Hi! I'm Onyx. I'm Queer, Genderfluid (Maybe NB), Neurodivergent and new to Tumblr.
My Asks & Submissions are OPEN permanently for anyone and everyone, though please include your age and preferred pronouns if you're sending explicit content. DMs only for people I follow. Please read the below post in full before reaching out.
I'm taken and monogamous. Not looking nor interested.
Please don't ask me for money, I don't have any, and I'm not buying any content either. If you insult me, threaten me, or ignore any part of what I just said, as well as everything else in the post below, I will report and block you.
I experienced a lot of trauma and abuse in my youth, so besides general posting, I will be using this blog to explore my sexuality and continue my healing journey. But I won't be here everyday, just posting sporadically.
There will be explicit thoughts and themes, so if you're under 18, please leave now. If you don't, or if you're a blank / ageless blog and/or chose to engage in my posts with rude comments, contact me with threats, harass me in any way - you will be immediately blocked. 🚫
If you're rude or disrespectful, or attempt to engage me in any of the hard limits under the cut - you will be blocked. If you are disrespectful to anyone else in my posts, or come with misogyny, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, terfism, racism or any other form of discrimination and hate - you will be blocked. 🛑
If you're a decent human being, with an open mind and heart, then welcome and thanks for dropping by! 🖤
Topics / Issues I have experience with and am alright to talk about:
Recovering from sexual abuse and trauma
Recovering from physical and psychological abuse and trauma
Recovering from EDs, self harm and suicidal ideation
Recovering from substance abuse
Experimenting with and being new to different sex scenes and LGBT communities
Safe sex and reproductive education
Toys and techniques for trans and gender queer partners
Toys and techniques for partners with neurodevelopmental disorders, other physical disabilities or reduced physical mobility
Non sexual intimacy and showing care for partners with differing needs
Kinks / Play I have experience with and am alright to talk about as well as engage in:
Sex with women, transgender, intersex, gender queer and non binary partners. (oral, rimming, hand jobs, mutual or guided masturbation, fingering, fisting, intercrural, penetration, anal, felching, muffing, etc)
Topping / Bottoming / Switching (can be a stone top and a pillow princess, among others)
Rope play, Bondage & Shibari
Suspension
Sensory play, Overstimulation, Deprivation, Gags
Edging, Orgasm Control and Orgasm Denial
Kabeshiri, Forced Orgasms and CNC
Squirting, Watersports and Omorashi
Temperature, Wax play and Figging
Impact and Pain play (clamping, weighting, spanking, slapping, caning, flogging, whipping, paddling)
Electro play (internal and external)
Breath play and erotic asphyxiation
Vore and Cannibalism roleplay
Medical, Historic and Micro/Macro roleplay
Fantasy and Sci-Fi roleplay
Other types of "everyday" roleplay (open to discussion)
Toys and Object insertion
Urethral Sounding and Prostate Play
Feet, Nipple and Tickle Torture
Clit, Cock and Ball Torture
Domming and Subbing (for specific scenes)
Erogenous stimulation
Food play
Body Worship and Massages
Omegaverse and Primal Play
Monster fucking
Puppy / Bunny / Kitten / Pet play
Breeding, Cum inflation and Pregnancy play
Outdoor sex, Exhibitionism and Voyeuristic play
Somnophilia and Free Use
Dacryphilia
Possessive Dirty Talk, Degradation and Humiliation
Thribbing, Frottage and Dry Humping
Strength play and Manhandling
Cross dressing and Drag
Double penetration and Fisting
Throat, Thigh, Chest and Face fucking
Group sex and Orgies
Mirrors and Videotaping
Virginity play
Lingerie and Costumes
Hard Limits / Absolute NOs:
Anything pro-ana / pro - ED
Anything pro self-harm
Emetophilia and anything vomit or bile related
Ageplay / infantilism/ little play
Diaper play
Incest
Raceplay
Cheating and infidelity
Drug use and/or Alcoholism related fantasies
Real non-consensual anything (do NOT come to me with any abuse and/or rape fantasies!)
Ganbangs
Scat
Blood play
Knife / blade / needle play
Sadism
Bestiality / Zoophilia / Anything with animals
Grave bodily harm / Impact play that causes bleeding and serious injury / Bone breaking
Unsolicited explicit images or videos
And don't ask me for any either, I only share those in a commited relationship with a trusted loving long term partner. Not with strangers on the internet.
Being approached with baby talk or very gender specific endearments (this triggers my dysphoria and will get you nowhere)
Being addressed with a title I have not agreed to - don't just call me Mommy / Daddy / Master etc without asking first.
24/7 DS control exchanges
Sissy / Degrading feminisation kinks
Any kind of homo / gender phobic degradation
Any kind of fat phobic or ableist kinks and humiliation
Disability fetishism
Necrophilia
Enemas
Beating, fighting or wrestling
Burning, fire or branding
Forced feeding
Mummification
Mutilation and nullo
No clowns, no sex dolls and no pony stuff!!!
Robots, machines and ai
Sweat, feet and dirty underwear or things that involve poor personal hygiene
Illnesses and diseases roleplay or shaming
Religious self flagellation and punishment
Hunting and gun play
My Tags - You can use these to search my blog, as well as filter and/or block the type of posts you don't wish to see:
#Onyx Fox - For my own posts, smutty or yearning.
#Onyx Talks - For posts where I share personal stories, commentary, experiences or advice about kink, sex education and play etiquette.
#Onyx Answers - For all answered and published asks.
#Onyx Audio - For all my audio posts.
#Onyx Queue - For all my queued posts.
Please note, all the NSFT / NSFW posts on my blog will either be tagged mostly as "onyx fox" or "onyx queue" or both together, so if you don't want to see that, please feel free to block those tags, or any of the above specifically. The queue contains strictly 18+ content and will be running at night from 10pm to 6am. During the day time this blog is mostly SFW / SFT.
Audios: This is what I sound like, be nice! And remember, I do this for myself, so unless we're dating, I'm not taking requests.
Pics and Videos: Don't have any and will NOT be posting any either. My body is my own, and will only be shared in that way with a loving trusting partner in a commited long term relationship. You're not entitled to any part of it, or me. Now or ever.
On Gender and Attraction: Have posted about it here so please make note of this before you message me.
Otherwise I am pretty open, but if anything in Asks / DMs / Notes makes me uncomfortable, I will let you know and block you too if necessary. Just don't be a disrespectful asshole 🌹
IDK I think if cis men are being told that being fat will lower their testosterone and make them Insufficiently Masculine, and cis women are being told that being fat will raise their testosterone and make them Excessively Masculine, and fat trans people are being denied the right to medically transition if they're fat, and thin trans people are warned against HRT because it will make them fat (and this is said about both testosterone and estrogen HRT), and androgynous-presenting people are told that only thin people count as androgynous...
Then maybe...
Maybe...
Maybe the weight loss industry is just using Gender to enforce fatphobia.
Not getting a ton of reporting in US news, but the Trump administration is going after donors to Palestine, including going as far as international extradition under the guide of "counterterrorism"
This has been my main argument against "AI" from the very beginning.
OpenAI scraped the entire web. All of which had been a labor of love from humans. Wikipedia is the backbone of a lot of LLMs, and that was volunteer human labor. They stole it and now they're selling it back to us.
And worse, they're trying to destroy the free sources that they stole from. It's destruction of human knowledge on an unprecedented scale. The burning of the library of Alexandria has nothing on this.
Yes, this is the bitter truth that the world's media are trying to hide from you: Gaza is a genocide. Gaza has been annihilated, unfortunately. The world has witnessed a genocide that was filmed, documented, and broadcast live in full view of everyone.
The explosives dropped on the people of the Gaza Strip are equivalent to 20 nuclear bombs like those dropped on Nagasaki and Hiroshima. Does anyone still doubt that Israel committed and continues to commit genocide and ethnic cleansing against us here in the Gaza Strip?
We have been through so much, and we are still alive thanks to your help and donations. Without them, we would have perished long ago. The campaign has not received any donations in the last seven days, and the last donation was 7 days ago. Thanks to your donations, we can buy food and medicine and pay for the surgery for his daughter Iman, who was injured in her legs during the war. Iman is a child who needs care; she has already suffered enough during the first three of her eight years. Please don't hesitate to donate now. Please donate now.
GOFUNDME Please give this little girl hope and donate
Please don't hesitate to participate. Ahed and his family are in dire need of every contribution and donation. I am doing my best to help them and share their story. Please help me with this and donate if you can.
I can't imagine this. An entire family is suffering terribly here, and everyone is ignoring them. It's been seven days and there haven't been any donations. Please donate now.