Hm.

1998 two spirit 21+ everything I won’t put on my main lives here Sometimes I vent. Sometimes I art.

[outlaws-armoire]

I love my partner, I have no words for their unconditional affection. How they assuredly want a life with me, how they speak of being enough by just being, how they say that I ground them, and how I feel that I wish to never let go but would should they need me to. I feel we are tethered, meant to be in this life, meant to find each other. I love them and do not need them to remind me that they love me back, but those words are like velvet from the softest peach, sweeter than the juice that runs down my palm, that is our love for each other.

[tall]

[aidashakur]

[outlaws-armoire]

I cut off my only two friends for constantly crossing my boundaries and hurting my feelings or each other… I couldn’t take it anymore…

[lamignonette]

[elesketchii]

mrs sadie adler, widow /// [redraw]

[dogwise]

PRACTICE URGE SURFING

[dogwise]

[teumessianandlaelaps]

Huh, didn't know there was a term for it. This explains why I haven't been drinking as much lately.

[puppygirldick]

By Catholicguilt_clothing

[softwaring]

[slut4margiela]

[urie]

did you receive abstinence only education in school? (and please say where your school is located in the tags)

yes

no

Voting ended onJun 20

[goth-queen]

[phantomrose96]

After 13 years of this, it's still funny to me that detailing a full mental breakdown on tumblr is standard fare, but posting a nice selfie is a fraught decision.

[loki-zen]

this is the correct way around and every other social media site is wrong

[urie]

the thing is like men and men really cant be friends because the sex part does always get in the way like thats true. and i mean that like im actually dead serious about that

[urie]

like have you ever seen two straight men attempt to be friends with each other but the gay sex they arent having is literally preventing them from the transformative healing power of friendship. this is real

[urie]

i dont even mean this in a "they want to fuck each other" way (although many of them do and will never know it) i mean that like the fact that gay sex is even hypothetically possible between them makes it loom over their friendship like it genuinely haunts them that they could be having it. gay sex is the elephant in the room every time they attempt to be emotionally vulnerable with one another, every time they let a hug linger too long. they cannot address its existence and so there is always something in their way, preventing true connection. and that something is the gay sex. that they are not having. the elephant of gay sex

[jotaro-kuujo]

This is literally so true tho, the only men who were ultimately comfortable with me being emotionally vulnerable with them or being emotionally vunerable with me were queer men and I myself am queer so the straights were NOT having that.

And like

Nobody thinks about cock more than straight men, and for evidence of this all you need to do is look at the comments of almost any woman content creator on the internet bc you will find straight men in her comments discussing whether or not she actually has a penis. Straight men will see a beautiful woman and immediately start thinking about penis, worrying that this woman they're attracted to MAY POSSIBLY have one, therefore making them gay.

Straight men constantly unironically say shit that is on the level of "Fellas is it gay to be attracted to women?" like recently I saw a thread of men discussing how going on dates with women is gay like......... What are we doing, guys? A couple decades ago, going on as many dates as possible with as many women as possible was the only way to prove you were heterosexual and now even that's not good enough. Straight men are haunted by the spectre of gay sex

[greeds]

[escuerzoresucitado]

[dialogonelbuio]