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It's necessary to list that you are 18+ if you are reblogging 18+ content or running a NSFW blog.

This isn't a fucking suggestion. This is to keep minors out of spaces they are not legally allowed to be in.

This is to keep minors SAFE from predators in these spaces that we so desperately try to weed out and report.

If you run a NSFW blog or interact with NSFW content, you MUST put some indicator in your bio that you are 18+

No more ageless blogs. No more minor supporters in NSFW spaces. No more bullshit.

Anyone refusing to comply will be assumed either a minor or a predator, both of which will be reported. Neither are welcome on my blog. Ever.

nbee-lust

Just to add on to this, no empty bios are ever tolerated either. Because there’s no age. Because I don’t want porn bots following me. If I am not 100% sure that there is an actual adult running a page, you’re blocked. Easy.

yearning4cowgirls

i don't see enough noise for service tops. "using a femme for my pleasure" this and that.. WHAT ABOUT I WANT A FEMME TO USE ME FOR THEIR PLEASURE? okay that's all i had to say..

noise-misato-boy-destroyer

youuuuu should take more polaroids~

puppy-pees-a-lot

the dick sucking cuddler would like to rest its head on your tummy with no ulterior motive whatsoever

bigsadbison

do you wanna come over and tell me it's too thick and it's not gonna fit, before i rub your hips and promise it's gonna be fine, and then you sit on it and it is too thick and i keep growling and moaning about how tight you are

gaytanicpanic

boozinbroads

gildedd-lilyyy

I’ve never understood why premature ejaculation is considered to be a turn off. That shit has me weakkkkk. Like you couldn’t hold back?? Because of ME??

innumerable-voices

Domme pro tip:

Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.

On the other hand a blindfold makes most people quiet. They still want to have situational awareness, they still want to track your movements, so they focus on their hearing and stop making sounds that would make it harder to hear you.

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Domme pro tip:

Most people use breathing to regulate emotions and manage pain. Deep consistent breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. You can take advantage of this by either blocking their nose or mouth or by interrupting their breathing with will timed stimuli. Suddenly your high pain tolerance sub becomes a wimp, your composed and mature sub becomes a panicky baby

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Domme pro tip:

Like in horror movies tension is important in scenes. You might think that to make your scene really intense you have to be serious the entire time but what you'll find actually happens is you wind the tension up to a certain point and then can't get it any higher and the scene becomes stale. But if you let yourself relax, loosen up, and make a few well timed jokes breaking the tension a little you can then wind it up again and make it more tense than you could previously.

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Domme pro tip:

Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.

And if you know what someone is expecting you can functionally read their mind, better than that you can control their mind, you don't just know the thoughts they're having you put them their. Plus now you have all of these opportunities to create wonderfully strong emotions and reactions by going against their expectation. Don't do this too frequently or you'll ruin both their feeling of safety and the effect this has but keep it in your back pocket and use it with precision.

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Domme pro tip:

Your sub wants to impress you, they want you to be proud of them. So when they're approaching their limit if you point that out to them ("OK darling I think that's just about all you can take") they will try to convince you they're not ("no please I can take more for you please") and if you give them an opening to do so ("are you sure?") they will jump at the chance to impress you. Follow this up with praise so they know they did a good job. This will leave them feeling satisfied and proud of themselves in a way that reaching their limit and having to tell you they've had enough won't. If you're careful you can use this to gently push their limits and comfort zone so you can both experience more intense sessions in the future

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Now you tell me some:

girlstinkgood

The lesbian pervert tattoo artist will do your piece for free if you let her huff some armpit or bulge, but she will pitch a tent every time you whimper or groan from the needle