i am once again asking you to use nuance

niecy | she/they | black & bi | mostly fandom stuff and occasional art (under the tag niecy's art)

[renthony]

There is an absolutely infuriating trend of city queers assuming that no queer person could possibly want to stay and live and establish a home in a rural community, and none of us could possibly have a vested interest in staying and improving the communities we already live in. They act like all of us dream of moving to Portland or Seattle or the Bay Area or some other gentrified-to-fuck, capitalist-nightmare-with-a-shitty-rainbow-facade city, and to hell with our icky redneck homes.

I'm tired of the kind of people who come on tumblr to reblog endless stuff about how much they want to live a cottagecore life, while also being aggressively classist toward poor, rural, working-class queer folks who genuinely love their homes and communities and are making the best of dangerous situations.

[renthony]

I'm so sorry my two-paragraph-long vent post about my personal frustrations failed to apply to every single other queer person on the entire planet.

[lezbianz]

people who watch musicals and bitch about how it doesn’t make sense that the characters randomly burst into song are so funny to me. babe it’s literally a musical like this is the standard of the genre what did you expect

[maledicmanny-deactivated2025111]

THAT'S THE WHOLE PROBLEM WITH THE GENRE AS A WHOLE, THAT'S THE POINT

[lezbianz]

i’m sorry you’re allergic to fun i’m sure that makes life very difficult for you

[ultimate-gay-mer-deactivated202]

Me watching a murder mystery: What the hell...why are so many different characters suspicious, in reality cases aren't normally this complicated, this whole genre is a mess...

Me watching a comedy: What the hell...so many silly and unlikely situations keep happening...

Me watching an action movie: What the helll...why is it so violent...

Me watching a fantasy film: What the hell....elves aren't real....

[tombliboos]

“female characters often have weaker writing compared to male characters” and “audience is unable to appreciate female characters no matter the quality of the writing because they subconsciously see female characters as women first and people second” are two statements that can, should and will coexist

[takashi0]

No OP it’s almost always the first thing.

[tombliboos]

Nah, it is not, and you know it

[solisaureus]

people always get defensive when this point is brought up because it smarts to think of misogyny in media as an individual consumer’s responsibility. and in some cases it is; there are definitely people who openly do not care about female characters and relationships and have no qualms about it. But for most people, it’s a subconscious attitude that’s a direct result of misogyny and the thousands of years of teachings that women are shallower and less interesting and less complex than men. it’s DEEPLY ingrained into our society, and it DOES affect how you engage with female representation in media. (you are not immune to propaganda etc etc)

the point of statements like these is not to shame people for (unwittingly or not) subtly perpetuating patriarchal values by prioritizing male characters over female characters in their response to media. The point is to bring the phenomenon to attention so you can become aware of your own biases and work on unlearning them. Denying that it’s even a problem is entirely counterproductive.

Putting in the mental effort to prioritize female characters and relationships is beyond worth it, btw. Especially if ur wlw. I guarantee there is a plethora of fantastic female characters and ships out there that are criminally underappreciated because people aren’t willing to put in the mental work to give them the same attention that they are used to giving to male characters. It’s worth the effort!!

Train yourself to give more thought to female characters than you were taught to. Give them headcanons, imagine them in AUs, make memes about them. Support artists, writers, and other creators who make content for them by engaging with and promoting their work. Make your own content! It’s not too late to start!

[chocolate-guy-compilations]

This came up on my Pinterest feed the other day and I was like 'oh is this a diy craft thing?' and then it wasn't.

[aquilacalvitium]

[m-dreamer-is-trans-inclusive]

I spent this entire video trying to figure out what the fuck this dude was trying to make.

[bi-q-plus-solidarity]

People get soooooo mad when you so much as imply that the lines between different LGBT identities don't have to be strictly defined

[virgomoon-deactivated20240514]

T-E-E-N. T-I-T-A-N-S. TEEN. TI. TANS. LETS GO

[asterkid-deactivated20150106]

tomorrow……… is august„„„„,?????

its augu…….st?? tomorrW???????????

8th monTH???????? 4 ,more mont hs of 2013?????????????

what??????????????????????????????………………………..

[softestaura]

sora choi and aweng chuol at mugler ss22 backstage

[ratgirl-mcsqueakers]

For anyone who sleeps a ton!! Depressed ppl chronically fatigued folk, and fellow narcoleptics:

You need to be brushing your teeth more than the average person to prevent plaque buildup, tooth decay, and gum disease.

This is because saliva production is much more active when you're awake than when you're asleep. Ever woke up with a dry mouth? That's why. Saliva protects our teeth from the acid our mouths naturally produce. Less saliva means less defense against than acid, which can break down the protective layer of tooth enamel.

So! Us chronically sleeping ppl need to be brushing our teeth more to balance out the fact that we're sleeping more.

[iheartallura]

just a reminder:

a black girl character growing her hair out long breaks more stereotypes than a black girl character having short hair

a black girl character getting to be soft and fragile breaks more stereotypes than a black girl character being strong all the time

a black girl character being protected and comforted by others breaks more stereotypes than a black girl character having no one to look out for her but herself

a black girl character being considered pretty or cute by other characters breaks more stereotypes than a black girl character being considered unattractive

not everything that is empowering for white girls is empowering for black girls

the sexism we face overlaps, but it is not the same

[princesseblade]

not everything that is empowering for white girls is empowering for black girls

the sexism we face overlaps, but it is not the same

[daily-kazuha]

sake !

[solarpunkcast]

Angela Davis & Ursula K Le Guin, visionary women for a hopeful future

[idledelilah]

some kid in the 40s: omg our humour is so incomprehensible on the tv rudy the clown got hit in the face with a pie and my great aunt beatrice didn’t understand it at all i think we accidentally created a new language, historians are going to have such a hard time understanding this

[girl4pay]

backwards trope you fake breakup and realise maybe this is better

[girl4pay]

arranged divorce

[girl4pay]

you have increasingly terrible visits to a coffee shop centered on interactions with one barista until eventually one of you snaps and kills the other and one of the other baristas throws their hands in the air and says FINALLY i thought you guys would never figure it out

[girl4pay]

you are snowed out. you die of hypothermia

[rabidlitmajor]

Noooo don't get a tattoo it's so permanent blah blah blah my tattoo is whatever I want it to be and today it's an octopus

[rabidlitmajor]

Today is my mom's bday so today my tattoo is her favorite key lime pie for her.

[f-ai-n]

Fateful rainy night

[smoqueen-deactivated20251108]

in 2008 teens were exposed to dad rock and prog through guitar hero. for todays generation, that mantle is taken by jojos bizarre adventure