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like there is a point i’m making by not tagging spoilers for Poussey’s death, people.
the fact that 99% of the outrage surrounding this latest on-screen death is about spoiler warnings instead of about what actually happened is very relevant to this conversation.
the fact that the outrage for the very brutal and racialized way she was murdered is so much smaller than people being mad they know about it too soon to enjoy seeing it themselves? that’s important. that says something about the way we think about these things.
and the fact that this “spoilers!” outrage wasn’t there when we all knew within minutes when other high-profile tv deaths happened in April? that’s important too. that says something about who is more important than spoilers - and who is not.
I saw multiple complaints about spoilers before I saw even a whisper of what had happened. In April, I don’t think I saw a single complaint about spoilers. In April, 80% of the LGBT characters who died were women of colour, but the most high-profile case was a white woman. How many WOC can you name from the April Massacre? Because they were the bulk of it.
Now a black lesbian dies on TV in a particularly brutal way at a particularly cruel time and people are suddenly worried about not being able to properly enjoy her death.
That’s relevant. Our reactions are relevant to this conversation, because the cultural attitudes that create media like this are not mysteriously absent from the fandom that consumes it.
I’ve gotten a message from someone who said they were happy I spoiled it because it means they won’t be triggered by it. I care WAY more about a person not getting triggered and not having a panic attack, than having some whiny person cursing at me about a damn spoiler. So I refuse to tag my posts as spoilers and will no longer apologize for it.
I don’t watch The 1OO nor do I follow people who do, and yet? My dash is full of outrage with no one tagging it. Minutes after Lexa was killed it blew up. But I’m getting cursed at over a post being made 1-2 days after the show?
And considering the Pulse shooting happened just last Sunday, I really think it was in poor taste (putting it lightly) of OITNB to not make any effort to add a warning or even postpone the season knowing damn well what would happen. People are legit upset they can’t be “surprised” when a black lesbian woman is suffocating to death. Like why do y’all wanna see that so badly? That’s apart of your watching enjoyment? A woman struggling to breath?
I’m curious to know if people actually did tag #spoilers what people would be upset about instead? Because to me this outrage of spoilers just reeks of people not wanting to acknowledge what actually happened. They insist that their anger over a spoiler is the same as our anger over yet another black and LGBTAQ character be killed. It’s a way to shift the conversation about them and their feelings and not the feelings of people disgusted over the death of an amazing black lesbian character.
(And I’m willing to bet the people who are defending/justifying Poussey’s death are probably the same people who defended/justified Abbie Mills death in Sleepy Hollow. It seems like anytime a black woman dies, her death is supposed to be for a reason and never that the writers are just shitty.)
Every white person talking about how Poussey Washington’s murder at the hands of police/security officers is meant to “teach us something” needs to shut the entirety of every fuck up.
What you fail to realize is that this is NOT something that Black people, especially Black WLW need to learn. We. Already. Know. We are constantly mourning our fallen sisters. I don’t need to see my favorite character senselessly murdered so I can “learn something” from the “message they’re trying to send.”
White writers killing off Black WLW so that white people can feel something or learn something is trash, racist, and white privilege at its finest.
It only works because white people have the emotional distance and lack of empathy for Black characters required to view a senseless death and think “hmm…what am I supposed to learn from this” instead of the visceral angry reaction they have when white characters they personally relate to are murdered on screen. That’s why there was an entire internet campaign and articles from media outlets about Lexa’s death while Poussey’s murder is met with “oh this was a well executed message” and “omg spoiler alert!” White people were angry about Lexa because they saw themselves in her. It was personal. But a dead Black WLW is an accurate and appropriate enough representation of “real life” to “teach a lesson” because of course this is what we expect to happen to Black WLW on screen and off, it’s what happens to “those people.” Black WLW are supposed to be miserable and brutalized and then senselessly murdered because that’s how society always treats us. That’s why it’s a “message.”
Too often media “messages” are really just white writers saying “we created a fictional version of what happens to Black people in every day life for guiltless white entertainment & consumption because we can’t admit we’re entertained by the actual 24/7 news coverage of murdered Black people.”
Sandra Bland is real. Eric Garner is real. All the Black trans women who are murdered and get no justice are real. There is plenty of real video footage of Black women and men being brutalized and murdered by the police. In fact, many Black folks are trying to get a reprieve from that reality when we turn on shows like OITNB to see happy, smiling Black WLW. The reality of being Black in America is bleak enough, we don’t need to turn on the TV to see people that look like us being murdered, especially so that white people can “learn something.” Now, Black people are left to mourn yet another Black person because white entertainment and “learning” is more important than Black people’s emotional well-being and careers (because Samira Wiley is real and is now no longer on the show).
In the end, when white people say Poussey’s death was well-executed, or was meant to teach people something, or send a message, they mean “white writers murdered a Black person on screen to entertain and teach white people.” Because it sure as hell isn’t meant to teach Black people anything accept what we already know: we’re expendable and our deaths are and always will be entertainment for white people. If you wanna teach white people something, get them a book or link them to Google, don’t kill off a Black character.
In short, fuck white Hollywood’s “lessons” about police brutality & the lack of care and respect for Black bodies and lives. BLACK PEOPLE ALREADY KNOW AND IF WHITE PEOPLE NEED FICTIONAL “LESSONS” BECAUSE THE REAL LIVE DEATHS OF BLACK PEOPLE AREN’T GETTING THROUGH, THEY WERE NEVER GOING TO LEARN ANYWAY.
I’m in shock that Orange Is the New Black killed off Poussey, a black lesbian. But I’m not too surprised by the people defending it. Even less surprised that the main people who are straight and/or white. That part doesn’t surprise me in the slightest because of course y’all would. And the excuses your making to justify her unjustifiable death are even less surprising…
Like first off, some of y’all need to stop telling others how to feel about this. We have every right to be upset. Regardless of the “context” you still had another black character killed. A black lesbian character. We see black and LGBTAQ people be killed almost all the time, we’re tired of it. Can’t even watch TV without seeing our bodies be harmed. People have been talking about all the lesbian and bisexual woman characters that have been killed, OITNB just joined the list of Bury Your Gays. The unsettling part is y’all praising this. There’s nothing to praise when an innocent character is killed off.
This whole “oh it’s bringing awareness to start conversations” thing y’all keep saying is utter bullshit. Bringing awareness to something that’s been all over the news? This discussion of police brutality has been going on for years now. We’ve been talking, you just haven’t been listening. Did y’all really need a fucking Netflix show written by white people to tell you black people are getting murdered more than anyone else? Really now? Us talking about wasn’t enough, so you needed one of your fav fictional characters to be killed off to get it? Our word wasn’t enough? You couldn’t empathize with a real human being but a fictional character is pulling your heart strings?
But even if I wanted to believe your “starting conversation” bullshit, OITNB writers did a poor fucking job. Out of all the shitty guards that could’ve killed Poussey, it was the timid guard, Bayley. Since he arrived the writers had us sympathizing with him. He’s young, intimated, and untrained. So him ACCIDENTALLY killing Poussey after showing us his flashbacks is to sympathize with him even more is worse. Having a likable character accidentally kill another likable character is bad because it makes you sympathize with both characters, not just the one who’s dead.
Let’s get one thing clear: Police Brutality is NOT an accident, it is a deliberate act of violence to establish control.
If the writers really wanted to join the conversation, then they should’ve had Piscatella, who’s constantly shown he’s an asshole, PURPOSELY kill Poussey or any other black inmate. The writers could’ve shown us that gay white men can be just has misogynistic and racist as anyone else. That any cop regardless of their sexual orientation or race or gender can be on a power trip. That’s a conversation piece. No this. The conversation that is happening is that the writers didn’t quiet understand what they were doing.
We didn’t see a death that was supposed to be about social awareness and our culture as a whole. We got the graphic death of character who’s finally happy after 3 seasons be killed off for shock value.
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the number one surefire way to make people remember something is to annoy them so here’s an annoying announcement that some of the douchebags i keep seeing are gonna get mad at and then remember because it made them mad
[sidenote: gay/bi/pan/etc, trans, and ace are not mutually exclusive identities and this comic does not imply that. just in case anyone tries to get picky. you can be het-ace-trans and acephobic/biphobic, aro-gay-trans and homophobic, etc etc. endless possibilities exist for being a shitty person.]
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How do you kinkshame someone whose kink is shame without having to kinkshame yourself for shaming someone who gets off on shame?
HOW MUCH KINK COULD A KINKSHAME SHAME IF A KINKSHAME COULD SHAME KINK?
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