I am genderfluid, and view my gender on a spectrum. I usually stay in the middle, where it’s nonbinary.
I came out to my friends and some relatives as nonbinary because thats where I most usually feel like, and they’re having a really hard time getting my pronouns correctly. I use they/them, but I dont mind he/him, its the she/her that annoys me. One of my friends has other trans friends that he doesnt misgender, but they only misgender me somehow.
He is also fruity, and had been bullied for it before so he overcompensates by hanging around me, trying to kiss me jokingly, hugging me and convincing people that they like me.
He recently told me, “It’s cause you know...”
And I looked at them puzzled, “What do you mean?”
and then he said, “You know, cause your a woman.”
I stared at him and I could swear I felt someone stab me. I was really hurt and confused so I said, “What?”
And he said, “Ohhh. Right, your nonbinary.”
the way they said it, the way it sounded.. It hurt and launched me into a fit of Dysphoria that was really really bad. And since I had to be feminine the next day to a party, it really hurt. I couldnt look at myself, I burst into tears when I got home, and the next day almost had an anxiety attack walking to school with my makeup on.
The problem is, they use he/them pronouns and are nonbinary themselves. I honesty feel disrespected, and this wasnt the only time, it has always happened.
I hadnt even come out to my class and one of my friends outed me to correct somebody who used the wrong pronouns. While I am happy about this sentiment, he also said: “She’s nonbinary.”
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