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Kate achieves her happiness (and validation) through others, the ones she loves, and through the knowledge she helped them get their happiness. It’s apparent from the way she giddily watches her sister on the dance floor instead of dancing herself, goes out of her way to solve all the problems in their mother’s place or the way she overindulges and pampers Newton until he can barely walk and support his own weight. They serve as outlets for her love. She pours all her love on others, leaving none for herself and without expecting anything in return as she negates herself.
Anthony achieves the impossible feat because just the sight of him makes her instantly forget Edwina completely and start thinking about her own desires as she becomes transfixed by him so much she even abandons her sister to chase after him (like he chased her during their first meeting).
Not because she thinks he might be suitable match for Edwina but because she wanted him for herself. She’s liked him and his smile since the moment she saw him in the park – and now, meeting him again, all dashing handsomeness and suave charm, she can’t help herself but be bewitched by him.
Watching Anthony dance at the ball and following him into that secluded garden unchaperoned (not a very proper and lady-like behaviour in the 19th century) is the first thing she truly does for herself and her happiness, except for her horse riding.
Seeing how she’s hiding behind the rose bushes in the ballroom and behind the shrubbery in the garden, those are things she dares only to do in secret (like she thinks she doesn’t deserve them or doesn’t have any right to them), stealing these little moments of joy to remember and take solace in when she becomes old and lives a lonely life she resigned herself to
Thinking about the proposal scene, but do you ever hate yourself and think about just how painful the carriage ride back from Aubrey Hall to London was for Kate? Like her heart has been broken while Edwina's heart has been made, and she's estatic and utterly made up, as are Mary and Lady Danbury. Like Kate has to swallow and hide her pain immediately, she doesn't even get a moment alone to collect herself, while her sister is incandesently happy, and Kate has to be joyful for her. And all the while it's yet another reminder to Kate that she doesn't deserve to be loved or be happy, and exactly why she guards her heart so fiercely in the first place, because if what she feels for Anthony was in any way reciprocated, he never would have proposed to her sister.
I can't lie, I feel like I HATE Anthony when I think about this, and this is part of the reason why I don't think he ‘suffered’ or atoned enough for a) proposing to Edwina in the first place, b) the way he denied anything happened between him and Kate at AH, c) the things he said about Kate to Edwina in episode 6 ("a thorn removed from the blossoming flower of our lives" before having the audacity to ask Kate to wait in that closet when she was trying to get away from him anyone??) and d) his part in the whole triangle mess. Being jealous of Dorset, being told they didn’t kiss and having his first proposal rejected was the very least of what he deserved.
Can we talk about how Anthony goes from disdainful, arrogant and proud nobleman who thought no one was good enough for him or his family, except for a diamond, to falling in love with an actual commoner, humbling himself before her and choosing her as his viscountess, willing to give up everything to spend a lifetime with her? Or the fact that not even once has Kate’s relatively humble origins bothered him nor does it ever bear any significance in accepting his feelings for her because he has always wanted her for herself and seen her as her own unique and singular person without such superfluous trappings as a lineage or a noble blood?
Even though, it’s addressed rarely in the story, there are hints that Kate has been cruelly scorned upon due to her parentage (at least behind her back) for most of her life, especially during Lady Danbury’s ball; the very same event Anthony expressed his disdain for one of Daphné’s potential suitors for the same perceived ‘sin’ only a year ago.
If Lady Featherington and Lady Cowper consider her lineage lacking, it’s very likely most of the ton thinks the same, considering those two women serve as a representation of a public opinion, and the Sheffields basically repeat the same words at the dinner. To them, Edwina shares the Sheffield noble blood, Kate does not and she has been painfully aware of it. The continuous backlash and scorn has shaped her and influenced her whole life.
Moreover, no one ever dances with Kate nor talks to her unless the men want to get to Edwina through her. It’s a combination of her age, lack of dowry, prickly nature and definitely her relatively ‘low’ birth. If Anthony starts the season as the most eligible bachelor in London, Kate kicks it off with the mantle of least likely to marry and ends it with snagging the biggest catch, the Viscount Bridgerton.
Moreover, Kate’s impassionate claims that she is going to leave for India, that she will never marry and doesn’t care what the English nobility thinks of her reveal that she has been at the end of similar insults and sneers for most of her life. She doesn’t merely negates herself for the sake of her family, she negates herself because of the way the upper society looks down on her and her vow to remain single and independent is a defiant message to a society which doesn’t embrace her as one of their own. She uses her pride as a bravado to mask the pain and seeks a lifetime of loneliness as a gesture of defiance against them, because there would not be a day when they wouldn’t besmirch her one way or another if she lived with Edwina in London after her marriage.
That’s why when she overhears Anthony in the garden talking about his requirements for the perfect bride, she doesn’t feel merely disappointed, she feels extremely hurt and sad as her face visible falls while listening to Anthony’s description of his future wife because she can never aspire to be the woman of ‘impeccable quality’ he wants, the mere origins of her birth disqualify her as a candidate for his heart, and it makes him just like everyone else, just like the rest of them who have been scorning her for most of her life.
Although Kate had no one to defend her at her first ball, during the dinner at Lady Danbury’s not only her mother comes to her support (which is to be expected from a family member), but Anthony stands up to her and protects her from the Sheffields’ insults. It’s not merely the fact that he does it, but the way in which he does it. The Sheffields are utterly blunt and condescending, yet even Lady Danbury doesn’t dare to admonish them openly because of their social station. And while Kate tries to defend herself she doesn’t dare to do anything that would make them shun or endanger Edwina and her dowry, even though her anger and pain is apparent – in her eyes or the way she throws her napkin and clutches it tightly in frustration next to Lady Sheffield’s hand.
And Anthony sees it all – her hurt and helplessness – because he’s always watching her and always notices everything about her. It’s no coincidence that every close-up of Kate is shown through Anthony’s POV, allowing the audience to see her from the position where he is and through his eyes.
He won’t tolerate anyone insulting her and causing her pain and rushes to her defence because he knows how much Kate’s been suffering since the moment she met the Sheffields in the drawing room earlier.
He didn’t miss the blatant way they’ve been ignoring her and pretended she’s invisible, like some nasty stain which disgusts them or dirty sordid secret to be hidden away, while they’re preening only over Edwina; nor the way they’ve been sneering at her from the moment she entered the room. He catches the way they openly show that they consider her far beneath them and not worthy of their company.
And Anthony Bridgerton always notices when Kate Sharma enters a room because his eyes instantly seek her out and his world shifts on its axis, pivots to her and slowly starts revolving around her; and his eyes follow her until the moment she leaves.
That’s why he’s noticed that the Sheffields never greeted her or Mary – he comes from a loving family and knows this is the complete opposite of one. The dark quizzical and judging and outraged look he gives to Lord Sheffields reveals he immediately disliked them and recognized them for the awful people they are.
It’s very telling that from the moment the Sharma family arrives in Lady Danbury’s drawing room, Edwina becomes the center of the Sheffields’ attention, yet Anthony can only look at Kate and barely takes his eyes off of her the whole time. Like, the thing that most intrigued him about the conversation must have been the information that Kate enjoys opera, which he immediately stores in his memory under ‘All the Things Kate likes’ file and which he could use to woo her or make her happy.
When he intervenes and comes to Kate’s defense (and that of her entire family, which is the most precious thing for her in the world), roasting the Sheffields and commandeering Lady Danbury’s house and servants right in front of her gooseberry sauce, Anthony unwittingly becomes the man he has always aspired to be and always thought he had failed to become – a man like his father and a man his father could be proud of. He calls them out on not treating her right and not giving her the respect she deserves.
This aspect of Kate being a commoner-turned-viscountess is definitely something that could be explored in more detail in the upcoming seasons, even more so after Jonathan Bailey mentioned Anthony protecting Kate. And what better and more fitting way to protect her than from the scorn and censure of the ton which would be vast because, despite the Queen’s approval of their relationship, as at least some members of the ton would no doubt see Kate (out of envy, jealousy and prejudice) as nothing more than a mere commoner and a scandal who seduced the viscount, the most eligible bachelor in town, and married her sister’s fiancé, effectively stealing him from her.
In some ways, Kate and Anthony will always be quite a scandalous couple in the eyes of the ton and it would be so powerful if Anthony became her overprotective guardian angel and avenger, slaying all her dragons (be it literal or figurative ones) that would dare to give Kate as much as an evil look. Kate is definitely going to show their mettle to them but there is no doubt Anthony is going to be there having her back, supporting her and battling anyone who hurts her, fighting her battles not only for her but with her, even more so because men don’t face the same amount of prejudice as women often do and they have better means and wield more power in 19th century society to fight such attacks.
Finally, over the course of the story, Anthony goes from being just another member of the ton sneering at people like Kate and for every perceived imperfection no matter how insignificant, holding it against them, to falling in love with a commoner girl and choosing her as his viscountess, lack of dowry, dubious parentage and all.
He transforms into the man he has always wished to become and his father had always known him to be. One may say fortunately because it’s clear if he failed in convincing Kate to spend her life with him, he would have spent his whole life pining after her, never marrying or siring children (Benedict, The Viscount of Bridgerton, AU!) because if he couldn’t have Kate, he didn’t want anyone else.
Do you ever just think about this scene, and the fact that Anthony is smiling before he’s even opened his eyes? This is a man who we know doesn't sleep well, and yet this is probably the best sleep he's had in years. He’s covered in Kate’s lily scent and he can smell it all over him and the blankets and pillows, and he’s reliving what transpired the night before; things he has been denying and running away from for so long, and finally, finally, they both gave in.
And he’s turning to where he expects to find her still next to him before he even opens his eyes, and then he actually opens his eyes, and she's not there. In fact, there's no trace of her anywhere in that gazebo except for the scent that's been imprinted on his mind ever since their second meeting.
And then he realises that Kate’s gone, and he’s alone and devastated. And I just...god
Anyway contrast that with him smiling in episode 8 where he's just spent six hours having sex with Kate who is his wife and left his family waiting for them, with absolutely zero fucks given.
Anthony "it doesn't matter if you go to India. It is inevitable that I will track you down and cheat on your sister with you" Bridgerton.
Just some Bridgerton random approximate numbers
Season 1
Total running time: 488 min= 8hs and 8 min
Without final credits: 464 min= 7hs and 44 min
Total Simon and Daphne screentime (together + others): 294 min = 4hs 54min
Simon and Daphne scenes: 113 min = 1hs 53 min
Other plots time: 170 min= 2hs and 50 min
Season 2
Total running time: 504 min= 8hs and 24min
Without final credits: 480 min= 8hs
Total Anthony and Kate screentime (together + others): 317 min= 5hs and 17 min
Anthony and Kate scenes: 107 min = 1hs and 47 min
Other plots time: 163 min = 2hs and 43 min
*bare in mind this is all approximation
#the true development of the season: from enemies to adopted son
Jonathan Bailey so easily could have phoned in his role as Anthony Bridgerton, made him another generic romantic lead. But that man chose to *act*.
anthony bridgerton is the most MESSY person alive im literally on the floor. he’s like i will have a terrible time finding a wife, what is poetry idk what that is, i will be the pettiest man alive, i will make the most ABSURD faces at the sister of the girl im trying to woo (affectionate and derogatory), i’ll bite ur dog, idk what women like lol i’ll just give her a horse, time to go crash a party ig, i will pout like a baby if you steal my mallet, how dare you insult my boots, miss sharma is AGGRAVATING why am i FEELING things for her literally what is this, oh wait it’s love lol gotta propose to her sister now, tHaT kNoT wOnT hOLd, oh no i’ve fallen in the water ahaha how silly of me. his entire demeanor is just “looks like i can’t gaslight gatekeep girlboss my way out of this one folks ://” and i love him SO much for it literally what an icon
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On re-watching does anyone else think that Benedict KNEW about Kate and Anthony the whole time, but was just straight vibing with no fucks to give.
i love in episode 5 and the study discussion where anthony's thread of thought makes absolutely no sense : "when will you leave for india", "don't you want to get married to someone", "btw why are you keeping me away from your sister????" "tell me that you hate me" *horny sniffles* that man is so lost and distraught and i love it
i mean look at this range of reactions
Anthony going from a depressed manwhore to a giddy with love malewife simp is the best development of the season
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