Femme Fatigue

My name is Léa. 30's. nonbinary femme dyke. she/they. I talk disability, grief, being queer, polyamory, musicals, kindness. ACAB, Free Palestine, Trans Lives Matter, Queer politically, queer as in fuck you 💖 @prettyinpinkfemme for my nsfw thoughts 😷 Covid realist 😷

[nightingales-cottage]

I created this today. Probably my favorite piece in a while.

Chronic illness & disability grief is hard y'all.

Brought to you by long covid, please mask

[valtsv]

microdosing on catharsis by watching a fictional character or persona i relate to have an emotional breakdown until my chest starts to ache from the amount i've repressed

[valtsv]

[1eos]

kinda lame my pupils arent tiny pink hearts 

[rn-deliabusby]

flickr

[not-a-father]

Laugh kink, joy kink, uninhibited laughter kink, silly kink. radiating peace kink, catch me up on your day kink.

[amrv-5]

Does anyone know what to do about the temperature and also the prices

[theehorsepusssy]

[quasi-normalcy]

So what I think is that there's this default belief in patriarchy that men are superior to women and therefore the "masculine" sphere is superior to the "feminine" sphere. And so, as feminists have fought to expand the number of allowable female activities, men (on the aggregate over generations) have retreated from those activities because they're now seen as "feminine", and so partaking in them is incommensurate with their belief in their own superiority. And, unfortunately, as this has progressed, this has resulted in a lot of men sectioning themselves off from, frankly, everything that actually makes being alive worthwhile. It's a misery spiral, and the only way out is to abandon male supremacy.

[quasi-normalcy]

#men gave up deep friendships and reading and poetry and colourful fashion#all things that used to be considered manly in the 19th century#they're currently giving up on studying law and medecine#it's so stupid and sad

(I mean, the colourful fashion was more of an eighteenth century thing, but yeah)

[quasi-normalcy]

#more women in higher education meaning fewer men is incredibly depressing to me. funny in a sad way#what happens when women will finally get into trades? will they just stop working

[sherryzade]

spectacular tags from @luesmainblog

[commiewcrutches]

[Image ID] screenshot of tumblr tags reading "#what's interesting is manosphere dudes seem to be vaguely aware of this problem - but they're unwilling to make the steps needed to change.

#their idea of manhood is still centered around being a Provider and Protector and Successful and having power over others and money and gal

#AND they define masculinity as that which is Not feminine.

#so as more and more thing become universal - they feel backed into a corner as masculinity is "taken away" because NOTHING is immune #to femininity anymore - and all the things they define themselves by are becoming unisex and therefor not masculine.

#and to them the ONLY solution is to push back and keep women out of those spaces and force them back into "truly feminine" things. #despite constantly preaching strength they are all too emotionally weak to consider the alternative.

#and you can SEE the anxiety in their rambles. it's like they think they're being forcefemmed." [End ID]

[iamheavymeta-lll]

[mutationgirl]

for disability pride month I’d like to give a special shoutout to the word ow

[kosmogrl]

july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good july will be good

[zinesbycee]

(nods sagely) (nods basily) (nods rosemarily) (nods saltly) (nods star anisely)

[quasi-normalcy]

So what I think is that there's this default belief in patriarchy that men are superior to women and therefore the "masculine" sphere is superior to the "feminine" sphere. And so, as feminists have fought to expand the number of allowable female activities, men (on the aggregate over generations) have retreated from those activities because they're now seen as "feminine", and so partaking in them is incommensurate with their belief in their own superiority. And, unfortunately, as this has progressed, this has resulted in a lot of men sectioning themselves off from, frankly, everything that actually makes being alive worthwhile. It's a misery spiral, and the only way out is to abandon male supremacy.

[quasi-normalcy]

#men gave up deep friendships and reading and poetry and colourful fashion#all things that used to be considered manly in the 19th century#they're currently giving up on studying law and medecine#it's so stupid and sad

(I mean, the colourful fashion was more of an eighteenth century thing, but yeah)

[quasi-normalcy]

#more women in higher education meaning fewer men is incredibly depressing to me. funny in a sad way#what happens when women will finally get into trades? will they just stop working

[sherryzade]

spectacular tags from @luesmainblog

[tomhoppusdelonge]

I need like 10 of you to just come pile yourselves on-top of me like a weighted blanket and just apply Some Pressure

[radicalgraff]

"Stay Weird!"

Poster spotted in Albuquerque

[zmpl]

before we start posting that july is gay wrath month let’s consider that july is disability pride month first and foremost. the “be gay do crimes” memes can wait

[zmpl]

before this post breaches containment and people start going “why not both hehehe” i want you to seriously consider the very long history of disabled people’s existence being pushed aside and/or seen as secondary. i promise you it’s not going to hurt to hold onto the memes and give disabled people space for visibility and celebration.

i say this as a disabled trans person whose trans identity is made front-and-center to the (mainly cis) people who know i’m trans but my identity as a disabled person is brushed off by the very same people.

[unalivejournal]

Leather fetishes are back in cuz everything is polyester these days.. touching real HQ material in 2026 is enough to give anyone a little sexual zing