The void looks back

A system blog, unsure how personal we'll get

[nemuru-nebula]

Blog Intro

Hey there! We're the Nemuru Nebula, a quoigenic plural system that collectively uses he/him and they/them pronouns. Collectively, we go by a few names but here use Nemuru, which is also used as a last name

This blog is mostly so we don't have to keep reblogging all the plural stuff on our main, but might be used to share memes or experiences from time to time as well

We're pro-Endo, but won't go chasing down everyone who interacts. If you disagree, you can stay away or keep quiet about it. If you start shit, we'll just block you

Anything to do with syscourse will be tagged #cw: syscourse, and we'll try to warn about any triggers (if you ever think we should be tagging for something, please let us know, we're not always the best at judging that)

Stars divider by @/cafekitsune

List of headmates who might post under the cut (subject to being updated as people use the blog), might make individual intro posts which would be tagged #headmate intro

Posts might be signed off with -[name][emoji], either at the end if it's our own post or on the tags if it's a reblog, if we want you to know who said it/who it's about

-Nekoko (Koko💜): They/vi (vi is used vi/vio/vios/vioself). Current host, emotional protector and gatekeeper, will playfully fight with Chihaya

-Chihaya (Chii🤣): He/they, age slider, identity host and holder, ex-host. Currently trying to get into front more often, will playfully fight with Nekoko

-Elindise✨🩷 (Eli✨ and Lisa🩷): They/them when together. Eli uses it/fae/she and is our babysitter, chef and housekeeper. Lisa uses they/she and is our caretaker and companion, around most of the time. They're dating and incredibly gay

-Ema🌙: Ne/they (ne is used ne/neb/nebus/nebuself), exhaustion and headache holder. Not in fact happy about fronting a lot lately

-Aya🐇: She/her, lenguian (German expert), introject (might mention source, but not willing to have detailed discussions about it)

-Mel😀: He/they, internal self-helper and emotions holder, the one who figures out technology stuff. If you ever see Mabel🤍, that is Mel's beloved cat he caused us to introject

[the-dollmakers-bah]

The Dollmaker opens their Workshop

[pt: The Dollmaker opens their Workshop. /end pt]

The dollmaker would like you to look through these before you send in a request: what they offer (https://www.tumblr.com/the-dollmakers-bah/819557137367891968/the-dollmaker-offers?source=share), and their Blacklist (https://www.tumblr.com/the-dollmakers-bah/819556013686603776/blacklist?source=share).

Optionally, you can check whether the dollmaker is the artisan you are looking for by looking through their Sourcelist (https://www.tumblr.com/the-dollmakers-bah/819555296260276224/sources-list?source=share).

The dollmaker asks that you only include 1 headmate per request [pt: only include 1 headmate per request. /end pt], but you can send in several requests.

If you have questions as to whether several different headmate requests would be accepted (because of source or other reasons) you can ask about all of them at once, however the dollmaker won't get to work on any of them until they are sent individually if accepted.

About the Dollmaker

[pt: About the Dollmaker. /end pt]

The dollmaker is pro endogenic, pro willogenic, anti radqueer, and anti transIDs. The dollmaker does not have a DNI, but asks that you respect your own and will block freely.

This workshop is not a place for discourse of any kind, and its creations are open for anyone to benefit from.

Tagging System

[pt: Tagging System. /end pt]

#carefully crafted — any headmate packs, including ones requested elsewhere or that the dollmaker simply liked.

#the dollmaker's work — headmate packs created by the dollmaker.

#workshop updates — posts with updates on queue, inbox, requests closing or opening, or changes to rules or tiers.

#artisans speak — posts where the dollmaker simply had something to say, or other text posts that aren't packs but the dollmaker wished to put in their workshop anyway.

Prompts and ask games may simply be tagged as #prompt, #prompt list, and #ask game.

[nemuru-nebula]

We made a BAH blog if anyone wants to follow it <3

[alteredpanel]

journals

[alteredpanel]

(obscuring username as not to single anybody out + not negative. just in case someones shy) but this is actually what we did with our journals at first too. we used lighthouse for some time, alongside discord/simplyplural. but with simplyplural being left and not wanting to be as on our phone/computer, we switched to paper.

for people with higher system counts, there are actually really good paperback journal 'packs' you can get at most stationary stores. if buying a 10/15$ journal seems too intimidating, you can get these packs for like, 10 dollars total, and each one only has about 40ish pages.

this way if you have parts that dont front as frequently, you dont have anyone worrying about 'waste' while still providing them their own space. these are just a few examples.

something unexpected this ended up helping with was actually our individual memories too. i noticed some people asking 'how do you journal if you're blurry/have bad memory as a part?' and, well, that's actually why i started doing it. i wanted to remember more than just 'feeling bad' whenever i fronted, so i carry my journal with me and write down basically like, everything.

even just passing thoughts like 'i kind of wish we had beef strips at home for dinner' or 'im really excited for artfight this year'. when you're trying to recover as a system, especially as a part thats been heavily slotted with a lot of 'negative' emotions, its important to give yourself the space to express more than those things. if you only ever remember yourself as being 'angry/bad' then you wont develop much past that, and you start to internalize that shit and really hate yourself.

journaling has been a great outlet for me to vent and draw my own stuff, but it's also given me some dignity and the space to feel like a person outside of just being like. traumatized. i sort of use it as a vault of everything about me, good and bad, important and trivial.

also like, importantly, from both an eco friendly and anticap standpoint, you can really just use stuff you have lying around the house already. i think personalizing your journal is important, but you can also do that without going out and buying 56347875 things. personally i got really into junk journaling alongside writing and drawing, because it gave me a spot to put a lot of the cool stuff that other people would think is trash.

[plural-the-way-you-dont-like]

If you want to be a system you can be, this is your sign to become plural.

[emonsicine]

mogai, alterhumanity, and slurs.

i’ve seen a lot of people within mogai, alterhuman, and similar communities be very casual with their usage of the word “mutt” and i understand this is likely due to ignorance on the fact that it is in fact a racial slur.

how is it a slur? when used to refer specifically to humans or those in human bodies, it is used derogatorily specifically towards mixed race individuals. while yes it refers to a dog or any animal that is mixed breed i’m sure you can understand why it is offensive and a slur when used towards humans. it is dehumanizing and degrading mixed people, calling us animals.

i do not care if you are alterhuman or other kin or otherwise don’t identify as a human, including physically, i kindly ask you to please stop referring to yourself as a mutt; including names, pronouns, titles, what have you. unless you are a mixed race individual you cannot and should not be attempting to reclaim it or use it to refer to yourself.

i really wish this causal racism and normalization of a racial slur wasn’t so widespread and prevalent in these communities, that people were more knowledgeable on the fact it is a slur. please educate yourselves more, i understand not everyone may know it is a slur but upon learning so please do your own research and stop using it unless your mixed race- and even then understand other individuals may not be comfortable calling you a mutt.

tldr: mutt is a racial slur against mixed race individuals. unless you are bodily mixed race do not use it as names, pronouns, titles, etc etc any way to describe yourself. it is not for alter humans/non human individuals as a whole to reclaim, only to those bodily mixed race. please educate yourselves.

@radiomogai tag for reach, no pressure to reblog or not.

[assaultmystic-archive]

the self is a guy you made up to get mad at

[prowilloeevee]

You’re still plural, even if your headmates haven’t talked in a while

You’re still plural, even if you have to mask it a lot

You’re still plural, even if having someone else front takes concentration and/or energy

You’re still plural, even if you’re frontstuck

You’re still plural :]

[proudfictive]

If you're a singlet (someone who is not plural), I can guarantee you that you know at least one system offline. Probably, you know multiple systems.

Any of your friends or family members could be part of a system. Any of your classmates or coworkers could, too. Even your partner could be a system.

Plural systems usually do not announce our plurality. Because of the massive stigma around plurality, we try to pass as singlets. My system does this every day. My headmates have friends they've known for a decade who don't know we're plural.

It's said that dissociative disorders are very rare, but they're not. Trauma can and does happen to anyone. And many systems don't have dissociative disorders at all.

Systems are all around you. It's time to start treating us with the same respect you'd give anyone else.

[punkitt-is-here]

this is what its like having a plural girlfriend

[hedjblogr]

[cultureiscatalogue]

Plurality Culture Blogs

@plural-culture-is

@mildly-inconvenient-plur-is

@weird-plurality-is

@fictive-culture

@factive-culture-is (debatably inactive)

@empty-system-culture-is

@median-culture-is

@mediple-culture-is

@in-system-relationship-culture

@funny-plurality-is

@whimsical-plurality-is

@wholesome-plurality-is

@unknown-origin-culture-is

@divine-headmate-culture-is (religion may come up, we believe)

@syscest-culture-is (topics of in-system incest prevalent)

@pd-systems-culture-is

@natalgenic-culture-is (mentions of pregnancy)

@musicative-culture-is

@bombogenic-culture-is

@addgenic-culture-is

@endogenic-culture-is

@willogenic-culture-is

@fictotype-plurality (very erratic activity, ran by one of us)

@unidentified-plural-is

@disordered-system-culture-is

@mundane-plurality-is

@hispanic-plural-culture-is

@asian-plural-culture

@plurality-culture-is

@problematicpluralculture

@metagenic-culture-is

this is an ever-expanding list and we could not possibly get them all! please let us know if you know any more that can be added!

want to note, sorry if you are pinged multiple times by this list and/or have already seen it and get pinged for it! we tend to add any blog we have not already added, from reblogs is a way we can find them sometimes (seen in the most recent update this note was added in)

[factive-culture-is]

friend factive culture is feeling so goddamn weird about existing 💔💔💔💔

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[theinsterminators]

*holding the Pluralizer 5000 behind my back* nice character you got there. mind if i borrow them real quick.

[actualdemontqbf]

what do we think of caterplural🥹🥹

[a-collection-of-critters]

Got inspired, pluralfly

[actualdemontqbf]

what do we think of caterplural🥹🥹

[anonymous-truma-pro]

I do think we can actually do work to make endogenic and non-disordered plurality more accepted. It’s already noticeably happening. I think it’s always worth it to try to push against sysmed talking points and show that they aren’t at all supported by both science and just generally being a good person.

Do not fall into the defeat of thinking that this will always be a hot topic, there will always be people who are bigoted in the same ways, but they won’t always hold as much power over the discussion and how it’s seen by outsiders of it.

Think of transmeds, they used to be so prevalent, but nowadays they’re mostly just in specific spaces and most people know that they’re just nonsense. This is something I see with sysmeds in the near future, but we need to work for it. We need to keep pushing and spreading as much information as we can.

Keep doing what your doing, and do not ever lose hope.

[gaylordthethird]

Having fictive friends is wild why are me and luna helluva boss discussing mortality