ducky

instagram @oisynbly_ LGB(T) • they/them

[oisynbly]

Snow date ❄️ 🤎

[androginking]

ducky and i are still going strong everyone ❤️

[andele-eli]

MY FAVES

[oisynbly]

Me having to cut through the cobwebs on my account to log back into this thing

[internet]

[stolentweets]

[whatsfreebaseandwhatsfreeabouti]

Omfg this is of that kid he looks exactly the same

[atlanxic-deactivated20250205]

sometimes you say or do bad things while you’re in an awful mental place. sometimes you say things that are rude or uncalled for or manipulative. and i’m not going to hold that against you. mental illness is hard, and no one is perfect. but once you’re through that episode, you need to take steps to make amends. you need to apologize.

“i couldn’t help it, i was having a bad episode” is a justification, not an apology.

“i’m so fucking sorry, i fucked up, i don’t deserve to live, i should stop talking to anyone ever, i should die” is a second breakdown and a guilt trip. it is not an apology.

when you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. “i’m sorry. i did something that was hurtful to you. even if i was having a rough time, you didn’t deserve to hear that,” is a better apology. if it was a small thing, you can leave it at that.

if you caused significant distress to the other person, this is a good time to talk about how you can minimize damage in the future. and again, even if it is tempting to say you should self-isolate and/or die, that is not a helpful suggestion. it will result in the person you’re talking to trying to talk you out of doing that, which makes your guilt the focus of the conversation instead of their hurt.

you deserve friendship, and you deserve support. but a supportive friend is not an emotional punching bag, and mental illness does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions. what you say during a mental breakdown doesn’t define you. how you deal with the aftermath though, says a lot.

[nebet-ren]

This is the most carefully-nuanced discussion of this I think I have ever seen. Thank you for writing this.

[oisynbly]

just throwing this out there

i’d love to get into a dnd game with a group of people, if anyone has a campaign going where y’all meet online instead of in person I would love to hear about it 

[oisynbly]

so looks like im not alone lol

don’t do it because you think I’ll join it bc odds are I might hop on another campaign that reaches out before anyone gets something new going 

BUT if this is also something that you would be interested in and you wanna organize a group through this post by all means go for it, dudes

I will try to help with giving you guys a site to use to actually play through and possibly joining the team if I don’t hop on another game first

[androginking]

merry crisis from our lil grinch fam to yourz.

Lovee,

@duckduckdude & the worst

[oisynbly]

bah humbug and a crappy new year ❤️ 

[androginking]

Woodlands — Andro Gin , Drag King , Miami FL

[androginking]

So this happened on my IG today — featuring the love and support of @duckduckdude ‘s hands fjdkfn

[oisynbly]

the light of my life. I love you baby 😘

[androginking]

I saw your tasteful nudes and all I can think of is the fact that it would be cool to have a comic book where you're a siren that lives in the ocean and Ducky is a sailor that instead of being completely seduced by you and falling to his death, just goes out of his way to try and date you. This includes standing on the sand at the shore stiffly and screaming incoherently until you appear to shut him up.

Sounds like us @duckduckdude

[oisynbly]

sounds just like us

[androginking]

To those wondering, @duckduckdude and I are still happily together 💞 — via my IG story today

[oisynbly]

she’s such a cutie wow

[kuuras]

🎃 ★ ° 🕸️ O c t o b e r : Movies You Can Watch This Halloween 🕸️ ° ★ 🎃

[oisynbly]

[oisynbly]

it’s important for cis people to be exposed to the bs trans ppl see everyday. I don’t share these a lot, but today I did. you can see it all here if you want to.

[oisynbly]

[oisynbly]

🎈this is my face one month on testosterone vs one year on testosterone if you’re not following my instagram @duckduckdude 🎈

I’ll be posting a voice comparison over there soon 💫

[yetanotherphotosetblog]

[androginking]

The Official Andro Gin Store is finally launched and fully stocked with brand new merch! These shirts and the sweatshirt are so comf you guys. Also can we just note how hot @duckduckdude looks?

[oisynbly]

support queer women that work in a male dominated industry ‼️👑💫

also these designs are fricken beautiful and super great for October y’all ‘tis the season to get spooky 🎃🖤🎃🖤