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Calling All Fabulous Feminines

If your blog theme is one of the following, please reblog so myself and others can follow you:

✨Femininity (Esp. Black/Dark Skin Femininity)

⭐️Hypergamy

⭐️Level Up

⭐️Manifesting

⭐️Luxury (Esp. Black Women in Luxury)

..and everything mixed & in between!

girlypastry

girly little tips!

♡ keep your eyebrows groomed

♡ keep your lashes done OR get an everyday mascara, i recommend essence lash princess!

♡ take vitamins EVERYDAY

♡ drink lots of water

♡ keep nails and toes done always!

♡ keep hand cream and cuticle oil on you at all times!

♡ have staple/everyday jewelry

♡ ALWAYS do your hair

♡ have skin care routine that includes at least a cleanser, moisturizer and spf

♡ reapply spf every 2 hours

♡ lip gloss, balms and oils are essential. keep those lips luscious!

that’s all for now! luv you angels <3

galactanese

bossed up barbie 💵💋

loveletters2myself

femmefatalevibe

Femme Fatale Playbook: How To Construct A Mysterious Aura While Still Maintaining Your Personality

Oversharing is the simplest way to breach your own boundaries. When you think about it for a minute, you realize it's a form of self-sabotage and can take away from your high-value allure, charm, or the magnetism that radiates from cultivating a mysterious personality. Here are some tips to practice self-restraint in conversations to own your privilege to privacy and construct a more mysterious aura.

Understand the root cause of your talkative nature: Are you genuinely extraverted and gain energy from speaking to others, or do you have repressed thoughts/emotions/ generally feel unheard and use social conversations as an outlet to release these thoughts or feel seen?

Find ways to transmute this communication, but make it self-referential: Journal your thoughts as a stream of consciousness exercise or as though you’re speaking to a close friend. Draft a document that reads like a short dissertation on a topic that you would love to talk endlessly about but know would be a disservice to your reputation or mysterious allure if you shared it with someone else (an embarrassing story, details of a work fiasco, sex stories, a fight with a family member/romantic partner, a hot take or controversial opinion on a polarizing topic, etc.). Write anything that comes to mind. You can even create a voice memo as a mini-podcast to yourself to get the feelings out.

Reframe your mindset: Having a mysterious personality means being selective – not repressive – with how you share information, engage in conversations, and present yourself to others.

Create a social rulebook for yourself: Write out a conversational “dos” and “don’ts” list. Decide on the topics/stories you want to share in a given situation and those you want to avoid discussing (work, family setting, intimate social gathering, dinner party/wedding, etc.) to help censor yourself/curate your image. By having a plan in place at all times, you’re doing half of the work beforehand to help you avoid oversharing when in interpersonal settings (at least most of the time!). Always have a few “fun facts,” opinions on cultural topics (music, movies, celebrities, current events that aren’t politics or religion, fashion, historical facts, favorite books, etc), and light-hearted stories that you keep in your metaphorical back pocket to give you something to talk about in particular conversations.

Always think before engaging: Before speaking, consider this way of thinking when you enter a conversation: You want to share information that helps you connect but allows them to speak more about their personal experience (so you feel less vulnerable). You don’t always want to hold back.

Learn the art of following up. Re-articulate to connect: Essentially, allow the other person to speak, and ask thoughtful follow-up questions. Paraphrase their points to confirm your understanding of what they’re saying. Make generalized connections about the overarching themes/point of their opinion or life story. This way of responding will help you become captivating to the other person. It makes your conversation partner feel understood on a deeper level.

Connect through intellect without being intimate: Share your thoughts on topics, just not your personal experiences as to why you have these opinions necessarily. This approach allows you to maintain a mysterious aura without appearing closed off. Sometimes, you can intellectualize your conversation points and relate certain surface-level portions of your story/life experience to current events or other cultural/worldly subjects. Use these more philosophical or worldly connections to ask more follow-up questions. Make sure to read, educate yourself, and stay up to date on different topics across industries/life arenas to help you navigate a wider variety of conversations.

Always maintain proper posture. Talk and move slowly. Practice grace and elegance with your hand gestures, slight fidgets, etc. Keep a calm demeanor, smile, and maintain eye contact. However, it's important to remember that being mysterious doesn’t mean being cold. Still laugh, smile, and show that you're enjoying the conversation.

prettyvixenavenue

how can a woman carry herself better ? i just had a realization and wanna live a very different life. i don’t know how to dress or do hair well. any advice ? self care tips too on a budget

taking care of your body internally and externally (what you eat, water intake, skincare), pampering days (shopping, pedi-mani, waxes, facials, alone time etc.) reading as much as possible (knowledge, learning new things, lessons you can learn from) moving in silence (not telling ppl your business/moves 24/7) having your own mind/style, look the part everytime you walk out the house, not worried about men that doesn’t meet your standards, focusing on your goals/achieving to the best of you ability etc. you said that you want to live a very different lifestyle so think of the things you want to do and start doing differently and apply it to your life, don’t procrastinate or push it back! what’s your style or what do you like? do you follow anyone that you feel you could see yourself wearing something similar? when trying to figure things out like this, take it slow. watching hauls/clothing lookbooks could help! you have to dip into these things/try them out first so like a new hairstyle or clothing piece. buy clothing pieces/accessories here and there and do it like that. currently, something new i’m doing is getting way more into sneakers!

brownshhugar

Person: So, what are your interests?

Me:

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goddessglo

i finished manifest now by idil ahmed and i truly recommend reading it. she gives so much insight on how we are the operant powers and she gives sets upon sets of affirmations to have. here is one of my fav pages ~

private jets, private villas, private dinners, private life. 🧘🏾‍♀️

#galactanese #hypergamy #levelup #black girl in luxury #spoiled girlfriend #manifesting #moodboard

goddessglo

essentials 🤍🎀

- being high maintenance

- taking care of my pretty thoughts & energy

self care.

#galactanese #level up #black women in luxury #dream girl journey #leveled up mindset #selfcare #moodboard #luxurylifestyle

travel moodboard.

#galactanese #hypergamy #levelup #black girl in luxury #spoiled girlfriend #luxurylifestyle #black hypergamy #sugar lifestyle

adviceformefromme

Your daily reminder to fuck what everyone else is doing and laser focus on you this week. Make sure you're taking steps in the direction of your dreams. Even if its baby steps, ensure you're moving forward. Make little goals and tick them off. Hold yourself accountable. Stop making these grand-goals that you feel guilty for not achieving. If you want to write a book, start with a sentence per day if that’s all you can manage, it might seem small but brick-by-brick is how a house is built. Stop giving your dream vision so much energy and worrying about not moving forward, instead take actual-fucking-actions. Today. Let’s go!