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‼️Feel free to talk to me via asks. I’m also cool about DM’s as long as we’re mutuals and you’re 18+. MINORS DO NOT MESSAGE ME PRIVATELY. I’m happy to talk to you via asks but talking to a minor via DM’s just makes me uncomfortable. Plz understand and respect this‼️
‼️Minors are allowed on my account, however I cuss a lot and don’t really tag it well. I will also occasionally reblog 18+ fan content. If you’re uncomfortable with any of that, plz block the tag or just don’t follow‼️
😜Facts about me!
- I’m an INFP
- I’m a Scorpio
- I’m aro/ace but I’m still simping
-I’m neurodivergent
- I have a lot of dnd characters. Masterpost for their bio's in the links section of this post
- I’m British
😍Special interests and hyperfixations:
-My dnd OC’s
-Ace Attorney
-Danganronpa (only played first 2 games so far tho)
📎Links
Pronoun card: here
Anime watch list: here
D&D character bios: here
Kin list: here
Fan fiction: here
Aro/ace headcanon’s: here
Trans/nonbinary headcanon’s: here
#️⃣Tags
#north writes- my writing
#multishipper moment- rambling about a ship that probably doesn’t make much sense
#Norths ocs (my OC’s, dnd or otherwise)
#Darling Trouble (the ship name between my dnd OC’s Leucis and Greyson)
#Death Song (the ship name between my dnd OC's Warryn and Hecate)
(If I don’t tag anything that’s triggering please tell me and I’ll tag it straight away cuz I want my blog to be a safe and comfortable place for people)
Doing a revamp of a next gen au I started forever ago so here’s my headcanon’s for how each of the THH characters would be as parents
Naegi: doesn’t know what he’s doing most of the time but the kid ends up pretty well adjusted so clearly he did something right
Togami: Never super affectionate with his kid but the kinda dad you could call in a crisis and he’d bail you out, even if there’d be a side of berating along with it. Spoils his kid in some respects but also instills hard work, even if he doesn’t carry on his families fucked up tradition
Kirigiri: Raises them to follow in her footsteps but tries to be present and affectionate in the ways she knows how
Asahina: fun mum. Always trying to go play outside with her kid
Hagakure: fun but painfully useless dad. Knows too many dad jokes
Fukawa: so determined to give her kid a better life and upbringing. Has a meltdown every time she thinks she’s messed up
Syo: either has killed, or is willing to kill, anyone who messes with her child
Maizono: honestly such a caring and affectionate mum. Sometimes struggles with work-life balance tho
Kuwata: less your dad, more your friend. Big on teaching that you can do whatever you want and be whatever you want, tho
Fujisaki: best parent to help you with homework, honestly
Owada: Everyone thinks he’s the scary parent. He is in fact the softie parent.
Ishimaru: Gets just the biggest case of baby fever after his first child. Is determined to be the best parent ever and raise his kids perfectly.
Yamada: so much of this kids childhood is just gonna be cartoons good Lord-
Celeste: kid is either spoiled as hell or raised to be seen not heard, no in between
Ogami: mother of the year award right here honestly. Girl is the ultimate soft mother who can go full mama bear istg
Enoshima: Don’t let her have kids. If this kid survives childhood it’ll be a miracle💀
Ikusaba: no hate to Ikusaba but honestly, see above
i love queerplatonic relationships where one of them is aroace and the other isn't. i love when the allo character has a crush that fades over time. i love when they don't care what they are to each other as long as they're together. i love when romance is an option that they don't choose. i love when both aros and allos feel fulfilled without romance or sex.
both very funny and awfully frustrating that people will be like “just because this character is aromantic doesn’t mean they can’t be romance-favourable / in a romantic relationship 🥺” and then the character in question is canonically like “i hate romance so much it’s unreal”
Like yea some aro ppl are in relationships and do want that
but if i see you saying it about a character who very clearly states they dont want to be in a relationship i will loose my mind
Also for god sake if you are writing an aro character in a relationship please actually write how that effects their relationship not just write them as allo
I am always fascinated by the fact that while Hinata's biggest insecurity is being an average person, living a boring life Komaeda's biggest desire is to be an average person, living a boring peaceful life.
Dare I say this normality of Hinata is one of the things that attracted Komaeda to him?
TWs/CWs: mention of addiction, mention of bad mental health, swearing, colored text, bold text, italicized text
This post is intended for people looking to quit AI. Any harassment or insults toward the post or any individuals under it will be removed and blocked.
you know the fuck what? fine. you have an ai addiction. you're on c.ai and polybuzz ten hours a day, you're using chatgpt as a therapist, you're pouring feelings out to goddamn robots
and i don't blame you. it's not your fault. our brains are wired this way. it instantly validates us and we're programmed to want more of that. always remember that AI is just manipulating this facet of us, it's using us as goddamn tools. spite is as good of a motivator as any, so always carry your anger and blast it on AI.
and you know, it's hard to quit, too. you wanna quit? that's amazing. quitting is hard, i know, but caring enough to even want to let go is a huge first step. sometimes, the first thing you can really do is use it less than before, instead of just straight-up quitting. set an hour limit for that app, and then put it down. find a new hobby, make a new friend, write a new story.
i'll help you, man, we'll talk. i can message you. i can direct you to sites, i can give you pointers on writing or drawing by yourself for the first time. if i know you in real life, we could hang out. you can vent to me, i won't fucking tell a soul. you can rant and ask questions and i'll do what i can.
it's a terribly hard thing to get over. i still find myself wishing i'd log onto the site; i miss the bots i talked to, i miss the instant responses and the interactive roleplay, i miss doing whatever i wanted, i miss the false company. i miss it, i do, but i know what happens if i go back and i know i don't want that again, okay?
you're not weak. you're not pathetic. it's not your fault. you can work through it, i know you can, i fucking believe in you. i did it, and we may not be the same, but at least i stand as proof that it's possible.
Suggestions/Alternatives to specific situations:
Questions. Lots of people use AI to answer questions. r/AskReddit, and r/NoStupidQuestions are pretty okay resources for when you're throwing questions into the void. You could also make a post on Tumblr and reblog it around to some communities to answer, you could ask someone in real life, you could use Wikipedia, you could DM someone, or you could consult a book.
Homework. You could look up the lesson on YouTube, you could ask someone like your parents, a classmate, a friend, a teacher, a tutor, or a sibling for help. Looking over your notes is always a good idea. If you're struggling, you could make a post on a social media site concerning your problem. If you're lazy, copy your friend, a classmate, or sibling (NOTE: I do not encourage plagiarism, never copy anything just off the internet and make sure you have someone's consent before asking for answers).
Art. You could learn to draw, though that's lengthy. If you're just looking for character design, use a character maker like Picrew, the Lunime games (Gacha Life etc), The Sims, or Dollify, and this Reddit thread lists many more. If you need something to be drawn and you don't wanna do it, you could ask your artist friend to draw for you or commission an artist. You could also make the scene yourself and take a photo.
Roleplay/Writing/Fanfiction. You could open a Google doc, a Word file, the notes app, or even just pull out a piece of goddamn paper and start writing your concepts. Fuck Hero's Journey, fuck plot points, fuck grammar, fuck spelling, just pick up a pen and start writing anything to do with your story. Character names, events, whatever you wanna happen will happen. You can ask authors on the internet for help if needed. Roleplaying usually concerns another person; if you're someone who plays either game, you could invite a friend to a Roblox or Minecraft server. You could ask a friend to roleplay in DMs/text, you could interact with Tumblr roleplay blogs, you could play with dolls in real life (i've actually done this!). As for fanfiction (that you don't wanna write), AO3, Wattpad, FANDOM, Webtoon and even some Tumblr blogs will do that. All you need to do is search up your tags and fandoms.
Ranting/Venting. The most popular option is to make a vent/rant post on a site, though this is very public and many people may not want to. You might also vent/rant to a friend or family member, whether online or in real life; you may also rant or vent in a Discord server or channel made for that purpose, though once again a risky choice and not preferable for those who like privacy. Keeping a diary, whether it be written, in video format, or some other way, is also affective for some people. Sometimes doing things like vent art or writing a story/poetry works (I do this).
Music. Noteflight, Musescore, and Flat.io are beginner-friendly and good for writing regular music with notes and stuff - most of these also have public works so you can learn songs. Soundtrap is a beginner-friendly site for people putting sounds together to experiment. For people looking to learn an instrument or vocals, YouTube is a great source for tutorials and introductions to music, instruments, and music theory. Duolingo, if you use it, offers a shitty music theory course. As a band kid who's tried it, I don't suggest it. Other music theory sites include The Music Theory Site, musictheory.net, and this iconcollective article I found. As for learning instruments, Yousician, Simply Piano, Simply Guitar, Perfect Piano, Drumeo, and Tonestro seem to be popular choices.
Other/Miscellaneous/Extra:
- Lots of people are gonna tell you that reading fanfiction is "basically the same thing." No, it's not. Fanfiction is very fun and I will always recommend reading it, but it is not equivalent to the experience one receives with c.ai - something that offers the same freedom AI chat apps will give you is writing your own fanfic/story.
- youraislopboresme is a very fun website. it usually doesn't work as a real tool, but it's fun as hell to mess around with and can fill in for the time you usually spend on an AI app.
- incorrect quotes are a fun ass thing to do with your OCs/blorbos. AI free and creepily accurate.
- If you have an OC with extensive lore, make a Tumblr blog about it. You may not get many interactions but what the hell, you're sharing your work, and that's better than AI slop.
that's all i've got. any questions will be answered as well as I can answer them. i hope this post will help someone <3
