Another Educated Black Queen

IG: @xqueenbree

[wifislim]

[dafancyuhinspiration]

[crooklynn]

[dafancyuhinspiration]

[overclassy]

[ivc3]

[dayosha]

[1o9]

[hasnain-90]

[faustique]

if there is anything that life has taught me it's that a big heart needs big boundaries

[kyotoprotocols]

[04k96]

[meeshaa1917]

[theone1n]

[jc-shoots]

[saintmarc]

[stuckinapril]

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??