nothing is worth it if you arent happy

Lara | my inspiration | my thoughts

[raddestbabe]

everyone’s having their mid-life crises at like 19

[olivertrees]

[lost-lunatics]

“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.”

— (via amargedom)

[thepersonalquotes]

[verbautezukunft]

“Forgive him for being too young to realize what he had.”

— To every girl who has ever had their hearts broken. (via ciao-bellaxx)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“I’ve learned- That you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.”

— Susane Pieffer

[deceptivelips]

“Don’t think about what can happen in a month. Don’t think about what can happen in a year. Just focus on the 24 hours in front of you and do what you can to get closer to where you want to be”

— Eric Thomas

[hijacker-deactivated20160621]

i feel u

or like i want to

[pailodzeblog]

[extramadness]

[qvotext]

“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.”

— Franz Kafka; The Metamorphosis

[extramadness]

[inritum]

[extramadness]

[deeplifequotes]

“You can love someone, forgive them, let them go, and never want to see them again.”

— Unknown

[inritum]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to be Yourself

1. First, and most important, see yourself as a valuable, likeable and worthwhile person – someone who is worth knowing and loving. If you find that hard, then you are likely believing lies about yourself. (and that may be something you want to explore, and work through with, a counsellor.)

2. Recognise that your thoughts, ideas, views and beliefs are as important as anybody else’s. You are your own person. You are not just a clone of somebody else. What you think is worth hearing – and you don’t have to apologise or change your views in order to please, or be acceptable to, others.

3. Stay away from people who are trying to change you, or who want you to think and act as they do. Don’t allow yourself and your personality to be swamped or dominated by others.

4. Surround with people who encourage you to be yourself, awho ccept you as you are, and who bring out the best in you.

5. Resist the urge to emulate or copy people you admire. At the end of the day each of us is unique. The world is a richer place by you expressing who you are in your own way.

6. Don’t compare yourself with others. We each have different experiences, and are evolving in our own way, at our own pace. There’s no one formula or recipe for becoming or being. Trust your intuition, and follow your own path.

[florenctts]