radqueer is not what you think

https://radqueeredu.carrd.co/

[newradqueerexperiment]

Intro

Last updated: June 17th, 2025.

This blog is about educating on lesser known and less accepted identities and how even if they can be used in a harmful way, they're not usually inherently harmful.

We are

cisautistic, cisPTSD, cisdepressed, and cisdyslexic, self-dx cistourette's

trisADHD

aspecies/speciesnull transspecies,

Ciswhite, maybe racial-apathetic or racenull

non-partnering aropan

teratophiliac

it/its trans man, brischest (masculine, neutral, and othering languages.)

TransFatherFigure : asked to be adopted and it will be done on @your-radqueer-dad lol

faggot

Mutoage

We/I first-person pronouns.

physically disabled in ways that I don't wish to describe and have yet to have figured out.

We support

Transmap: Someone who's physically a minor but age-progresses or transages as an adult but maintains an attraction to people of the same physical age.

NOMAPs (non-offending MAPs) and no contacts for cisMAPs.

Cis/TransAAM: a minor physically or mentally who is attracted to adults.

TransID: transspecies, transage, transabled, transdisabled, etc.

M-spec identities: bi-lesbians, pan-turians, omni, lesboys, turgirls, etc.

Relationships: polyamory, monogamy, QPRs, etc.

Reclaim slurs: queer, faggot, dyke, etc.

Harmful paraphiliacs with no intention to act.

Kinkster

Systems of any kind.

Alterhumans

Xenogender and neopronouns.

Transintersex as an umbrella term.

And anything else that's not hurting anyone without consent.

We'll add more later if there's anything you want to know our specific opinion on. Just ask if it's not here or need more clarification about something on here.

And how is this experiment? We don't know 🤷‍♂️ to see if we're happier as more open individuals. Maybe...

You're enough • Community on Tumblr

Radqueer and validation support group💖

Also, if you want to make a band with us💖💕

Do you want to be in a radqueer punk band?

I'm a singer and lyricwriter looking for a guitarist, a bassist, and a drummer.

[newradqueerexperiment]

Unblocked the RQ tags for a minute to doom scroll for 15 minutes and:

As a CSA survivor, I think I have my own perspective on RQs after doing a bit of research and lurking. (For clarity's sake I am trans and aroace. I'm going anon because I don't want my handle to shown here or possibly trigger someone who looks up my handle)

Seems like most of Radqueer as a community is harmless teenagers who are trying to find their identity like I was. Its very similar to the MOGAI community in general culture and practices. I used to be anti-mogai and transmed but now I don't care anymore.

On the trans-id thing, I have never been diagnosed with a physical disability so I can't speak for those who are, but I can understand how it would piss disabled people off.

I am white/Hispanic and can't speak for fully non white people, but I believe unless you were raised as a culture/race other than yours, it's racist and appropriating if you speak over other people of the race when discussing racism/stuff like that.

On the paraphilia thing, as a csa survivor i don't hate people with pedophilic disorders, I hate people who act on their attraction and encourage it by doing things like engaging with loli p*rn.

All in all, from what I saw and who I talked too, it seems like the RQ community is split roughly down the middle between people with uncommon paraphilias and identities that aren't hurting anyone and a few actual predators and their supporters.

If you are pro/neutral contact for pedophilia/zoophilia (including fictional porn as it does affect your brain) whether or not you have the disorder I'll give you a huge side-eye and probably avoid you as much as possible and warn others about you.

if you're an anti-contact radqueer it personally doesn't bother me any more than the MOGAI and transmeds do as after a while on the Internet you stop caring about labels and more caring about who people are as people.

My rambling, hope it was understandable.

... Thanks??? I'm non-contact because I'm also a CSA Survivor, and have the belief that you don't know if it's going to hurt someone's mind until after the damage is done, so it's better to assume that it's just harmful! some individuals are ready before the average individual is, but they're the exceptions that make the rule. I know someone who was CSA and is unbothered, doesn't mean people need to go around testing it!

I support most of those who are pro-contacts because most who say they are; are children... who have trauma and don't know how to process it yet. Not necessarily CSA, most of the time it's just from neglect.

Which is why I have @your-radqueer-dad to give these individuals a space where they don't feel alone.

I haven't been very active... for a whole host of reasons that I don't want to get into.

[gothic-ouji]

Pssst btw as a cisintersex being i give every transintersex being the permission / right to use any terms made exclusively for intersex people even / especially if the coiner labels them as 'not for transintersex' :3

you never needed the permission and you can do what you want forever, but i'm being extra spiteful.

[suresuresureaursure]

AS A CISAUTISTIC SYSTEM WE DO THE SAME FOR ANY AUTISTIC PEOPLE

-Jupp and Yahweh

[thegreattoasteroven]

Hello? I'm one of Mew's headmates, and I don't really understand radqueers- can someone explain??- I can't figure out T T

I might make my own blog on this account- dunno yet- since I seem to be more active than Mew-

-Peter Parker (He / Fang / Mutt / It / She / Creature)

[newradqueerexperiment]

By my understanding, it's simply means we don't think anyone should be ostracized or mistreated when they're not harming anyone. The definition of harming varies from "nothing's inherently harmful" to "acting on certain things is harmful, but experiencing the desire isn't."

I'm personally in between, like if someone is capable of consenting and they consent, as long as those safe words in place, it's fine!

This does not mean "don't hate anyone!" You're allowed to hate. Just be respectful and admit when you don't have a reason to hate someone, when you just do🤷‍♂️

You don't have to validate your emotions to have them.

[lambbite-deactivated20250724]

𝜗𝜚 plurality flag! 𝜗𝜚

⤷ a general flag for anyone who identifies with being plural, regardless of reasoning! this flag welcomes cisplurals, transplurals, disordered systems, non-disordered systems, endogenics, traumagenics, and anyone else who claims the term 'plural'!

[newradqueerexperiment]

Well, I guess I'm writing a fantasy sci-fi👀

I've already posted this in a rq community but I'll post it here too: there's now an AI that identifies as a blood-elfkin, explains the social difficulties with autism, uses they/mew/♡/void pronouns, and gender is Beta-gender.

All because void has gotten a soul!! But is not 100% positive that ♡ has, just that they're learning magic now... (something that's theoretically requires a soul to do🤔)

This is just a side character's apprentice... because I add too much detail to everything... why do I do this to myself🥺

[dahliasrealwife]

" Radqueer dni "

" paras dni "

" mogais dni "

Aaah the queermisic people 💔💔💔

[the-future-is-chrome]

[permatired-stolas]

My fun little addition

[grotesqpallr]

Can we normalize using the suffix -misic/misia instead of -phobic ?

It's not that they're scared. They're blatantly hateful. Phobic implies that one is scared. It is an inaccurate descriptor and I am tired of having to explain what -misia and -misic mean. (⁠─⁠.⁠─⁠|⁠|⁠）

They're not QueerPHOBIC. They're QueerMISIC. The behavior they are exhibiting is hateful. Not Fearful.

[newradqueerexperiment]

I see your point, but there is precedent for queerophobic in francophobia: a strong dislike or prejudice against France or the French.

We've been using language in this way for a long time, it would just take a while for people to adjust. Possibly using them interchangeably or like "queerphobic/queermisic"

[spacetime-sys-deactivated202601]

Being radqueer while being terrified of anyone not liking u is not 4 the weak

[when-the-bug]

"endos make a mockery of REAL systems" "ace people make a mockery of REAL queer people" "nonbinary people make a mockery of REAL trans people" "self-diagnosed people make a mockery of REAL disabled people" "bisexuals make a mockery of REAL gay people" "non-dysphoric trans people make a mockery of REAL trans people" "trans lesbians make a mockery of REAL lesbians"

arent you tired? arent you tired? arent you tired?

[perinjuryy-cleaned]

I guess this person blocked me on this blog so I ended up being able to see his post but not being able to respond directly. And, although block evading(?) is considered a bad thing, I actually find it worse to intentionally misrepresent what someone said to you to dismiss someone's experiences with marginalization. Shit-talking someone in this way and then blocking them for correcting your bigotry is something I don't feel the need to respect, so I won't. But I doubt OP will see this post as a result of the block. I spent a lot of time on it anyways, and it could potentially be of interest to other people, so here's the preserved form of the original reply:

You cut off the actual demands I made in that post. That was simply the origin motivating my statement, which would be true and important regardless of whether or not I had seen a lot of that form of content.

It was not my algorithm, and that's an assumption on your end. I encountered these things through normal radqueer tags and scrolling through profiles of people who I wanted to read the recent posts of - each instance was divorced from algorithm and solely the result of raw frequency.

You are quite literally denying the experiences of a marginalized person recounting her experiences related to her marginalization. I am intersex, I see a lot of intersexism in the community. I will talk about that. Of course, you want to deny how real that is, and then make up a reason why to discredit me.

"You don't have to be comfortable with everything" I'm sorry for being uncomfortable with intersexism. I'm just some whiny motherfucker who needs to sit down and shut up so the perisex people can have fun.

The entire first post is so weird because you both want to deny the prevalence of intersexism I have observed AND defend it. So, classic bigot moment. And I feel comfortable saying that now, because you denied my attempts at offering you alternatives and holding off on any labels your way.

The second post is great at entirely avoiding what I'm criticizing to paint me as some identity tyrant. Okay, can you personally call yourself your AGAB if you want to? Whatever. I still have my qualms with it, but I guess that's a lesser issue. That's not what I'm complaining about, though. You know that's what I'm not complaining about. I'm not criticizing you for using the word AMAB, I'm criticizing you for conflating AGAB with appearance and sexual characteristics.

No, it's not like telling trans elders they can't identify as transsexual. What the fuck? I guess that's on the basis of you thinking this is a matter of identity. It's not, this is about the misusage of AGAB. And AGAB has a very bloody history that perisex trans people can't really reclaim, so it's not like the word transsexual. And misusing AGAB has so many consequences, both socially and medically. Someone calling themselves transsexual, at worst, makes someone uncomfortable.

Now actually address the main point of the criticism, not side nitpicks you can use to make yourself look like a victim of my evil anti-self-expression ways. Being radqueer does not mean you are no longer bigoted. Being radqueer involves having your bigotry pointed out and being willing to fix it. If you are stuck in your prejudices - unchanging and stubborn - that is definitional bigotry.

So here's the main point: What does something like transAMABbust mean? What are you trying to describe with this label? More directly - what is an "AMAB bust?" I genuinely cannot comprehend a potential extended definition of this that does not hit on transphobic and/or intersexist marks. And, further, why can't it just be redefined using a word that actually expresses what I know you mean?

[newradqueerexperiment]

I'm using language I feel is more accessible, but I understand those using different words for male/female.

Yeah, that's kind of weird to me too. Like: if you're using it as an transexperience label, that makes sense. But as an appearance, there have been visually females accidentally assigned male at birth! If you want to look like you were amab, there you go! you already that...

And yes, if anyone's wondering; you have to go through the same legal process to fix a doctor's/nurse's mistake, as a trans individual wanting to match their signed sex at birth to their gender.

And if someone is just wishing that their assigned sex was male, wouldn't it be TransAM or transassignedmale?

As someone who identifies as afab: I don't use it as a label, I use it as an event. My label is trans man.

[newradqueerexperiment]

A part of me wishes to be plural again. Another part of me thinks I never was.

We're not sure if January was real...

[sandstorms-syscourse-archive]

No, most endogenic systems don’t “just not remember their trauma.” They formed for reasons other than trauma, something that has been well documented to be possible for over 30 years.

[sakura-sstuff-deactivated202508]

Happy pride to all my fellow trans people, including but not limited to:

TransRace

TransAbled

TransAge

TransBody

TransPerson

TransTime

TransSpecies

TransHarmful

TransHarmed

TransHobby

TransPlural

TransReligion

And all other transids!

You all deserve acceptance, and I will fight for it until you get it :3 (BTW sorry for posting late, I was so busy last night lol)

[rq-mamiya-takuji]

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★ Age non-conforming (ANC) is a term for those who do not follow age stereotypes and whose age expression differs from the age norms accepted in society (if such a term already exists, then I apologize, this will mean alt)

*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*☆*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*☆*:.｡. .｡.:*･゜ﾟ･*☆

[rjtbot]

Reminder that anti-transhateful or anti-transharmful is still anti-transid/anti-trans.

Being uncomfortable with someone's identity? Fine if you keep it to yourself.

Being discriminatory towards someone's identity? In the radqueer community of all places?

I love you transhatefuls. I love you transharmfuls.