One Guy's View

18+ | NSFW | Minors DNI. 42 years old | He/Him - Taken. Proud partner of @saff81. Body Positive | Kink Positive | Sex Worker Positive | Trans Positive | People Positive. #Be Fucking Better

[onedudesview]

I guess I'm sticking around for now and making this my new home here. So a few basics:

42, he/him, taken by @saffelinastuffs

This blog will always be pro-women, pro-body positivity, pro-sex worker, pro-LGBTQIA+, pro-kink, pro-BLM, pro-persons.

This blog isn't going to be inherently NSFW but there's a fair chance it won't be especially SFW either.

Blank and ageless blogs will be blocked. Porn blogs will be blocked.

Minors DNI.

[oneguysview]

Not sure I'm keeping the OGV blog, I'm over here on my new blog @onedudesview for anyone that wants to find me.

[oneguysview]

A reminder that I've generally moved over to the new blog. Find me there

[onedudesview]

I guess I'm sticking around for now and making this my new home here. So a few basics:

42, he/him, taken by @saffelinastuffs

This blog will always be pro-women, pro-body positivity, pro-sex worker, pro-LGBTQIA+, pro-kink, pro-BLM, pro-persons.

This blog isn't going to be inherently NSFW but there's a fair chance it won't be especially SFW either.

Blank and ageless blogs will be blocked. Porn blogs will be blocked.

Minors DNI.

[oneguysview]

Not sure I'm keeping the OGV blog, I'm over here on my new blog @onedudesview for anyone that wants to find me.

[oneguysview]

Well, this was a surprise. Apparently I was randomly reinstated, but all of my main blog OC is completely gone.

Sort of doubt I'm going to keep this, but we'll see

[pickuplinemadness]

I may not scare you enough to give you the willies...

but come over and I'll definitely give you one willy.

[pickuplinemadness]

I see you're already in your Halloween costume.

Wait, you were going as my dirty little slut this year, right?

[pickuplinemadness]

Are you crushing existential dread?

Because you're all I can think about

[pickuplinemadness]

Wanna do a couples' costume for Halloween this year?

You can be you and I'll be the guy balls deep inside of you

[pickuplinemadness]

You may not be able to actually raise the dead for Halloween...

but you sure seem to be able to raise my cock

[theanswerstheydontwantyoutoknow]

You think your orgasm denial is rough, Jesus has been waiting over 2000 years for a chance to come again

[pickuplinemadness]

Is pussylips one word?

Or should I spread them?

[amysubmits]

This post is (eventually) about a specific type of red flag that can be seen in the D/s community. 

Once I watched a true crime documentary where a teen girl went missing. It’s been a few years ago that I watched it so I may get the details wrong but it doesn’t really matter to the core point. Basically, they knew she had been walking somewhere, so they organized many different searches in different areas, thinking she may have gotten hurt or lost while walking home. Also checking common areas she was known to visit. The searches were unsuccessful, though, so they kept doing new searches, having large groups of people walk through sections of woods, fields, etc. Because they were doing different searches in different areas of the town, they had them lead/organized by volunteers at times. After many repeated searches and no success, eventually they just had no more leads to go on. Eventually (I believe it was years later?) they found her body, she had been killed by a local person known in their community…and that person had been one of the community members who stepped up to help organize the searches. The family knew of the person previously, some general connection through their community, but hadn’t known the guy real well. They had grown more fond of him because he had stepped up to help so much with the searches. And yet he was the predator the whole time. 

This idea is not unique to murders. Pedophiles sometimes make themselves known as great teachers, or coach little league, or youth group leaders, scout leaders, daycare workers. They want to be known in their communities as ‘awesome with kids!’ so that nobody will think twice about them potentially hurting their children. It also exists in less predatory situations, sometimes. Gay people who are part of cultures that reject homosexuality will rally the loudest against homosexuality. 

They’re all forms of roughly the same thing, in my mind. If you want to hide something about yourself, making yourself seen on ‘the other side’ is often a clever way to go undetected. 

In D/s, sometimes the way that predatory doms try to gain favor is to make a lot of noise about how safe they are. My spidey senses go off when I see doms claiming to be protectors of subs, advocates for subs, anything of that nature. I am not saying everyone who makes these claims is wolf in sheep’s clothing. Still, I do think it’s worth being aware of this tactic and looking real closely for anything (else) that may seem ‘off’ about anyone at those who seem to put specific effort into making themselves be known as “safe”. 

[babygirl-1972]

@andredaddydom needs to be blocked and reported. I have reported these messages and his blog. This is his reaction to someone standing up to him and pointing out he's a little child and he's abusive. Please messages make me laugh however if he's doing these type of messages to someone else it could be a completely different matter. Telling me to kill myself because he got his feelings hurt or more likely we pointed out his blog was a danger zone.

[subwithsass-deactivated20260421]

Boost!!

[onelittlekingdom]

report this scum

[ysl123]

Oh, Wolfie......... We got another wannabe!

BOOOST!

@instructor144

[oneguysview]

Worth pointing out, he's also a catfish. His pics are stolen pics of a model named André Hamann

[oneguysfood]

Nadan beef fry, dimer jahl and basmati rice

[theanswerstheydontwantyoutoknow]

Guys: Learn to pick up on the hints women are sending your way.

If a woman says to you "You know, I'm not wearing any underwear" she's clearly trying to tell you something. Offer that poor girl a few dollars so she can go pick up some britches.

[pickuplinemadness]

You remind me of Dunkin' Donuts...

Every time I'm near you I just gotta grab your holes.

[oneguysfood]

Black pepper pork belly ramen in a miso-shiitake broth.

[oneguysview]

I would absolutely make out with me for my food.

[theanswerstheydontwantyoutoknow]

Remember: Sometimes what you're hunting for turns out to be deep inside of you.

Hopefully what you're looking for isn't a lost dildo.