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POV: a millennial working with GenZ :))
Having boys is like
Borko: Smell my feet!
Ogi: Smell my butt!
Borko: Let's smell the bed where mom was sitting!
Ogi: EWW
All day every day 😌
Working from home today, because I couldn't get up on time.
Need shower so bad.
I decided to start a diet yesterday so I ate a croissant with my coffee and how I'm eating chocolate. Not a great start for a diet. It's like I went out of my way not to be on a diet. 🤷
I miss you too.
But I need to continue missing you for a while.
Empty house. Unfinished breakfast. Worn pajamas on the couch. Random ducktape on the floor. Toys.. toys everywhere. Even outside (left for the cat so she doesn't get bored).
I need to tidy up the place but I can't. More than 2 years now and it doesn't get better, not to the slightest.
It's so fucking quiet.
At least I have two friends that are always there. I wouldn't be here without them.
And when it rains it fucking pours,
but I think I like it,
And you know that I'm in love with the mess,
I think I like it
We have a guest tonight. Borko is treating the cat better than he treats his little brother, sharing his toys and everything! 🤦
You can be cool, but you can never be "a mom that forgot she have a leaf hat on her head, spending the last hour like this, traveling in a bus full with people completely unbothered" cool. ✌️
Imagine my surprise when that elevator door opened 😒
Tarantula gang gang right from the stereo
I was supposed to be alone tonight but the universe (the ex husband) had other plans. Going to pick up the kids again and take it as a win!
This might be the best Inpatient song whatsoever.
Always the weirdest mom on the playground! Always.
Will I ever accept and embrace that?
I need a sign
A few days ago (more than a week now) I stopped all kinds of communication with my ex and also the guy I was currently seeing.
It was scary at first. Especially the first day. I am so used to having some sort of attention..someone to check on me every now and then. A daily compliment or just a "good morning ❤️".
I am taught that I need a man to survive. It's been printed onto my brain since arriving on this earth. And it really does feel scary to be single. Let alone a single mom.
But during these few days of having no one but myself (this happens for the first time in 10 years btw) i am not scared at all. I don't feel differently, I don't miss the "good morning" messages. I used to put so much weight on these little things, as they are what I rely on most. Like they are of the utmost importance.
But no.
The full picture is what matters. Not how I feel today, but how I feel overall. The little compliment will make me smile, but will not heal the wound of making me feel unseen.
Still .. I'm confused.
I opened Pinterest now and said to myself: the first image I see will be my sign. And this was it.
It was not helpful. It looks like little me and I don't like the little me and I don't wanna remember. She had no confidence and no space to be herself. She was bullied, but the worst part is she was bullying herself too (still does).
And my next thought was .. yes, ofc he remembers me. We're connected by a red thread, no matter if I like it or not. Does this make sense?
I wish people on social media were more honest. I like funny, I like profound, but please be real to me.
Show me the ugliness.
Deya: Boris, can we run and you chase me like a dinosaur?
😊😊😊
Some office updates .. got moved in another room today. I kinda miss the old spice, but working with the boss son is not bad as well. We found out we both have Jinx as wallpapers, which was kinda funny.
I'm really surprised with this Easy Mac music that I just discovered today. Never expected to get into songs about drugs, but here we are.
#easymac #jinx
Binge listening to Ren again in the bus.
This guy really gets me choked on some lyrics.
Borko shared recently that these two kids in the daycare are calling him a "name". I asked him "Is that making you smile, is it funny or making you angry?"
And he said "I think it's making me sad."
I felt like I had a knot in my throat. As a mom I know I can't protect my kids from everything. And I should not .. And I don't want to. Removing every pain and obstacle along the way does not build resilience and I know I won't be there forever .. but it's still painful watching.
In Ren's "Money ties" song he says "Fuck bullies, Fuck the jealous, Fuck every man who made you feel less than a treasure".
The lyrics are about his little sister, but it made me think of my kids. I really want to teach them to see their own worth, even when others try to make them feel small. To be kind without becoming doormats, and confident without becoming cruel.
But it's particularly hard when I'm the one setting the example.
#ren #motherhood
Easy Mac - Admit it
Started with Maphra and now we're here. Finding some really dope songs today.
Boys and girls .. my queen released another cover.. I've been off YouTube for the weekend (because it was occupied by kids), but now, on my way to work, I can peacefully enjoy this. And I know it's gonna be fire, before I even actually play it. 🔥
ALSO! Also... Unethical is such a powerful song, I deeply love the original .. i just can't wait to see what Maphra did to it .. Let's go! 😭🙏❤️🔥
Before and after
And during
We actually had a good time at the barbershop.
Ogi was treated like a real gentleman.
I can't deny, I totally miss his curls and long hair! 🥺
Borko looks really cool too!
It's so unfair.. everyone (teachers at daycare, neighbors, friends, family, random people) .. everyone was giving advices "cut his hair, cut his hair, he looks like a girl" .. well it looks like a boy now, but the first thing our neighbor granny said was "Awww why did you cut his hair, he was so beautiful before, I don't like him this way".
People will always put their noses into everyone else's business.. and will never be happy and have anything good to say ..
Well I like Ogi in any shape and form. But it's unfair what he is going through with these comments. If only it was possible for everyone to mind their own business..
Tomorrow is Monday (daycare day) and I told him "The teacher will love your new look, you'll see!" and he said .. "No, she will just smile a little bit".
Waiting for Ogi's transformation