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āitās okay to disagreeā is for things likeĀ āi like chocolate and you like vanillaā not for whether or not people deserve fundamental human rights, what the fuck
Something I wish more people would understandā¦
Whatās her name?
Her name is Jane Elliott. She was a former schoolteacher, now sheās anti-racism activist, feminist and LGBT activist. Sheās tiny, mean, and boss as fuck.
Sheās known for her āblue eyes-brown eyes experimentā where she divides a group of volunteers from the blues and the browns. The minute the people walk in, the blue-eyes know theyāre not welcomed. She makes them wait in a separate room, gives them shitty chairs, bad food, and shows them less respect. And (obviously) it causes all sorts of discomfort and rage, but thatās precisely her point. It doesnāt help that most blue-eyed volunteers happen to be white as well. Sometimes they get the message, sometimes they donāt and leave, sometimes crying or screaming. And Jane Elliott says thatās exactly what minorities want to do everyday of their lives, but they simply cannot do.
Did I mention sheās boss as fuck?
Jane elliot guys. I saw her experiment when I was 13 and it made me understand racism like nothing else.
She started the experiment on her elementary class and let me tell you, seeing the footage of little kids behaving better than the adults in the recreated experiments once itās revealed why theyāre doing the experiments just reminds me how early youāve got to teach your kids about tolerance and injustice.
Just dropping by to leave this here. ļæ¼
people with bad taste are always like āyurr hurr The Beach is about zuko and mai and how theyāre a great coupleā while intellectuals know that Actually The Beach is about mining any and all of the untapped friendship potential of this striking exchange
One of the best twist moments in Avatar is when Ty Lee suddenly and dramatically turns against Azula at the Boiling Rock. Azula was completely convinced that Ty Lee would obey her without question forever, but Azula wasnāt the only one fooled. Mai is just as shocked when Ty Lee rebels as Azula is. Ty Leeās survival instincts were so sharp that she never let anyone know what she was thinking, not Azula, not Mai, and certainly not Zuko.
Zuko really believed that Ty Lee didnāt understand who he was at all. He completely bought into the act that sheās just a puppet for Azula, who lives in her ālittle Ty Lee world where everythingās great all the timeā. But the thing is, Ty Lee is one of the most perceptive characters in the show, and sheās excellent at keeping that on the down low, but she sees a lot more of Zuko than he thinks, and a lot of what she sees is very familiar to her.
Overshadowed by prodigious siblings?
Wanting to be acknowledged for the talents you have rather than the talents you donāt?
Kept in line by fear?
Spending your whole life bending over backwards to fit the persona the royal family has set for you?
So yeah Zuko. She knows you.
This characterization is definitely emphasized with Ty Leeās acrobatics, flexibility, and ability to hit pressure points. Thereās a level of subtlety and precision that is required for such skills. She had to know her own body to be able to bend it in such ways, and she has to know other peopleās bodies to be able to disable them.
And pretty much from the moment you meet her, itās fairly clear that thereās more to her than her lighthearted, bubbleheaded persona, long before she uses her battle skills. Look at what happens when Azula recruits her.Ā
Azula used blatant intimidation tactics to get Ty Lee to comply, ordering the net to be set on fire and all the animals released (which, for the record, would not only have endangered Ty Lee but the circus creatures themselvesāI bet Ty Lee was attached to them, and that wouldāve been a double threat in itself). Ty Lee is visibly terrified, but instead of calling her out or letting Azula see that she was intimidated, she says this:
Instead of endangering herself by pointing out that Azula crossed a line, Ty Lee falls back on her talk ofĀ āthe universeā andĀ āauras,ā talk that canonically gets her indulged or dismissed but never taken seriously.Ā
She knows that Azulaās dangerous. Thereās no way she doesnāt know that Azula is threatening her. But if she can keep Azula from realizing she knows that, sheās a little safer.Ā
Because sheās one of maybeĀ two people Azula never considered as potential enemiesāeven (especially, but thatās another thread) Ozai is a threat in her mind, but Mai and Ty Lee are the closest thing Azula has to trusted friends, right up until their betrayal.Ā
Ty Leeās spent a lifetime cultivating a personality that not only allows her to stands out among her siblingsāit protects her from being treated as a threat. When youāre friends with Azula, that is an essential facade to maintain.Ā and she does it consistently enough that no one ever sees through it.
All of the Fire Nation kids are so messed up. Zukoās just the one who gets in the most trouble, because heās the only one who doesnāt have a mask.
why are french people rude?
Ah well, the safest explanation when an entire countryās people are stereotyped as rude is that they have their own culture with different criteria for politeness than the ones you are used to. Itās probably easier for Americans to forget this than for the rest of the world, because they consume less foreign media than the rest of us (from literature in translation to foreign films) and are less exposed to aspects of foreign cultures that could inform them about different norms of politeness (online interactions happen in their own language and follow their own (anglo) social codes.) With this insular worldview it's easy to take it for granted that American good manners are universal. They are not!
A veryĀ common gripe against American tourists in Paris is that they talk so loudly in public spaces, which is definitely rude here but I assume that in the US, people just have a different threshold for what constitutes 'loud' (I wonder if it is due to being used to having more space than Europeans).Ā I also remember a discussion I had with one of my translation professors about the American concept of āactive listeningā and how negatively it is perceived in France. It may be that in the US it is polite to make 'listening noises' at regular intervals while someone is speaking to you, āuh huhā, ārightā, āyeahā, āreally?ā, and that you would perceive someone who just stands there silently as disinterested or thinking about something else. In France it is more polite to shut up and listen (with the occasional nod or āmmhā) and it's rather seen as annoying and rude to make a bunch of useless noise while someone is speaking.
There are of course countless examples like that. The infamous rude waiters in Parisian cafĆ©s probably seem a lot more rude and cold to people who have a different food culture... People from other cultures might consider a waiter terrible at his job if he doesnāt frequently check on them to make sure they donāt wait for anything, but the idea that a meal is a pleasant experience rather than just a way to feed yourself (esp when eating out) means we like having time to chat and just enjoy our table for a while, so we donāt mind as much waiting to order or for the next course. French people would typically hate if an overzealous waiter took the initiative to bring the note once weāre done with our meal so we donāt have to wait for it, as it would be interpreted as āyouāre done, now get out of my restaurant.ā
The level of formality required to be polite is quite high in France, which might contribute to French people being seen as rude by people with a more casual culture. To continue with waiters, even in casual cafĆ©s they will address clients with the formal you and conversely, and wonāt pretend to be your friend (the fact that we donāt have the American tip culture also means they donāt feel the need to ingratiate themselves to you.) I remember being alarmed when a waitress in New York introduced herself and asked how I was doing. āSheās giving me her first name? What... am I supposed to with it? Use it?ā It gave me some insight on why Americans might consider French waiters rude or sullen! It might also be more accepted outside of France to customise your dishāmy brother worked as a waiter and often had to say āThat won't be possibleā about alterations to a dish that he knew wouldnāt fly with the chef, to foreign tourists who were stunned and angry to hear that, and probably brought home a negative opinion of French waiters. In France where the sentiment in most restaurants is more ārespect the chef's skillā than āthe customer is kingā, people are more likely to be apologetic if they ask for alterations (beyond basic stuff) as you can quickly be seen as rude, even by the people you are eating with.Ā
And I remember reading on a website for learning English that the polite answer to āHow are you?ā is āIām fine, thank you!ā because itās rude to burden someone you arenāt close to with your problems. In my corner of the French countryside the polite thing to do is to complain about some minor trouble, because saying everything is going great is perceived negatively, as boasting, and also as a standoffish reply that kind of shuts down the conversation, while grumbling about some problem everyone can relate to will keep it going. (French people love grumbling as a positive bonding activity!)
Basically, before you settle on the conclusion that people from a different place are collectively rude, consider that if you travel there and scrupulously follow your own culture's social code of good manners, you might be completely unaware that you are being perceived as obnoxious, rude or unfriendly yourself simply because your behaviour clashes with what is expected by locals.
With all the events going on recently I think itās time to post this image againbc iām tired of this shitĀ
Thanks, I really needed this today!
people who are hyperempathetic might not be participating in spreading protest news
people who are triggered by talk of police violence might not be participating in spreading protest news
people who follow the news on their own and use tumblr to unwind and stay sane might not be participating in spreading protest news
Itās like your ears shut
Ben entered theĀ āShed of the Yearā contest and built it to his daughter Elsieās vision. He won 1st prize.Ā
He enjoyed building it and would like to turn it into a business.
In the stem of the mushroom, thereās a bench with storage.
A small stairway leads to the cap.
The windows are architectural salvage.
Itās cute & bright inside.
Thereās a 2ā³ thick piece of glass on the floor so they can stand or lie on the floor to look at the river below.
They even put in a little kitchenette area. Cute father-daughter collaboration.
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This is *dreamy*.
Shitās fancier than my whole house
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Pretty sure that generation has been dead for awhile but ok, pretend one thing has something to do with another
The end of Jim Crow laws was in the 1950ā²s. The first black student to attend a formerly all white school was Ruby Bridges in 1960.Ā
Here she is being walked to school under the protection of Federal Marshals because angry white people were ready to harm or kill her.Ā
Here she is in 2010, eight years ago.Ā
The generation that enforced segregation is not dead, fucko. They were our fuckin grandparents, and it was not that goddamn long ago.Ā
Google is free.Ā
Grandparents?!
Iām 31.
My MOM was born the year before school segregation ended.
She was NINE when MLK was shot.
She remembers race riots in her school over school segregation ending in our home state.
My MOTHER lived through this. Sheās 61 years oldāwhich means while her own health is shot, people from her generation will be around for another twenty to thirty years.
1956. This is not colorized. IT WAS SHOT IN COLOR. Look at thatāsegregation was still ongoing in the age of neon lights.
Same exhibit. 1956. Banana splits, poodle skirts, and the ability to get ācoloredā drinking water only from the white folksā backwash. You can see the pipe connecting the white tank to the colored fountain behind the little girl in the light pink dress.
Less than ten years later. Thatās Martin Luther King, Jr. in the middle. Have you ever seen him in a color photograph before? There are many, but for some reason ⦠maybe because black-and-white makes things look old ⦠nobody ever uses them.
Look at the bank logo in the back. Colored squares like that were a thing in the mid-to-late 1960s. The slicked-down hair on the Black girl in front says weāre not yet to the mid-1970s, and since these signs all say āHonor Kingā itās quite likely this is 1969-1970. You know what else was happening in 1969? Not Woodstock, not the moon landing, although both of those things happened. No, something we think of as being much more recent.
THE INTERNET STARTED.
1969 was the launch of ARPANET, which would later become the Internet. BLACK PEOPLE WERE STILL MARCHING FOR BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS WHEN THE INTERNET WAS STARTED.
This picture was taken sometime between 1956 and 1958. I donāt have a precise date on it, but the sleeveless sundress says later 1950s, the hair on Orange Plai says this was after Elvis, and the stars on the flag say thatās not a modern 50-star flag, which was first used in 1959. (We had a single year, 1958, with 49 stars.)
Ah yes. It was so long ago. Letās get some more perspective:
Donald Trump was eight years old when school segregation was declared illegal in 1954. He was nineteen when the police beat and shot at peaceful Black protest marchers in Selma, Alabama and twenty-two when MLK was assassinated by the FBI for trying to encourage desegregation.
Hillary Clinton was seven when school segregation was declared, eleven when it went into effect, and eighteen when Selma happened.
Bernie Sanders was thirteen when the integration ruling occurred, 19 when Ruby Bridges started going to a formerly all-white school, and twenty-four when Selma happened. Joe Biden is only a year younger than Bernie.
Elizabeth Warren was eleven when Ruby started her new school, fifteen when Selma happened, eighteen when MLK was shot.
You will notice that all of these people are running for President, or were rumored to be running for President, this year. Theyāre not just alive, theyāre thriving. And they were all alive for desegregationāin fact Trump, Clinton, and Sanders were all old enough to either endorse or oppose what happened at Selma.
But letās keep looking, because theyāre probably outliers, right?
Hm. Three of MLKās children are still alive. Theyāre between 56 and 62 years old. (His elder daughter died of unknown causes; her family suspects an undiagnosed heart condition.) In fact one of his siblings is still alive, and she was born before him! Sheās 96.
Ruth Bader Ginsburg? Yeah, she was 21 when school integration was made the law of the land. And sheās still serving on the Supreme Court.
But tell me again how long ago it was.
Iām sure the people from those generations are all dead, after all.
my father was graduated from high school when the civil rights act was passed and was in his last semester of college when MLK was killed. i was born in the 2000s
people who remember segregation are very well alive
My momās school district in Colorado was only actually FUNCTIONALLY desegregated when she was in high school, in the fucking 1970s.
My mom. Iām only in my 30s. She was born in 1957.
Google is free. Also this is a perfect example of how the American education system is failing
My parents were born in 1943. My grandparents were born in the 1890s. I am only 3 generations removed from slavery and one from segregation.
Once you become a certain age, it is your responsibility to unlearn behaviors that hinder your growth as a person.
Man I cannot stress this enough. The āthis is how I am, take it or leave itā attitude is an act of immaturity. We all have toxic traits that we need to work on and as an adult itās our responsibility to recognize the damage that they can do to the ones we love. We all need to put in more effort in becoming better individuals.
big facts
I learned this a little bit earlier on, and I still very much struggle with it, cuz im stubborn, but when people double my age+ Refuse to even try, its aggravating as hell