People at my middle school would throw the r slur around like crazy and whenever I asked them to stop they denied it was a slur and told me to “stop being such a butthurt” anyway I just needed to vent
i remember when that slur was being used. people thought it was cool to use and i never understood why. it's not even being "butthurt" about it either. it's just being respectful and some people don't know how to do that apparently.













