me. People I could relate to. Black Girl Magic.
It’s sad to still see things like « Is it possible to…as a black woman ? ». Girl, you are a whole piece of art. Let’s start by your physical apparence : your skin is just gorgeous and unique, you are fifty shades of brown. Your stretch marks look like gold on your beautiful body. Your privates look like a rare flower with many shades, the pink insides are the cherry on the top. Your hair is like the embodiment of clouds in the sky. That hair can be in whatever shape you want, no matter how hard you try to hide it. You are trophy wife material, your partner will always be proud honored to walk by your side.
You have a double culture, the one in your house and the one outside. Your African/Islands background can literally drive men crazy because of the stereotypes. I noticed how many second wives are black women in Europe. The times when you had to hide your love for black women are over.
Whether you are curvy or skinny, you always stand out, people always notice you because you do not look like the mainstream woman, the common girl you get to see everywhere, the well said preference. You are special. You are top tier.
I truly believe that if black women became the victims of constant bullying and gaslighting is because somebody saw our potential a long time ago and got SCARED and INSECURE. If people spent so much time to make us feel bad about ourselves it’s because they were terrified to see us at our best. The most ridicule way those people make sure to feel good about themselves is through those humanitarian trips to poor parts of African countries, it just boosts their self confidence because for a moment they have the upper hand on weak black people, since they know we no longer take their shit. They need to convince themselves that we are inferior to them. (Not all people tho)
Those very people won’t educate themselves because they love this image of us.
We are like a secret treasure and everyone knows the location but they are too impressed to make a move because they are intimidated by our aura. Maybe they get burn when they try to touch us. All they can do is talk, imitate or punch the air because they are frustrated. Their hypocrisy translates into the way they want us to have the spotlight only as a 'strong black woman'. They keep us at distance because they can’t handle our grandeur and our feminine energy face to face. Our vibes and flow are immaculate.
We are the blueprint and the fall of the BBL culture just prove it. Once again, somebody saw the rising of educated and gorgeous black women who rejected the whole rapper baby mama culture (a popularized culture) and they got scared. I saw comments about how competition will be tougher but hey, we are not in a competition, we are focused on ourselves. They see us as a competition, let it be one-sided so don’t worry and do YOU. Be even smarter and use the fact that you are a black woman to level up because in terms of image, an educated and gorgeous black woman is always good news.
And yes, everything is possible as a black woman as long as you play your cards right.
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