Laughter Smiles and Happyness

[21stcentury-veronicasawyer-deac]

Hi, I’m everything in this photo. BYE

[spacepearl]

if you wanna know how long this year has been: the whole fucking tide pod fuckery happened in january

[usbdongle-deactivated20200531]

the 2020s are also going to be called the “roaring 20s” but this time its because everyone will always be in a fursuit the whole time

[ladygolem]

the rawring twenties ^w^

[1ims-deactivated20150227]

If u think someone (me) is cute you should tell them (me)

[marauders4evr]

Cinderella was too weak to fight for herself...AND THAT’S OKAY!

I cannot believe we’re still tearing Cinderella down! 2018 only has a few months left and we’re still doing this, we’re still painting her as the weakest Disney princess and we’re still painting her weakness as a bad thing?

Why?

Why are people so caught up on bashing this princess?

“The movie is so simplistic—”

In what way is it possibly simplistic?!

“She didn’t work hard—”

YES, SHE DID!

“Well, okay, but the fairy godmother still had to come in—”

Yep, I remember the movie too, and the countless stories on which it’s based.

“So the fairy godmother was the one who caused the happily ever after.”

She sure was, now, what’s your point?

No, really, what’s your point? Is the point that Cinderella is somehow weak because she wasn’t 100% in control of her own life? Seems like a pretty disgusting opinion to have when the whole movie is about an abuse victim finding a way out of her horrible situation. So Cinderella wasn’t the one who got herself out. So what? Instead of looking the movie at its bare surface, maybe try analyzing it with a bit more thought and tact. You might see something a little different. A magical transformation, if you will.

Because Cinderella did work hard.

And guess what we learned from that?

You can work

and work

and work

And there will still be people out there who will try to tear you apart:

Literally.

And that sucks. It’s a horrible lesson to learn but it is something we will all face in our lifetimes. There will always be people who will try to tear us down, there will always be people who will try to rip us apart, until we’re in a low place:

Until it seems like there’s no hope…

Until it seems like you’re too weak to get out on your own…

And maybe you are.

Maybe you are too weak to get out on your own. Maybe you’re not the strongest woman in the world. Maybe you’re not capable of screaming at the top of your lungs or brandishing a weapon or throwing a punch. Maybe you’re not able to get out of something on your own. Maybe you hit a low point and maybe you have no way out of it. Not alone. But that’s just it.

You’re not alone.

Even at your lowest point, someone will come help you.

You don’t have to do it all alone.

It’s okay to have a little help when you have nowhere else to turn.

Cinderella is the story about an abuse victim who is unable to get out of her toxic situation by herself and just when she begins to lose all hope, is able to get help from an unlikely source. It’s the story about a girl who needs help getting to her happily ever after and that’s okay. 

Give us advocates:

They deserve their happily ever afters!

Give us warriors:

They deserve their happily ever afters!

Give us fighters:

They deserve their happily ever afters!

Give us girls who are not advocates, girls who are not warriors, girls who are not fighters, girls who still deserves their happily ever afters:

[lesbianfreyja]

the phrase “curiosity killed the cat” is actually not the full phrase it actually is “curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back” so don’t let anyone tell you not to be a curious little baby okay go and be interested in the world uwu

[violet-nomad-deactivated2018120]

See also:

Blood is thicker than water The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

Meaning that relationships formed by choice are stronger than those formed by birth.

[espurr-roba]

Let’s not forget that “Jack of all trades, master of none” ends with “But better than a master of one.”

It means that being equally good/average at everything is much better than being perfect at one thing and sucking at everything else. So don’t worry if you’re not perfect at something you do! Being okay is better!

[theshantiestme11ophone]

These made me feel better

[thelifeofatubaplayer]

Also, “great minds think alike” ends with “but fools rarely differ”

It goes to show that conformity isn’t always a good thing. And that just because more than one person has the same idea, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a good idea.

[eattheacid]

what the fuck why haven’t i heard the full version to any of these 

[terror-billie]

“Birds of a feather flock together” ends with “until the cat comes.”

It’s actually a warning about fair-weather friends, not an assessment of how complementary people are.

[engel-tier-deactivated20180213]

I’ve always felt like these were cut down on purpose.

[washington-acp]

I really like these phrases and plan on spreading this knowledge.

[alwayswillgraham]

The early bird catches the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese.

[its-kks-world]

I want to make designs out of these.

[sunderlorn]

Funny how all the half-finished ones encourage uniformity and upholding the status-quo, while the complete proverbs encourage like…living exciting, eclectic lives driven by choice and personal passion.

[isntthatjustprecious]

#truth

[feministism]

[pretty-words-blog]

I spend almost every moment of every day wondering…

[bitchycode]

[fishyandclintbarton]

[adrenaline]

i love you but fuck you

[meaningfulsuggestion]

I wish I was poetic enough to express how much I love you with a metaphor you might understand.

[palemusicjellyfish]

the five love languages are the brushing of fingertips, sarcasm, exploring magical forests, pizza, and late night drives

[burgertv]

wow the new jurassic world looks so good

[ruinedchildhood]

When my parents have guests over and I need to get to the kitchen

[holmes-sweet-holmes-deactivated]

Shows with strong female leads that need seeeeeeeeeeen

Crazy Ex Girlfriend - slightly bi curious main female lead with borderline personality disorder, depression and anxiety. (Musical TV show)

One Day At A Time - depressed single mom Cuban female lead with two children - ex army and also has PTSD. (sitcom)

The Client List - women with 2 kids whose husband abandons her and becomes a sex worker - she learns to be strong and independent and has some bad ass girl friendships. (Cancelled after 2 seasons but worth watching)

Grey’s Anatomy - FULL OF GREATNESS AND TONS OF ISSUES JUST WATCH IT

Cougar Town - single mom whose having issues with her body and her aging (it’s scrubs and friends in one)

Miranda - socially awkward women whose mother is really hard on her, trying to prove her independence and her worthiness to be loved.

Vicar of Dibley - first female vicar to come to the village and keeps religion in their souls as well as bringing them happiness and love, played by Dawn French who at the time was a plus sized lady and it’s never an issue. Body confident lady. (A little older bit very funny - also Richard Armitage is in a few episodes.)

Grace and Frankie - two older ladies whose husbands have left them for each other and learns how to be alone - they find soul mate’s in each other and helps each other to live life to the fullest.

Jane the Vigrin - one hell of a tellanovella! Latina family with masses of dramatic turns and plots you’ll never believe! Strong female lead becomes single mother with old flame after accidental artificial insemination.

Unbreakable Kimmy Schmitt - optimistic lady whose had a traumatic experience which leads on to her living with a beautiful black homosexual who is all of us. Fantastic storylines and you just want her to be happy.

(Add stuff on lovelies)

[ekimsal]

The Vicar of Dibley is one of the most amazing shows ever and more people need to go watch it.

[honeyspiral]