https://www.tumblr.com/notyourreality/822763334012174336/pjms-want-jimin-to-be-removed-from-any-shipping?source=share
Whether you think the ship in kpop stands for friendship or relationship, or think that Jimin plays into it, that doesn't mean shippers get to lie, harass and minimise him. It's just a form of victim blaming to act like him having skinship with some of the members means he deserves the frankly unhinged behaviour he and the people close to him experience from them. Jimins a grown man but it doesn't mean we won't call out this sort of behaviour when we see it.
I get that things like RPS are grey areas and I do roll my eyes when pjms lecture others about not shipping real people (though I agree) but imo if a shipper is going to quote a gen tweet and make some weird sexual comment about Jimin, then they're the ones not respecting boundaries in fandom. And a hit tweet gets attention from everyone regardless so let's not act like this is unhinged solo behaviour when it's very standard fandom stuff
Also nobody says armys can't dislike groups like seventeen or txt even if BTS and Txt are close or JK is extremely close to Mingyu but why do pjms have to like every member of BTS just because Jimin is close to them? Pjms treat Jimin like he's a baby but armys act like BTS are the marketing department, board of directors, and c-suite of bighit and that's normal?
I don't think this anon is being awful or unreasonable - I get where they're coming from but why are we pretending that all this is some kind of anomalous behaviour from pjms? If you spend even a minute recontextualizing this, it is all standard fandom behaviour. The lie being peddled is that solos are worse than armys when we're exactly the same except our priority is Jimin and armys priority is god knows what (not Jimin anyway)
Yes it looks like victim blaming and itās a way to strip shippers of any responsibility for their actions. Itās also playing into armys/taekookers narrative about Jimin.
Iām not expecting anything from people online, no matter the fandom, but Armys thinking theyāre morally superior is a joke. They hate every other kpop idol regardless of their closeness with BTS. Their first reaction to any dating rumor is to harass women even though thereās a big chance of them actually being involved with the members. And then they come around telling solos BTS will hate them for not supporting every member or for hating their friends. Canāt they see how stupid they sound? Or do they think BTS only love or care for each other and no one else? Or that only BTS are deserving of basic respect?
Armys infantilize the members or act like theyāre in control of everything depending on the situation. Solos do the same. Itās more nuanced than this though.