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[nineteen8y4]

I just spent so long scrolling through my own blog trying to find one old post that I never found. Huge bummer. Some humorous reblogs in the meantime though

[7866890]

lmao can’t believe some people actually still think humans are a bipedal species when there are people who are born with 1, 0 or 3 legs….the number of legs is FLUID…maybe yall should have paid attention in biology class ;)

[laurierrose]

not to mention plenty of people literally swim or writhe around on the ground like a caterpillar to move from point a to point b. bipedalism is a western colonialist concept. some people don’t even move. reducing humans to their ability to use their legs for transportation wasn’t even a thing until the industrial revolution and everyone was forced to walk upright in factories

[radladiesunite]

If you think humans are bipedal you’re ableist af

[thousandxarrows-blog]

what do u mean humans dont have eight legs, have u seen spiders??? lmfaoooooo

[nineteen8y4]

Not to mention that some people don’t identify as having legs at all, or can’t identify with their legs and get dysphoric over them. Calling those individuals bipedal invalidates their identity and also constitutes literal violence which drives 50% of NBP individuals to attempt suicide, and is a civil rights violation. Just facts. So, why reduce anyone to their legs when it costs you zero pennies to respect NBPs? Why are BERPs (Bipedal essentialist radical persecutors) so obsessed with what is in our pants anyway? There is literally no difference between a prosthetic limb and one assigned at birth and this has been proven over and over. Pick up a book.

Not to mention you can easily just open your eyes and observe people moving every which way. I mean, plenty of people can and do walk on their hands. Others regularly lurch, shimmy, or crawl…like, ever seen a baby? Ever seen a toddler? The eldery? Are babies NOT human according to BERPs? None of us are born walking on two legs, Kathy! We’ve always been here yet this language denies our existence. There are literally endless ways people move around. Coercively assigning humans as bipedal at birth- before birth(!), is biological essentialism. Also, what about people born with only 1 leg, or veterans who have lost a leg at war or something? What about the veterans??? I thought you right wing fascists were all about veterans?? This shit is so hypocrtical and ableist tbh. Smh. Ageist too though. Def racist ngl.

[inactive-archived]

@ Terfs

Where’s the difference between trans men and disabled cis men? Like, a gay man would be just as attracted to another gay cis man even if he had like a birth defect and hormonal imbalances. Of course, that would decrease the attractoin and I totally agree that you can have a genital preference.. But.. Where’s the difference between a completely post op on T for years transman and a disabled cis man?

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

one is male and other is female

[inactive-archived]

How is a trans man, completely post OP, on T for years a female?

I don’t understand what makes them different from a disabled guy..

[aurorevallee-deactivated2020070]

if you sew on arm skin in the shape of a cock onto my pelvis, drug me up full of testosterone, and chop my breasts off, I’m still female. I’m still “of or denoting of the sex that can give birth and produce eggs”

transmen are still physiologically female. have the same propensity for diseases as females. their heart attacks have symptoms the same as females do. their hip, bone, face, jaws, hands, arms, etc still have the same ratios and structures as females.

a disabled “cis” man has none of these things, and has male physiology in every way. this isn’t difficult.

being female is what makes transmen trans. if they were male they wouldn’t be trans.

[anotherdoginsunglasses]

Also maybe don’t use disabled people as a part-way point to… being a certain sex…? What were you even reaching for OP

[nineteen8y4]

If you’re a female, you can’t identify into manhood or disability. Chop off your leg and you’ll actually be disabled. You can disable yourself, technically, but if it’s done by choice I don’t think the person should be eligible for disability. So, being a disabled woman is an option for you. One I wouldn’t recommend, not at all, but an option.

On the other hand, if you chop off your breasts, take tendons out of your arm and graft them onto your genitals with extra skin, take testosterone for years, dance on your head and pray 8 times a day and completely disable yourself, you will still never ever be a man. It’s not an option.

Men with disabilities should not be compared to women. And they arent a talking point for gender ideology. Women aren’t disabled men.

[nineteen8y4]

Does anyone have the post criticizing the mermaids organization and its members? I can’t seem to find it now that I’m looking. Also, the name of the male CEO who only dresses or identies as a women outside of work. (While I’m asking) Please reblog.

[vladtheunfollower]

maybe womanhood isn’t femininity 

[radfemarchive-deactivated202304]

“Funny how women can abandon femininity and still be women” It’s because…we are female

[nineteen8y4]

Also we DO get questioned! At least some of us. Especially now that a woman having full body hair is associated with that woman thinking she's not a woman in the eyes of society, thanks to trans ideology. No one ever used to ask me how I identify, now they do ALL THE TIME because they assume I cant possibly "identify" as a woman since woman=performative gender roles. Another example of how this s*** is totally regressive and harms women. Go fuck yourself.

[extremeirrelevancy-deactivated2]

I wish there was a simple way to say:

“I support people with body dysphoria changing their bodies in ways that make their lives more comfortable, but I am wildly against erasing the meaning of female and replacing it with completely identity based definitions, particularly while females continue to be oppressed on that axis.”

[friend-o-dorothy]

I wish more people used this language and more people listened to this language instead of getting caught up in rhetoric littered with slurs and hate.

[nineteen8y4]

I half agree. I feel they have a right to and I dont particularly care what adults do with their own body, but in thinking about this more deeply, I cant always support it. An anorexic woman changing her body in a way that makes her more comfortable because she has body dysphoria, for example, is not something I can support. If the changes you do to simply be more comfortable involve some type of process, surgery, drugs, starvation, etc., that cause adverse physical effects, I can't support that. I would support them working to change their outlook/their mind. I especially cannot support it being normalizing for kids. The part about erasing the meaning of female and replacing it with completely identity-based definitions, particularly while females continue to be oppressed on that access, I agree with 100%.

[gaypussyretard3]

[non-suspiciousname]

Allowing children to dress however they chose even if it does not conform to gender stereotypes: good

Encouraging children to dance sexuality at clubs for adults entertainment: bad

[smugpuffin]

Yes, banning this form of child exploitation is great.

However, we have been calling for an end to child beauty pageants for ages and received nothing but silence.

Yet, when this type of thing has an inherent feeling of queerness or the children involved are potentially LGBT, we get action almost as soon as it reaches media.

The people doing this dont actually care about children, they care about “shielding” children from queerness. If they really cared about children, they would take the same action against child beauty pageants.

Celebrate the small victories, but never trust the authorities reasons for doing them. Dont lose sight of the bigger picture.

[zaberroni]

Important addition!

[radfeminist-suggestions]

honestly think it’s more about the fact that child drag shows are little boys and child pageants are little girls. many women on here have said before that the inherent abuse of forcing a child to perform femininity is easily recognized as abuse when it’s done to boys. when it’s done to girls no one sees the problem. (obviously i’m very happy child drag shows are seeing backlash!! i want them banned as well. just pointing out another perspective)

[nineteen8y4]

Good addition

[hasntredmarx-deactivated2020060]

RB THIS LGBT ICON TO MAKE TERFS CRY

[clingy-cult-deactivated20190506]

trans activists embarrass themselves when they disrespect a prominent and important person in lgbt history. he was a co founder of STAR and the gay liberation front. and was an AIDS activist. they dont even know the history of this man who said he arrived late to the stonewall rebellion and disrespect him by erasing the fact that he was a gay man who was also a drag queen. if u wanna learn more abt him theres a whole documentary about his life, activism and mysterious death. but i got all this information just by googling him LOL. trans activists could do easy fact checking. but they parrot what others say and blindly believe everything because its a cult.

[criticalfrog]

Why don’t trans activists actually research anything? Why?

[kittiesatemypronouns]

They reduce his entire body of activist work to a slogan that is both stupidly simplistic and a total lie.

[climbingupbestican]

He was not a transwomen. Do you realize how disrespectful it is to try to repaint someone’s life for your agenda? The trans movement is totally erasing his experiences as a gnc gay man and dragqueen by writing him off as a transwomen. Do you realize how much you are enforcing the binary system on someone who wanted no part in it by doing that?

[kittiesatemypronouns]

I mean, jeezus. Nothing could be more obvious than that they saw a man in a wig and decided to claim him like a thing to be owned and used.

[terfkirby]

Very white of them to use a gay black man as the token object of their “queer” activism

[taramaclaywasaterf]

@serpblr stop blatantly lying, it’s getting just plain sad at this point.

Here Marsha is, in a documentary filmed shortly before HIS death, stating that HE is a GAY MAN in drag and always has been. In fact, he’s quite literally mocking people who think he’s a woman. Go to 34 minutes into the video, and see for yourself, straight from HIS mouth:

He’d look at you lying through your fucking teeth and think you were nothing more than an ignorant, homophobic, racist piece of shit.

I thought ~*misgendering uwu*~ was, like, the 8th deadly sin in your cult? So maybe take your own advice and stop erasing a gay Black man from his own history, you vile, pathetic, goddamn bigot.

[revengeofthehorsegirl]

Male Transgender Youth Arrested for Raping 4-Year-Old Girl, Distributing Videos & Photos of the Act: Jakob (“Dakota”) Nieves

Lawrence, Massachusetts, US – A transgender youth, who seven months ago urged locals to vote “yes” on a veto referendum enabling those who i

[revengeofthehorsegirl]

[deputy-shayy]

Soooo interesting how more and more trans people pushing for mixed sex spaces are being outed as abusers and pedophiles.

[criticalcrone]

But we're just cherry picking cases and they don't represent the overall community.

[revengeofthehorsegirl]

It's so weird how this thing that never happens keeps fucking happening

[nineteen8y4]

#thisneverhappens #this never happens

[feduplesbian]

fucking evil.

[feduplesbian]

[feduplesbian]

[revengeofthehorsegirl]

This is just soulless.

[cecaeliawitch]

26 american trans people died from violence in 2019

2,237 american women died in 2017 from intimate partner violence alone. Just keep that in mind when they start squealing the typical lies about how endangered and oppressed they are

[rationalists-out-of-context]

if you or someone you know has a gender, you may be entitled to financial compensation

[veryturtleplaiduniversity-blog]

Isn’t this kinda anti-trans?  Trans people strongly identify with gender.  Gender roles are necessary because without them no one would be trans

[jennifercheckdidnothingwrong]

#without gender you couldn’t identify as nonbinary

[radfemarchive-deactivated202304]

“Gender roles are necessary because without them no one would be trans”

Tumblr is right but only once

[fishfem]

this is literally a word for word conversation i had with someone who was previously a friend, who went on to block me and call me a terf, mass blocking all my followers and spreading rumors about me.

because of this conversation, which i ended by pointing out how it was cyclical.

enjoy the flow chart, i know i do

[welovenappyhair]

[curseworm]

source

[revengeofthehorsegirl]

Just fucking kill the worthless old misogynist piece of shit!

[cecaeliawitch]

the only reason this happened is because killing women is not seen as a big deal

[nineteen8y4]

It's seen as such a small deal, in fact, that if this man were to have started wearing lipstick the week after he murdered that woman, I bet they would have stuck him in a women's prison like they have other male rapists and murders of females. 🤮

[lv0009]

it is so upsetting listening to so many males talk about all of the times they have gone on road trips alone and slept in their cars alone or on the side of the road, or travelled overseas alone and slept on the floor of strangers homes or in parks or at hostels and they appear to have such freedom in that they are able to be alone in ways that females, unfortunately, cannot…and there is an ignorance surrounding this in that these boys never seem to comprehend just how fortunate they are that strange people and unfamiliar places and the dark of night are not their enemies but rather exciting, promising things

[thepassioncrisis]

Everyone warns you about red flags in a relationship but I want to hear about green flags

So here’s some. Add your own if you’d like!

* listens to you talk when you have issues and supports you through them

* stops doing things you tell them make you uncomfortable

* compromises when necessary

* never puts you down deliberately, especially not publically

* supports your ambitions

* uses a calm rational tone during arguments

* is able to apologise when they’re in the wrong

* aids your growth process

[beansprouts]

* provides you with time and support as you need it but still prioritizes themselves first

* wants to get to know your friends

* has their own friends too

* respects your financial situation & considers it when making plans

* thanks you for speaking your mind

* acknowledges & plans for potential negative outcomes

* treats you like a friend, in addition to a romantic partner

[nineteen8y4]

Is happy and excited for you when good things happen in your life

Supports you in doing things you're passionate about, even if they're not

Is respectful to and about your family if/when they are important to you, even if it's acknowledged that not everyone in your disagree with some family members on social and political issues (doesn't try to coax you into disowning your family simply because they don't all think exactly like you do or your partner doesn't like their opinions)

Gives you space if/when you request it without making it seem like a personal attack against them

[positivityforlesbians]

Being a lesbian is different than being a bi woman and you have the right to acknowledge that. Wlw should absolutely have spaces where straight relationships are not mentioned, bi women should use lgbt spaces to talk about their same-sex attraction and same-sex lover(s), not their boyfriend/husband if he exists. Our shared culture doesn’t involve men and so they can talk about it everywhere else, where straight relationships are encouraged and talked about all the time. Not wanting to see and hear about straight people or straight relationships when you’re in lgbt spaces is perfectly normal and you shouldn’t be demonised for that. There’s too much straightness in the world already, you can require breaks away from it.

[positivityforlesbians]

I am sick and tired of all the non-lesbians reblogging this post of mine with more and more negative comments under it. So here’s two more things I will repeat for y’all to understand :

- a man and a woman in a relationship together are in a straight relationship. The fact that one or both of the person isn’t straight doesn’t change the nature of your couple. A man/woman relationship is a straight one and only recently you’ve been trying to change the language around it, certainly because you can’t stand being associated with the word “straight” or “heterosexual” but it is what it is. It doesn’t mean you’re less bi, and only you are twisting my words.

- In this post when I wrote that we don’t want to hear about straight relationships in “lgbt spaces” it englobes wlw spaces and mlm spaces, as in “wlw spaces exist to focus on our attraction to women, since that’s the common point of lesbians and bi women” and similarly with mlm spaces. You calling lesbians biphobic just because we need safe spaces away from straight discussions is completely unnatural and disrespectful toward lesbians, you forget who we are. You cannot accept that bi women also need spaces where, contrary to the outside world, no one will shame them or give them the silent treatment for their attraction to women. You have real enemies out there yet here you are wasting your time sending hateful comments and private messages to lesbians just because you don’t realise that straight discussions are everywhere and we don’t need more of them in wlw spaces as well as mlm ones (so lgb spaces). No one is oppressing you for your heterosexual attraction, you only are for being attracted to the same-sex.

J O T . T H A T. D O W N

[nineteen8y4]

Well here's at least one bisexual woman who agrees ✌

[lowkey-radical]

most bi women I know just like. quietly and casually date people of both sexes. meanwhile if a bi women goes on and on about how she's "basically a lesbian" or "super strongly prefers women omg" or says something stereotypical about how she's attracted to every woman and like 4 guys and constantly complains about how lesbians are oppressing her there's a 99% chance she's dating some ugly guy lmao.