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[pseudophan]

This really is the most torturous slow-burn fic of all time

one day we’ll get there anon. one day.

[nyaalert25]

I think people are being dumbasses about the Emily Gwen situation.

Yes callouts are often used against the queer community and shouldn’t be taken at face value. But very clearly this person has lied to collect 100k+ from a very vulnerable population!! It’s not a fascist move to call that out!! We have to protect our community by building a safer and more truthful one. And we’re not going to do that by sweeping it under the rug and devolving into more infighting.

I hate the idea that my queer online communities would let me get away with stuff if I’m just queer or whatever. No!! And the people harmed by this grift again are not just anyone, but usually fellow queer people struggling in poverty. And the evidence really is piling up, and has been more monthsss.

(And no this doesn’t excuse the fat phobia and classism coming from people commenting on it)

Standing up for these people is not being a “cop” it’s community. And the most classist person here is clearly Emily Gwen/Julia cosplaying as a impoverished person to get money off of a struggling community

[nyaalert25]

Emily Gwen getting exposed is my lesbian superbowl

[nyaalert25]

Free of her awful takes on the timeline 🙏🙌

[nyaalert25]

Emily Gwen getting exposed is my lesbian superbowl

[nyaalert25]

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[queercowboyinspace]

If you can't watch it on streaming, both Heated Rivalry episodes are available here

these twitter accounts upload the episodes on multiple platforms to download: account 1 | account 2

[nyaalert25]

M

[alchemisedsenlinyu]

the incest diary, anonymous

[weltonboys]

i don’t know why i bite

unknown / tusk - fleetwood mac / gods country - ethel cain / foreword to homer’s odyssey - emily wilson / summer sons - lee mandelo / the dream thieves - maggie steifvater / isle of dogs (2018) / bite the hand - boygenius

[nyaalert25]

I feel like everyone talking about TJ Klune’s racism in the House in the Cerulean sea are acting like this is a new issue when there is also a fair amount of racism within Wolfsong?

- because why was the one Hispanic character is constantly saying “papi” and “alfa” every other sentence

- and there’s the huge issue of the Bennett family being super white (blond blue eyes) and constantly talking about the Oregon land as there “own” and how their family has a deep connection to the land and that’s why they deserve it. The have been there one hundred years tops

The white savior complex has been something present in TJ Klunes novels for a while.

[sadhoc]

the worst part of having a doctor tell you to "reduce stress" is that it is legitimately impossible for the vast majority of people. quitting your stressful job will result in stressful homelessness, stressful starvation, and stressful poverty. cutting of stressful family and friends will result in stressful loneliness, stressful drama, and stressful accusations. logging off the stressful social media will also result in stressful loneliness, being stressfully out of the loop, and stressful boredom. ignoring stressful politics will result in stressful lack of preparation for stressful curtailing of your personal liberties and stressful cuts to every public service you use. it's impossible to not be stressed unless you're literally some kind of richtok nepo baby, and even those weirdos have the "stress" of managing their servants and deciding which olympic sized swimming pool on their stressfully massive property is better for hosting their stressful sweet sixteens.

really being told to "reduce stress" or that your illness is caused by stress is being told "suck it up and get out of my office. also it's technically your fault for living in the real world"

Edit stop arguing this was a vent about having a neurologist who seems to have graduated from clown school instead of med school, plus i'm a marxist leninist

[nyaalert25]

Also it does not matter if stress is causing the issues because they are still happening.

If you are having physical health issues because of stress they still need to be treated. Plenty of people do not get physical health effects from stress. And stress is a part of life intrinsically.

Im so sick and tired of going to the doctors and having to make sure not to mention a single thing about my daily life. My constant nausea is a sign of my stress but I was denied medication -because- it was caused by stress (even though I had been previously prescribed this medication before and it worked well). This has happened to me with multiple different health problems throughout my life (I was on my period for 2+ months and told it was because of stress) ((I later found out it was pcos when I went to a doctor who I didn’t mention my daily life to))

It just baffles me. This was all from normal school stress. Not even divorce, or grief, or lost jobs, or breakups, or late rent, or anything else this awful world can provide. When I mention I was having trouble in school it’s like a lightbulb appears above the heads of doctors and they can tell me to go to therapy or just halt my daily life and live in a cushioned room I guess. Insane

And being handed a therapy voucher can only do so much. Therapy can be very helpful for some people, but the fact is that talking about my problems for an hour twice a month is not going to make it so my chronic lifelong nausea goes away. It’s not going to make my chronic migraines go away (even though a therapist has told me that letting go of stress will help with my migraines and nausea) ((the real thing that helped with my migraines was daily medication and blue light glasses, which a neurologist helped me figure out.)) (((you know someone who is actually equipped to handle these issues and not a therapist. Though I did carefully avoid mentioning anything about my life to the neurologist))) Talking about my problems is not going to magically solve my terribly irregular uterus. It’s frankly infantilizing that I am told that my mismanaging of emotions is causing these chronic medical problem and not like. My body. Stress can and will cause medical issues but ignoring the issues and telling people to just fix their lives is not solving the issues.

There’s also probably some misogyny cooked in there too. AFAB People tend to get diagnosed with more mental issues when presenting physical ailments when compared to AMAB people. Not saying that mental illness is not real, because they very much are!!! But should not be used as a reason to skip on actually providing medical care

[calmtonight]

starting a collection

[mirrorgrets]

a comic on secrets

[sixty-silver-wishes]

so I was looking around at some posts abt the neil gaiman thing and obviously, I've been seeing some people talking about good omens. but one thing that sorta stood out to me were some posts wondering about whether or not they should stop watching the show because they "don't want to leave" david tennant and michael sheen, or that they feel bad for these actors due to gaiman's actions.

whether or not you choose to continue to watch the show is up to you. but if you feel this way, please remind yourself that you (probably) don't know david tennant and michael sheen, either. I'm not saying that they did anything like gaiman did, but I find it ironic that some people are attaching themselves parasocially to these actors, especially after gaiman abused the parasocial relationship his fans had with him as a shield against his even more reprehensible sexual abuse. tennant and sheen hopefully aren't abusers, but nonetheless, please consider the degree of your attachment to them. they're not your friends; they won't be upset if you choose not to watch their show.

I also think it makes sense to feel bad for them, but please remember that tennant and sheen were not the people hurt most by neil gaiman's actions. the conversation should stay focused on gaiman's victims, both the women he abused and his child, whom he traumatized.

[minyard-05]

and if i said. andreil perhaps

[cowboycostume]

it's second nature to love you, it's first to die | cold love - rainbow kitten surprise

[fleshadept]

wwdits onedrive!!

as requested, here is a drive with all the wwdits episodes on it including the new season 4 episodes. i’ll keep updating it each week as they come out!