Sister Mary Introvert

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[jehovahhthickness]

Omg the depression gets worse in your 30s.

Pls go to therapy, take the pills and go see the doctor before it’s too late y’all 😩

[just-call-me-vendetta]

As a person living 25 years with bipolar depression, (Diagnosed at age 24. I am approaching 49 yrs old.) I can give this advice. Process your traumas and learn your triggers with that therapist. Learn your boundaries and proper coping mechanisms.

Give the meds time to work and keep in mind they are supposed to make you feel better. You may have to try a few, therapists and medications, before you find one that works for you. You may find that you only need one or the other.

Wishing everyone peace and positivity on that journey.

[stuckinapril]

Very true

[tarynel]

Aight which banger is better, In Those Jeans or Thong Song?

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Thong Song. He said the same thing 3 times because he ain't think we heard him. Had a praise and worship break at the end where he also added thanks for thighs, breast and feet.

...and how does a booty go "du-nuh, du-nuh"?

[tarynel]

Aight which banger is better, In Those Jeans or Thong Song?

[foeyedcurls]

In those Jeans didn’t make a man dance over a sea of women on a beach while hootin’ and hollerin’ over some draws

[sometiktoksarevalid]

[sunderedstar]

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

I see that "learned helplessness" is the hot new psychological term getting wildly misused. the phrase you're looking for is "weaponized incompetence," babes

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

weaponized incompetence is when your partner does chores shitty on purpose so that you stop asking them to do chores. learned helplessness is when you've experienced so much trauma that you've developed the mindset that you can't meaningfully change your situation and have become accordingly passive.

if your partner is exhibiting learned helplessness they aren't manipulating you, they're displaying a trauma response.

[just-call-me-vendetta]

I dated a dude who I asked to make a pitcher of Kool-Aid and I know he made it wrong on purpose so I wouldn't ask him to again. I met his family so I KNOW the muthafucker knew how. That's when I realized, that's where the trauma came from. He was his family's chore and errand boy growing up.

[its-vendetta-again]

In the year since I dove feet first into anime. I have watched the entirety of:

One Piece (1000 episodes in 366 days)

Zom 100

Shimoneta

Death Note

Mushuko Tensei

Fairy Tail

TenSura

DanDaDan

Frieren

Record of Ragnarok

Is It Wrong To Pick Up Girls In A Dungeon?(currently binging)

I already have a watchlist and suggestions that will keep me going for at least 3 years.

[its-vendetta-again]

Vermeil in Gold

KamiKatsu

[its-vendetta-again]

Rent-A-Girlfriend

Re:ZERO

Wistoria: Wand and Sword

Black Clover

[its-vendetta-again]

The Rising of the Shield Hero

[its-vendetta-again]

Gachiakuta

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood (I couldn't find the early '00s one.)

[just-call-me-vendetta]

I forgot. "So I'm A Spider, So What?"

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Eminence In Shadow

Call of the Night

One Punch Man (its not keeping my interest)

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Yandere Dark Elf

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Chained Soldier

Plus Sized Elf

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Immoral Guild

[just-call-me-vendetta]

The Wrong Way To Use Healing Magic

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Arifuerta: From Commonplace to World's Strongest

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Tsukimichi: Moonlit Fantasy

[just-call-me-vendetta]

May I Ask For One Final Thing?

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Farming Life In Another World

Dusk Beyond The End Of The World

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Dr. Stone

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Grimgar: Ashes and Illusions

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Plus Sized Misadventures In Love

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Goblin Slayer

[just-call-me-vendetta]

A Misanthrope Teaches A Class For Demi-Humans

Mitchiko & Hatchin

Hell's Paradise

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Tower of God

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Shangri-La Frontier

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Daemons of the Shadow Realm

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Rooster Fighter

[just-call-me-vendetta]

MarriageToxin

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Overlord

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Bartender: Glass of God

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Baki-Dou

[just-call-me-vendetta]

High School DxD

I Got a Cheat Skill in Another World and Became Unrivaled in the Real World, Too

[just-call-me-vendetta]

GinTama

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Baki Hanma

High School of the Dead

Drops of God

[timetravelinator]

What checking the news felt like this morning

[tomatotext]

and, look, I’m not complaining, not at all, but this is why it’s very important to be abundantly clear and specific with your Etsy witch.

[tarynel]

I'm quite tired of having a pussy

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Mine is in maintenance mode so we can have a peaceful coexistence for the rest of our days.

[yorickalas]

[max--phillips]

AND YET!

Pope Leo is letting American bishops entirely ban trans healthcare for both minors and adults in all Catholic-owned hospitals and clinics, and stop coverage for trans healthcare through Catholic-affiliated health insurance plans!!

People are having surgeries, for which they were on waitlists for years, suddenly cancelled. Hormones no longer covered, their clinicians no longer able to prescribe them. Considering in some states Catholic-owned healthcare organizations make up to a third of the market, as it were, this is a HUGE issue.

‘It’s a Nightmare’: The Human Toll of the Catholic Church’s Trans Healthcare Ban

Missing hormones. Canceled surgeries. Bureaucratic denials. Late last year the Catholic Church banned all trans healthcare across its sprawl

This has been happening since November of last year, when this vote took place, but no one is talking about it. The rehabilitation of the image of the papacy through Pope Leo is killing me, it’s still the goddamn Catholic Church. You do not gotta hand it to them.

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Umm...the Catholic Church doesn't have that jurisdiction to make decisions about Healthcare.

Do you understand The Pope doesn't have that level of authority?

[its-vendetta-again]

In the year since I dove feet first into anime. I have watched the entirety of:

One Piece (1000 episodes in 366 days)

Zom 100

Shimoneta

Death Note

Mushuko Tensei

Fairy Tail

TenSura

DanDaDan

Frieren

Record of Ragnarok

Is It Wrong To Pick Up Girls In A Dungeon?(currently binging)

I already have a watchlist and suggestions that will keep me going for at least 3 years.

[its-vendetta-again]

Vermeil in Gold

KamiKatsu

[its-vendetta-again]

Rent-A-Girlfriend

Re:ZERO

Wistoria: Wand and Sword

Black Clover

[its-vendetta-again]

The Rising of the Shield Hero

[its-vendetta-again]

Gachiakuta

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood (I couldn't find the early '00s one.)

[just-call-me-vendetta]

I forgot. "So I'm A Spider, So What?"

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Eminence In Shadow

Call of the Night

One Punch Man (its not keeping my interest)

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Yandere Dark Elf

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Chained Soldier

Plus Sized Elf

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Immoral Guild

[just-call-me-vendetta]

The Wrong Way To Use Healing Magic

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Arifuerta: From Commonplace to World's Strongest

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Tsukimichi: Moonlit Fantasy

[just-call-me-vendetta]

May I Ask For One Final Thing?

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Farming Life In Another World

Dusk Beyond The End Of The World

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Dr. Stone

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Grimgar: Ashes and Illusions

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Plus Sized Misadventures In Love

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Goblin Slayer

[just-call-me-vendetta]

A Misanthrope Teaches A Class For Demi-Humans

Mitchiko & Hatchin

Hell's Paradise

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Tower of God

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Shangri-La Frontier

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Daemons of the Shadow Realm

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Rooster Fighter

[just-call-me-vendetta]

MarriageToxin

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Overlord

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Bartender: Glass of God

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Baki-Dou

[just-call-me-vendetta]

High School DxD

I Got a Cheat Skill in Another World and Became Unrivaled in the Real World, Too

[just-call-me-vendetta]

GinTama

[blackpeoplefashion]

this painting will always be live.

[the-13th-letter]

Ernie Barnes - The Sugar Shack (1971)

Marvin Gaye asked Barne’s for permission to use The Sugar Shack as the cover art for his upcoming album I Want You. The artist approved and even went a step further by augmenting the painting to include references that allude to Gaye’s album, including banners that promote the album’s singles.

[the-13th-letter]

OH YEAH I FORGOT TO MENTION

The original piece is currently owned by Eddie Murphy, and is on display at his home in Beverly Park, CA.

[just-call-me-vendetta]

*Barnes' not Barne's. When making a last name possessive that already ends in "s" an apostrophe is used after the existing s. If you were saying "Happy Thanksgiving" or something of the like, Barneses would be the proper usage. Or just say Barnes Family.

**it is not "on display" in Eddie Murphy's home. That implies he has tours and people can go see it whenever they want.

[aidashakur]

No amount of chemistry can make up for a lack of emotional safety.

[just-call-me-vendetta]

Let me vent...

Older siblings are annoying as hell. Especially when they can't see past you being younger even though you're a functioning adult yourself.

I am 48, damn near 49. My sister and I have a 10 year age gap. She still treats me like I am a child when I have a child myself. I have been on my own for 16 years and have never asked her to pay a bill or a place to stay. Yet and still, she speaks against me at every turn.

I'm "bad with money" yet I have zero debt and have never missed paying a bill. My cupboards have never been bare and I've NEVER asked her for a dime.

Some folks really have to be in control of something because their lives are in fucking chaos. She can't control me or any element of my life, so while I've been recovering these last few weeks, she has taken every opportunity to micromanage me in any way she can. Why are you shadowing me making tacos? TACOS!!!

Please let this doctor clear me for movement because she has to go back to her domicile. This is why we don't live together in our family home my dad left us. I'd rather pay rent than to live with someone that still sees me as the 14 year old I was when my mother died.

[rosecrystal]

This amount of individualism is exactly whats gonna kill us all btw

[ashintheairlikesnow]

"Going a couple hours without eating a single kind of food? No thanks, I would rather kill a child" is such a wildly horrifying take to see MULTIPLE people proudly stating.

[milf--adjacent]

I wonder how many people reblogging this scornfully stopped masking circa 2022 because "the high risk will protect themselves" from covid.

[just-call-me-vendetta]

That's why they don't give peanuts out on flights anymore. Because folks are fucking ignorant and selfish. Now they fight over Stroopwaffels and Biscoff cookies.

[just-call-me-vendetta]

How do you want people to notice your crises and struggle and help you out when you shit on them in the same breath?

That's not how it works.