all this buttoning and unbuttoning

female deadbeat dad

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Dan

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All my letterboxd wrapped since 2019. only one year without the undead and monster classics 💔

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That one friend with killer branding #mypuzzles #myliquor

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Yall can you send me your favorite iwtv amvs. self plug encouraged

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my army

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Yall can you send me your favorite iwtv amvs. self plug encouraged

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what’s your “odd” comfort movie? a movie that isn’t stereotypically comforting but does comfort YOU? mine’s conclave (2024)

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My amazon purchases would lowkey be a red flag if i was a man. fortunately im a beautiful homosexual girl

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2 beers in at the arab place and Nina simone playing

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emergency meds/food help 5/21/26

does anyone have $10 or anything for a family of 7, 4 who're disabled, 2 kids under 15, in a abusive house for food and $$43 for my sister, April, meds that she takes to stay sane (PTSD, BPD) and healthy (ibs, frequent migraines, jaw pain after a botched surgery)? this is semi URGENT as she's been out of them FIVE DAYS please im begging we need any help to get through this anything helps. To get an uber to the store it's over 9 dollars and to get a ride back it's over 9. I'm screwed every way cause even if I found a way to get food I wouldn't get the meds. Please consider donating a dollar it'll add up quickly.

p3ypal: avatarerin

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v3nmo: skiesofperiwinkle

k0fi: gothkittygalore

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A Nile crocodile (Crocodylus niloticus) covered in pondweeds in Chobe National Park, Botswana

by flowcomm

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gay kafka gay barthes

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bela’s gay polka dot pjs

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Hard pill for people to swallow is that every type of person you hate can make good art. trying to fight this is straight copium

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Saw the post about black sails thing and im obsessed with the way you write. I agree with you but that isn't the point. Idk if your from the same country as i But it felt like home, like a conversation in a bar with you. I'll be back and thank you

Im lowkey shocked. thank you and youre welcome oomf

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Going out stay put for drunk say hi later

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Just a little bit Hii

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The idea that no matter how good the lesbian characters are theres a quota of sex scenes between gay men that a show needs to hit to not be considered "catered to straight people" is crazy as fuck. like im also unhappy about it but the world where big tv shows with queer stories need to also market themselves to a straight audience is literally the only world that exists. its the real world. And even outside of prestige tv men will find a way to sexualize women in every situation. your ideal authentic feminist portrayal of the unproblematic lesbian sex scene. guess what? Men at home jerking to it. so what do we do lol lets stop having sex altogether lest a straight man thinks about it and enjoys himself. lets add 10 minutes of gay men fucking every time we record 2 minutes of women together to scare straight men off. Whats the best ratio? 😂 get serious

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Going out stay put for drunk say hi later

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the looming spectre of yaoi is enough but lesbian sex has to literally happen onscreen. Just another thing black sails got perfectly right

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ill be honest my post was half a joke about how i like seeing lesbians sex on tv because im a lesbian and half a genuine jab at how most shows cower at the prospect of having to portray adult queer womens sexualities beyond the pg 13 wlw girlkisser yearning bullshit that so many people love. but also Suppose i believe in the argument that some shows and movies have evil lesbian sex scenes made for men and thus should be rejected. should we wait until the day men are unable to fetishize lesbians to be allowed to see grown women being sexual in movies and shows? that will unfortunately literally never happen. Then i also did literally mention black sails and to me the lesbian relationships in black sails are so far from what a man with a lesbian sex fetish would fantasize about that i cant even imagine how someone would justify thinking that their sex scenes are for the male viewer. but if this is a genuine question i will try to answer it

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Strictly talking about the canon the queer women from black sails are living completely different lives than the queer men and these differences explain why the narrative supports them and not flint and thomas to be fucking onscreen. Max starts out as a sex worker and for the majority of the show continues working at the brothel (later even sleeping with one of the girls which despite the brevity is also narratively a critical moment for obvious reasons). eleanor not only is romantically involved with max while shes a sex worker but also wrt optics gets benefits out of publicly being sexual the way a man would as the resident Boss (see her explicit jokes, the way she flaunts calling max up etc). anne we already meet as a pirate. Jack has her loyalty and jacks is all she has to lose. her gender & sexuality are being untangled simultaneously through the contrast and juxtaposition of her relationships with jack and with max. The unambiguity of all of their intimate scenes is suitable for the characters contexts and the respective narrative operations they serve are improved by it. the exact opposite is true for flint and thomas. The major tragedy in their relationship was precisely that they had to hide it and how dangerous being found out was for the lives they were living. Shame is clearly, textually, a key component of flints character and the unfulfilling quality of his sexual life in the present reflects that. thomas' "death" causes a suspension in his directive that flint knows no shame, and the pain caused by it culminates in the suppression of his sexuality which is why hes either not having any sex or having dysfunctional sex. basically what i mean is if straight male viewers enjoyed how that all turned out who gaf... its exactly how it has to be