⋆𐙚 ̊.niko-rin⋆˚𝜗𝜚˚⋆

— In her ethereal being magic entwines ･°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･

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This is us ni Rovy after the game, exhausted but victorious, floor dives really pays off:

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𝚃𝐞𝚊𝐦𝚠𝐨𝚛𝐤 𝚒𝐧 𝙰𝐜𝚝𝐢𝚘𝐧: 𝐓𝚑𝐞 𝙿𝐢𝚗𝐠𝚙𝐨𝚗𝐠 𝙲𝐡𝚊𝐥𝚕𝐞𝚗𝐠𝚎 🧶🏓

This group facilitation was both challenging and fun because it tested how well we could work together as a group. The game was about group dynamics, and the mechanics were simple but tricky: each member had to hold a piece of yarn to support a pingpong ball and carefully move it toward a glass bottle without letting it fall. If the ball dropped, we had to start over!

Group dynamics refers to the way people interact, communicate, and work together within a team. It’s about understanding roles, coordinating actions, and supporting one another to achieve a common goal.

In this game, group dynamics were key—everyone had to stay coordinated, communicate clearly, and adjust their movements to keep the pingpong ball safe. It showed us how important teamwork, trust, and cooperation are, because even one mistake could affect the whole group. The activity made us realize that successful collaboration requires patience, listening, and working as one unit, not just as individuals.

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𝑯𝑒𝒍𝑝𝒊𝑛𝒈 𝐻𝒂𝑛𝒅𝑠 𝒂𝑛𝒅 𝑃𝒆𝑎𝒄𝑒𝒇𝑢𝒍 𝑀𝒊𝑛𝒅𝑠 ݁ ˖Ი𐑼⋆

This group facilitation focused on helping and peacemaking, and what we did was learn first aid training for minor injuries, skills we can actually use to help others in the future.

Helping means offering support, care, or assistance to someone in need, while peacemaking is actively working to resolve conflicts and create harmony in a situation. Both are essential because they encourage empathy, cooperation, and positive relationships whether in a community, a group, or even in everyday life.

During the facilitation, learning first aid wasn’t just about treating injuries it was about practicing how to step in and help safely when someone is in need. It also showed how teamwork and calm communication can prevent small problems from escalating, which is at the heart of peacemaking. By working together and learning to assist others, we got a real-life lesson in both helping and promoting peace, making the activity meaningful and practical.

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𝓕𝓪𝓼𝓽 𝓸𝓻 𝓢𝓵𝓸𝔀, 𝓢𝓱𝓪𝓻𝓹 𝓸𝓻 𝓝𝓸𝓽 ૮₍´˶• . • ⑅ ₎ა

This group facilitation was a real challenge, it tested how fast or slow I could move while searching for letters and whether I could really spot them. The game itself was fun but a bit chaotic because we had to assemble letters into words that correctly matched the topic: prejudice and aggression.

Prejudice is a preconceived opinion or judgment about someone or something, often without real knowledge or experience. It’s usually based on stereotypes or assumptions. Aggression is a behavior intended to harm or assert dominance over someone, whether physically, verbally, or emotionally. Both are important to understand because they affect how we treat others, how conflicts arise, and how relationships are shaped.

In the game, while assembling words, we saw how easy it is to act quickly without thinking (which can lead to mistakes) or let frustration take over (a form of aggression). It highlighted how prejudiced thinking can influence decisions even in a game setting like assuming a word is correct just because it “looks right” and how aggression can surface under stress or competition.

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⋆⭒˚.⋆ 𝙾𝚋𝚎𝚢 𝚘𝚛 𝙳𝚘𝚞𝚋𝚝

The day of our facilitation was really fun, especially since our game was “Paint the Picture.” But beyond the fun, it was actually about conformity and obedience, where we got to see if group members would follow their assigned leaders.

Conformity is when people adjust their behavior or opinions to match those of a group, often to fit in or avoid standing out. Obedience, on the other hand, is when a person follows instructions or commands from someone in authority. Both are important because they influence how we behave in group settings whether we choose to go along with others or think independently.

In our game, participants had to rely on their group leaders’ instructions to complete the picture. Some followed exactly what they were told (obedience), while others simply went along with what the majority was doing (conformity), even if they weren’t sure it was correct. This showed how easily people can be influenced in group situations, especially when there’s pressure to follow or trust someone in charge.

Through this activity, we realized that while conformity and obedience can help maintain order and teamwork, it’s also important to think critically and not just follow blindly.

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Behind the scenes of them creating a podcast about the game:

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Watch, Learn, and Experience the Mystery with Us 🕵️‍♀️

Curious about what really went down during our murder mystery facilitation?

We’ve put together a podcast and video that capture our actual experience, from the intense moments of suspicion, to how we used attitude and persuasion to defend ourselves and influence others. It’s not just a game it’s a reflection of how we think, act, and decide under pressure.

If you want to see how easily people can be convinced, how quickly judgments are made, and how attitude plays a big role in everything. This is something you shouldn’t miss.

Watch our podcast and relive the experience with us. Who knows? You might even start questioning… who you would trust.

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Trust No One ⋆. 𐙚 ˚

This facilitation was so engaging, it was a murder mystery game where no one was innocent and no one was above suspicion. It revolved around attitudes and persuasion, and it really challenged me to reflect on how I present myself and how I influence others just to avoid being seen as a suspect.

Attitude is how we think, feel, and respond to situations, while persuasion is our ability to influence others’ beliefs or decisions. These are important because they shape the way we communicate and how people perceive us. In high-pressure situations, like the game, having the right attitude helps you stay composed and believable, while persuasion allows you to explain yourself clearly and gain others’ trust.

This experience made me realize that it’s not just about what you say, but how you say it. Your attitude can make people trust you or doubt you, and your ability to persuade can determine whether you’re seen as credible or suspicious. In real life, these skills are essential—they help us navigate challenges, build relationships, and stand firm in our decisions.

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˙⋆✮ 𝙽𝐨𝚝 𝐄𝚟𝐞𝚛𝐲𝚝𝐡𝚒𝐧𝚐 𝐭𝚑𝐞 𝙲𝐫𝚘𝐰𝚍 𝐒𝚊𝐲𝚜 𝐢𝚜 𝐑𝚒𝐠𝚑𝐭

Social beliefs and judgments are the ideas and assumptions we form about other people and situations based on our experiences, culture, and environment. These influence how we see others, how we act, and even how we make decisions sometimes without us realizing it. Judgments, on the other hand, are the conclusions we quickly make about people or outcomes, which can be accurate or biased. Understanding these is important because they shape our behavior, relationships, and the way we respond to different situations. Being aware of them helps us think more critically and avoid unfair assumptions.

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𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓓𝓪𝔂 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓒𝓲𝓻𝓬𝓾𝓼 𝓒𝓪𝓶𝓮 𝓐𝓵𝓲𝓿𝓮: 𝓞𝓾𝓻 𝓟𝓻𝓮𝓶𝓮𝓭 𝓓𝓪𝔂𝓼 𝓔𝔁𝓹𝓮𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓷𝓬𝓮 ฅ՞•ﻌ•՞ฅ

This was the day our Premed Days booth finally came to life. It was so fun promoting our booth that we eventually ran out of flyers to give away. We also carried the placards we made during the booth preparation, which helped attract more people.

The whole event was lively — there were snacks, busking performances with many students singing, and of course the most famous part of our booth: the photobooth, which had a long line of people waiting. We even managed to get some extra snacks thanks to our friendly advisers.

Even though it was very hot since our event was in the afternoon, it was still a very enjoyable experience. We also visited booths from other sections, and each one was unique and interesting — some even had their own exciting surprises.

A big part of the fun was because of our adviser Miss Barbs, who helped us promote the booth with her loud cheers and energy. And a big shoutout as well to Miss Lou, who really shouted to help promote our booth.

What a Premed Days experience to look back on. Can’t wait for the next event "Barrio Fest"

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𝓑𝓮𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓢𝓬𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓼: 𝓟𝓻𝓮𝓶𝓮𝓭 𝓑𝓸𝓸𝓽𝓱 𝓟𝓻𝓮𝓹 ฅ՞•ﻌ•՞ฅ

This was the day we prepared for our booth for Premed Days, with the theme Circus Booth. Our group was assigned to promote the booth, so this was also the time we worked on creating and designing our flyers. I was the one leading the flyer design, and I can say I’m really satisfied with the final result. Of course, it wouldn’t have been possible without the help of my groupmates who shared their ideas and helped decide which flyer design we would use and print.

This photo was taken by our adviser, Miss Barbs, our “nanay ng lahat,” who always guides and supports us throughout our journey.

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Reciprocity: The Classic ‘You Scratch My Back, I’ll Scratch Yours’ Deal

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Research Leader Starter Pack:

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✭ Frustration Served Daily:

Waiting in line is already a test of human patience. But nothing prepares you for the person in front of you suddenly having a friend arrive and that friend just cuts in like they own the place. Instant frustration. Goals blocked, stress rising, inner road rage activated.... all without leaving your feet.

This is classic displacement: your anger at the situation gets dumped on the easiest target, in this case, the oblivious friend. No horns, no yelling, just a mental meltdown and the desperate hope that karma is real.

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✮ Saying Yes for Social Survival:

Normative social influence is that moment when you realize you didn’t actually agree—you just didn’t want to stand out. It’s laughing because everyone laughed, nodding because everyone nodded, and calling it a “choice.”

You’re not trying to be fake; you’re trying to belong. The fear of awkward silence, side-eye, or being left out quietly does the convincing for you. So you go along with the group, not because they’re right, but because being socially comfortable feels safer.

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📚🧠 Exam week in a nutshell:

P1 exam week was basically me saying “I will study” and then spending half the time on my phone. I tried to be productive, but somehow scrolling always won. My brain refused to cooperate, comprehension left the group chat. Brain said ‘no thoughts, just vibes.’ During the exam I wasn’t answering questions, I was communicating with the universe and choosing whatever felt spiritually correct. Miraculously, I finished the paper and walked out alive. Not the best study habits, but on survival mode.