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It’s okay to be nonbinary and be attracted to more than one gender (thanks to @nonaligned-nblm for the symbol!)

Can I join the server? Is there a link or an application to fill out?

- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1yLhTnI5SU9d_502aHf3N5bV4BmGuxjZyjB9li1VFxNA/edit#response=ACYDBNh3ziTiO8yKsNlphXvSsArOhn4Wau4EaxkoHVWWg6ooA6Cxb2aPHKgRhA Yeah, unfortunately we have to have a form now bc we had a rat in the server giving info abt us to discoursers :/

- https://discord.gg/8FFzMK

About this rumor that my server is a bunch of exclusionists,

No. We do not allow exclusionists in the server. At all. If there are any in the server, they know not to be aphobic, or I will perspnally remove them. I don't allow intolerant people in my server.

That being said, my other mod is neutral on ace discourse, but this only means that they want aro and ace people that are not LGBT to be in the community, making it LGBTQA, they believe that aphobia is a real and dangerous thing, but they do not agree with every single belief of inclusionists, just the core beliefs of inclusionists, which is what matters to me.

My third mod is very much an inclusionist, and the idea that kit is not baffles me. Kit literally ran an inclusionist blog!

So no. We are not exclusionists. We are all on the same page, that aphobia is real, it is important to talk about, and that cishet aros/aces belong in our community.

#discourse #only ace discourse thing i swear

This was in the "This blogs stances" post and I'm really confused about what it means? Anti stellarian erasure (exorsexists forcing stellarians into binary roles) Would you mind explaining it to me? Thank you!

It means forcing stellarians to choose between lunarian and solarian, stating that it determines what privilege they get. I do not believe in this at all. Also, sorry for the late response!!! ;-; 💛

nonaligned-nblm

hello just a nblw here and i just found this blog and it's already #mood

I'm so glad you can relate to it!!! 💜💖💛

Sorry for being ignorant but what is orbisian?

If you're NB and like women, you would be an orbisian or just orbisian. It's basically a descriptor for NBLWs. :)

Would it be okay to call myself nblw if I occasionally like guys too? It's VERY occasionally and not nearly as strong or long-lasting with guys. I am genderfluid so I've got the nb part down. Thanks!

Of course you can! NBLW is for all nonbinary people who like women. :)

the discord invite links expired :^0

Oh, shoot, thanks for letting me know!

nonbinaryist

orbisian culture is seeing a cute girl and thinking “oh she probably doesn’t like nonbinary people” orbisian definition: an adjective for nonbinary people who love women

Nonbinaries Loving Women is a server for nonbinary individuals who want to celebrate their love for women in a non-sapphic environment, specifically for nonbinary people. All nonbinary people who are attracted to women are encouraged to join!

We have some fun features, and some exciting ones coming up! - Customizable roles and user colors - Customizable channels, so you see only what you want to see - A large array of orientation and gender roles - Channels for multiple groups of people - A channel for NBLW resources and blogs - Active and inclusive moderators - We’ll be having activities every day, including daily discussions, weekly polls and monthly game/vc nights!

If you want a place to share your love of women while being in a space dedicated also to being nonbinary, we’d be happy to have you!

https://discord.gg/2C95rpm

#nonbinary #nblw #orbisian #trixic #venusic #feminamoric #sapphic

Two things: First off, I LOVE this blog! I find it very supportive for people like myself. Secondly, nblw means “non-binary loving woman” and nblm means “non-binary loving man” right? I’ve actually never heard of either of those terms so I tried to figure it out through context clues, but I want to be sure lol

Other way around! Nonbinaries loving women or nonbinaries loving men! And thank you so much, your support is greatly appreciated! 💜💗💛

genderfromtheblacklagoon

To anyone confused about the “bazillion genders” nonbinary people talk about, here’s an explanation: They are not for you.

Listen, I honestly understand this confusion. I identified as cis until fairly recently, and for a long time I didn’t get why people called themselves these genders that seemed pretty wild. The problem is that I think people misunderstand the intent of these labels. People assume that these are terms we’re expecting you to memorize and if you ever call us the wrong one we’ll riot. But that’s not at all the point.

The labels we use to describe our gender identities are really just that–labels. They’re a way for us to identify our perception of our gender both to ourselves and to others like us. We use them because they make us feel validated because people are expected to have a word for their gender, and we use them so we can identify others like ourselves.

The point is, if you aren’t cis, you don’t have to understand these genders. Gender is really complicated, and if you’ve only ever identified as the gender assigned to you, it’s hard to get what it’s like to have a nonbinary gender. The genders that people think sound “crazy,” like ones that revolve around some feeling or are influenced by a wide concept, are still totally legitimate, because they’re just words for how we feel. If someone feels like they’re gender is like the stars, that’s entirely their business.

When I say these labels aren’t for you, I don’t mean that you should ignore them. I mean that they all fall under the umbrella term of nonbinary, and all you really need to know about a person’s gender is their pronouns. If someone wants to tell you more about their gender, that’s up to them. But otherwise, leave worrying about gender to us enbies.

angelthoughts-suggestions

New genius idea: wear oversized hoodies so when u and your partner wanna hold hands but its cold out u can pull the sleeve up to cover your hands

stilesisbiles

Shoutout to nblw who ID as male or unaligned and get excluded from nblw spaces for it.

Your attraction to women isn’t “basically hetero” and you belong in the community.

positivepatton

Female-aligned nblw and nblm are wonderful

Male-aligned nblw and nblm are terrific

Unaligned nblw and nblm are incredible

Afab nblm aren’t “actually straight” unless they want to use that label

Amab nblw aren’t “actually straight” unless they want to use that label

nonaligned-nblm

It is not unreasonable to want a partner to respect your gender.

It is not unreasonable to want a partner to respect the fact that you are unaligned.

It is not unreasonable to have an in depth conversation with a partner regarding how their orientation relates to your gender.

It is not unreasonable to request a partner to ID as bi/pan/poly out of respect for your gender identity.

You are not unreasonable for wanting your gender respected in every way, especially from a partner.

You are not the bad guy for wanting respect and you are not the bad guy for ending any relationship where you are not respected.

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