dont worry about it

cassidy | late-20s | it's mainly fallen hero brainrot hours over here but honestly who knows

[hil-arrr-y]

Two job-hunting resources that changed my life:

This cover letter post on askamanger.com. A job interview guide written by Alison Green, who runs askamanager.

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

Shout-out to @ms-demeanor for putting these on my dash again, I’d like to add this exceptional interview question “answer guide” that explains traps and “the best” way to answer over 64 common questions. I don’t know who to attribute it to, but here it is: PDF from tri valley one-stop career center.

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

Hey some of these answer templates helped J get an offer letter from her dream job; strongly recommend you read them if you’re job hunting

[alphacrone]

pulling yourself up by your strap-on or whatever they say

[pouringforever]

Brothy lentils with caramelized onion aïoli and crispy chilli oil. So gorgeously rich and unctuous, if hard to photograph appealingly

[pouringforever]

The recipe, can you all make it out?

I'm confused by the amount of water it suggests to add - I would reccomend adding about 4 times as much water at least

[matumnaples]

Before June I have to share one of my favorite tiktoks

[asexual-amanita]

As summer is approaching, I’d like to remind everyone that you are not entitled to ask someone to cover up their scars, self inflicted or not. I don’t care if they’re big, I don’t care if they’re noticeable, or purple, or all over their body, or what. You can’t police people’s bodies.

[asexual-amanita]

This also goes for my friends with feeding tubes, ostomy bags, central lines and urinary catheters. People are allowed exist in bodies that stray from the expected norm.

[dumnslut]

[jenny-holzer]

[eebie]

I just ate one

[eebie]

You can lie when you name things

[poetrylesbian]

good news everyone

[probuccalfat]

these women did wonders for the “i’m single and i like it that way” community… i’m having a sexy ass life!

[lilkakow]

Images created solely using mathematical equations by mathematical artist Hamid Naderi Yaganeh

[b33tlejules]

some cheyrhan doodles for @tira3sii !! happy bday !!

[melancholic-whimsy]

they hate me for my flat facial expressions and inability to contribute to conversations

[lady-of-the-harbour]

NAUSICAÄ OF THE VALLEY OF THE WIND 風の谷のナウシカ (1984) dir. Hayao Miyazaki

[cannibalings]

big fan of a character seeking comfort in the arms of the thing that’s going to kill them. and i am psycologicalily normal too.

[raingardening]

i think there is a phenomenon where sometimes a trans person will go “hmm. i am treated as a man when it is convenient for others, and a woman when it is convenient for others, and often as a freakish third thing excluded from the advantages of both. surely, because of the gender binary, the Other Type of trans person experiences the opposite: they reap the benefits of maleness and femaleness at once.” like babes no they can do it twice

[sqbr]

This applies to a bunch of other subgroups of the queer community too. Asexuals are made to feel like freaks for not being sexual enough by the same society that makes everyone else feel like freaks for being too sexual. Lesbians feel pressured to be bi even while bi women feel like they'd be more accepted if they were lesbian. Butches, femmes, and wlw who are neither are all made to feel like they're doing it wrong. PLUS unique facets of shittiness for every shade of non binary PLUS different attitudes towards mlm and wlw PLUS divisions within mlm spaces etc etc etc. And these frictions and differing needs and experiences are absolutely worth discussing, but every time we decide the problem is just that Those Other Queers have it easy we are making the actual problem worse.

[grison-in-space]

Hilariously, it also happens within the asexual community as a function of even smaller identity microcosms; I grew up watching waves of this crash back and forth on AVEN back in the day.

Babes. They can always do it twice.

[dreamingnemleria]