[moonlitmartyr]

I hate ruminating on what could have been. Out here thinking "if only I locked in when I was 13" are we serious

[aidashakur]

[notyourjaan]

Hey friends, I’m still alive! lol I always feel so nostalgic when I come back here

[weltonboys]

backwards - warsan shire

[notyourjaan]

I filed my restraining order today. I am so afraid of the decision. I won’t find out til early next week so I need to find a way to keep my brain busy

[notyourjaan]

This was a year ago. After a 5 months court case I wasn’t given the restraining order due to logistics.

So I wrote a bill and next Wednesday my bill eliminating the logistics issue is being signed into law.

We’ve come a long way my friends. There is further to go, but we’ve come a long way.

[fyeahjdrama-deactivated20230903]

Takane to Hana (2019)

[postcard-confessions]

“I’m becoming who I am and it’s the scariest thing I’ve ever done.” Posted from the PostSecret website.

[notyourjaan]

Helloooo if we had each other on IG or are mutuals (or want to be!) please add me on IG again! I had to remake mine 😭 it’s @nvzeehah

[notyourjaan]

1. Finding exactly what you’re looking for in a store

2. When it feels like the world stands still for a second

3. To feel like I still have so much to look forward to

[notyourjaan]

TW: sexual assault

One year ago today, I was sexually assaulted. In the months following, I was denied both a police report and restraining order due to residency status. Today I’m rewriting our laws - and I’m asking for your support.

Sign the petition urging lawmakers to introduce and pass the bill granting 25 million survivors the civil right to a restraining order and police report regardless of the state they live in. When laws protecting survivors are weak, laws protecting perpetrators are strong.

Let’s make protection borderless.

Note: you don’t have the donate! If you choose to, the money goes to change.org to help promote the petition.

Sign the Petition

Demand Restraining Order Access for Sexual Assault Survivors

[notyourjaan]

TW: sexual assault

One year ago today, I was sexually assaulted. In the months following, I was denied both a police report and restraining order due to residency status. Today I’m rewriting our laws - and I’m asking for your support.

Sign the petition urging lawmakers to introduce and pass the bill granting 25 million survivors the civil right to a restraining order and police report regardless of the state they live in. When laws protecting survivors are weak, laws protecting perpetrators are strong.

Let’s make protection borderless.

Note: you don’t have the donate! If you choose to, the money goes to change.org to help promote the petition.

Sign the Petition

Demand Restraining Order Access for Sexual Assault Survivors

[notyourjaan]

1. Ikea

2. Having access to medication

3. The fact that every cell in my body is doing its best to protect me from harm

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[notyourjaan]

1. Having a bed and room of my own to sleep in

2. Being able to work from home

3. When I don’t have to worry about cooking

[notyourjaan]

1. The sound of rain on my roof

2. Electric blankets

3. The flowers my nieces and nephew bought me

[notyourjaan]

I’m very glad that you come back to this blog every so often. I hope that you’re doing well, and that you’re having a warm and happy holiday 🎄🫶🏽❤️

This is so very kind and thank you for seeing me. I hope you’re having a lovely holiday too ♥️♥️♥️

[notyourjaan]

1. Christmas movies

2. Having access to an oven

3. That the holidays with a freshly broken family aren’t as bad as I thought they’d be