🚨 CALL-OUT: krp-er RYAN (fruitcake / wannaberp / dragonshq) 🚨 TW: manipulation, misogyny, gaslighting, age fetish, body-shaming, regina george behavior.
"You're not Regina George... Just George!"
We need to talk about a specific member and the roleplays shielding their toxic behavior. Known under handles like fruitcake and valued member of @/wannaberp, and @/dragonshq, he has made a career out of destabilizing communities, manipulating people, and leaving wreckage in his wake. I was close with him, tight, even. Which is why I saw firsthand how deep the pattern runs.
Attempts were made to contact @wannaberp & @dragonshq but they're choosing to shield this member. So, let's be very clear: he has already started firing back stories about me, but if you're going to toss around "concerns," then provide more than Ryan's whispers. Otherwise, this is just "he said, she said, he lied, you swallowed it," loosely what a wannaberp staff told me. So I'm publishing proof so I won't be gaslighted by a crowd of tired, uncreative community members.
Ryan has openly trashed Wannabe, LGC, and Hydra. He's dragged each of them through the mud, tried to destabilize them, and now you're parroting his rhetoric back like it's gospel? Good riddance to you all. I've never once spoken badly about a Wannabe member, because frankly, they're a non-factor in my life. It's a closed roleplay with no date of return. But since you want to throw accusations around, here are facts:
Ryan is a +30 year old gay man who still uses the b-slur in 2025.
He roleplays as barely 18-year-old boys while simultaneously spewing misogynistic rhetoric.
He believes cis or trans females and non-binary folk should not roleplay queer men.
I have confirmation of both from his own friends. Screenshots exist.
1. Manipulation & Gaslighting: Ryan's favorite weapon is suspicion. He accused me and my friend of being the same person not once, not twice, but three separate times. All the while having intimidate conversations with both of us. This wasn't paranoia or hysteria, it was strategy. By fabricating conspiracies, he isolates you, undermines your credibility, and positions himself as the only "truth-teller" in the room.
2. Hypocrisy: Ryan loves to perform outrage about other people’s behavior, while doing the exact same, or worse. He's the first to scold someone for discussing visuals, yet he has openly body-shamed members (TWS Hanjin) by calling him a twig or skinny versus his choices of faceclaims. Then, he went on to choose Hanjin after getting a player disinterested in the faceclaim. He claims exhaustion with "melodrama," yet spins more dramatic tirades than anyone else you'll ever meet. He rails against toxicity, while embodying it.
3. The LGC Obsession: His hatred of @/lgcrp is infamous. He bashes them constantly, tells people not to join, and launches tirades tearing down their reputation. The rhetoric is venomous, obsessive, and frankly exhausting. But here's the pattern: what he did with LGC, he's already repeating with wannabe and tried with plenty other roleplays Hydra. Same story, new target.
4. The Wannabe Sabotage: Ryan told me point-blank the owner was "exhausted in ideas," and that "the new team" couldn’t move forward until the founder was gone, something he claimed was already "in the works." He bragged about taking hiatuses just to avoid the founder's "melodrama." That's not constructive criticism. That's undermining leadership until they break. I don't doubt his struggles, but there's a certainly level of lack of privacy he doesn't seem to hold accountable for anyone but himself. I was brand-new member, maybe a week old when he shared with me confidential admin struggles and behind the scenes noise only select few should hear.
5. A Clear Agenda: He dragged LGC. He dragged wannabe. He dragged Hydra. The moment a community doesn't bend to his control, he turns to sabotage. He positions himself as the victim, the misunderstood martyr, while painting everyone else as toxic. And when you finally resist? He retaliates, hard. ⚠️ At this point, Ryan isn’t just messy. He's dangerous. His agenda is clear: destabilize, manipulate, and burn down communities so he can wear the ashes as a crown.
Message to krp roleplay community: Ryan is a liability. He will continue this cycle until he's stopped. If your team is considering action, know you have full support. You can forward these messages, and if you want to talk further, drop a message. Ryan is not misunderstood. He is not mysterious. He is not a leader. He is a saboteur, a manipulator, and a toxic presence this community cannot afford to keep excusing.
And for the record, this isn't gossip. I took this issue directly to someone I believed was a mod, and they confirmed it would go through direct channels. That's not gossip, that's direct reporting. What Ryan did (those manipulative tirades, fabrications, and venom) that was gossip. That was the point all along: I caught him in it, face down in his own lies. As for the "age dishonesty" spin? LOL The only person I ever obscured my age from was Ryan, for a very deliberate reason: to set a trap. My actual age has never been hidden from admins, from communities, or from anyone except him in that one calculated moment. My Discord now shows my age plainly, and it did back when I was adminning a very successful RP years ago. This "dishonesty" is a lie Ryan invented to save face after getting caught.
So let’s end it here:
Don't call this gossip.
Don't come to me with Ryan's words dressed up as "concerns."
Don't contact me again.
And just to be thorough: this is being forwarded to posted as well, so everyone is aware Ryan and roleplay he exists is align themselves with a toxic, misogynistic saboteur.
Case closed.
