overthinkingwithvinz

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[gomosmorodina]

I wish I could’ve known about The view from halfway down

[overthinkingwithvinz]

My brother is allergic to pumpkin and I think it's funny because he's got a pumpkin tattoo and pumpkin cheesecake / pumpkin cookies are some of his favorite things in the world and I'm also very into pumpkins but only, like, aesthetically. I wish I liked the taste of pumpkin spice lattes but genuinely I'd rather another fall-tasting drink. I will buy all the pumpkin pillows and carve them and stuff but it's not my favorite flavor. I wish I could switch him because then I could be allergic and enjoy pumpkin aesthetically while he drinks his PSL and eats pumpkin seed trail mix

[overthinkingwithvinz]

There's literally so much in this world that is emotionally fulfilling and easy to access. I wake up in the morning and the window next to my bed faces the mountains. my mom used to tell me stories about these specific mountains because she lived in this same town and looked at the same ones and saw a smiley face she called the Pixie my whole life. That made me happy this morning.

My cat sleeps on me every night and prefers my room over every other room in the house. She goes into other rooms, but usually only if I'm in there or not at home. My cat loves me and relies on me to keep her alive and happy and petted and purring and warm. Her fur is soft and she is so small and I love her.

I finally put my room the way I want it and now I fall asleep looking at model airplanes and pictures of Seattle to remind myself of my own goals and aspirations. I can dream about having the life I've always wanted.

I bought an alien-head-shaped coffee mug. I started experimenting with fashion. I hang out with my roommates and play video games when we're off work and all the chores are done.

Seeing everything this way has helped me deal with a breakup, a medication withdrawal, transphobic people at work, and tumultuous family relationships.

You know that post that said hope isn't some fragile thing, it's got dirt on its face and keeps standing back up for more despite everything? You can't be the one she's fighting. You need to stand up and fight with hope because you want her to win. You want the life she's fighting for. It's okay to be hopeful and positive, and it's okay to be afraid to be let down. But it's not okay to fight her yourself in order to avoid the fear of failing.

[mtsodie]

how the hell does one even look for a boyfriend anyway . fuck my stupit baka life

[hearth-fucker]

You may find one if you go to a creek or riverbed after a heavy rain, when fast moving water may have churned up new previously obscured boyfriends.

[mtsodie]

okay thanks boss

[rederiswrites]

I actually think Portland absolutely has the right idea with showing up to protest in ways that make violence against them look not only unjustified but absolutely ridiculous. Ah yes, the people line dancing in inflatable animal costumes. Terrifying. Clearly pepper spraying the dancing frog guy was totally justified.

I think we need Gothic Lolita protestors. People in Star Trek uniforms. Slap on a pair of short shorts and a Richard Simmons wig and lead some sweating to the oldies.

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

Gotta fight fascism with whimsy, is what I'm hearing. And I'm in.

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

My house is 112 years old. The spirit of the house itself feels like a little grandmother type.

Because my partner is Hispanic & we both grew up in communities with strong Latino influences, we decided to name her Abuelita Casita.

She likes coffee, people singing in the kitchen, and keeping the cat company when we work. I love her dearly.

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

I still love my grandma house. She's old as hell in house years, and we adore her

[wootwona]

since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...

reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!

along with that, reblog if your account is a trans non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the trans enby spectrum!

[inbabylontheywept]

People are so much more sad, and desparate, and lonely than you think. I have had three incidents in the last four months were a technician I was working with was being either dangerously unfocused (we work with high voltage), or just flat out angry with their coworkers, and every time when I just pulled them aside to say hey, this isn't you, you're nice, and you're competent, so something must be up - what can I do to help - they have responded by bursting into tears. One guy was struggling to get his wife moved into a care home, one guy just got served divorce papers, and the other hadn't slept a wink the night before because his daughter had the pukes.

I haven't spent my whole life responding to people being rude, or stupid, or dangerous with knee jerk compassion. It's a new habit. The first time I did that as the lead for my lab, it was because the guy genuinely was so good natured that I knew something had to be off. But the other two times were just me going, alright, lets see if it always goes this well, and so far, it has. I'm almost 30, and I just figured out that the #1 reason people are shitty are because they are going through shit.

I don't think you have, like, a moral obligation to respond to people being jerks with knee jerk compassion. But it has made my life so much easier the last four months that I would recommend trying. For your own sake. Please.

(I'll step off my soapbox now. Enjoy your Sunday.)

[depsidase]

[dandelionsresilience]

Just gonna drop these here as a starting point :)

How to identify, and then deal with, your emotions

Emotional regulation skills

Conflict resolution skills

Creating and enforcing boundaries

Dialectical Behavioural Therapy skills

Emotional intelligence ideals to aim for

Axes of self-care/wellbeing

Self-care self-evaluation (find out where you’re starting)

How to make a self-care checklist

How to start a self-care habit

Reparenting resources

Crash Course Psychology

KhanAcademy: Understanding the Self and Society (some units more relevant than others)

Emotional education activities for children and teens

Social-Emotional Learning activities for kids (information can be adapted for adults)

[nosimpincurly]

You’re not depressed. You just need $250,000 in your bank account.

[catherinebunnington]

Reblog to materialize $250,000 in prev's bank account

[pallidprincess]

tiktok is such an awful app, it's almost designed to feed you misinformation and expose you to insane discourse. unlike beloved tumblr, the app that feeds me misinformation and exposes me to insane discourse

[pallidprincess]

[lierdumoa]

No, no, no, you see on tiktok an algorithm feeds you misinformation. On Tumblr I feed myself misinformation from my charcuterie board of hand-selected unhinged mutuals.

[lierdumoa]

None of that mass market junk. Only artisanal, small batch, sustainably cultivated, fair trade horseshit.

[tanathir]

Horseshit chosen specifically by me, for me. I love this hellsite.

[snailifier]

🐌✨️ get snailed! 🐌✨️

Snorseshit snosen snecifically by me, snor me. I snove snis snailsite.

[orriculum]

👻TRICK or TREAT witchblr 🎃

a fun little game for the witchblr community, taking place OCT. 1st - NOV. 1st.

please tag all answers or related posts #trick or treat game so people can blacklist the tag if they want to avoid it

how it works:

reblog this to let people know you’re participating!

if someone sends you an ask saying “trick or treat”, reply with either a trick or a treat, suggestions for those below!

you can stop at any time though, and please don’t feel pressured to answer all of them if it becomes overwhelming.

when you receive an ask that says “trick or treat”, reply with either a “trick” or a “treat”, perhaps use a random generator to decide which.

TREATS: sigils, tarot reading, shufflemancies, drawings, simple spells or charms, witch tips, or whatever you like!

TRICKS: silly gifs, cat pictures, rickrolls, random pictures, memes or whatever. please don’t use gore, flashing, or sexual images!

please don’t spam people for treats!! // please be kind and respectful!! happy halloween!

[orriculum]

[space-queen]

since i am off work and stuck at home bc i’m sick, send some asks! 🎃

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

Just handwrote Andy Weir's "The Egg" story into my Book Of Shadows. It resonated so deeply, I had to include it.

[overthinkingwithvinz]

Yay I'm glad you ended up liking that video

[ilovemesomevincentprice]

Yes, I've posted this before.

Yes, I'm posting it again.

Vincent Price as a kitty cat.

You're welcome.

[problempolls]

No nuance, which do you feel safer around?

----trans women

----"terfs"

No nuance, which do you feel safer around?

trans women

"terfs"

Voting ended onOct 14, 2025

[kings-catastrophe]

TERFs are the only ones reblogging this so the votes are skewed lmao

Make TERFs lose, spread this poll 💖

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

HELLO WITCHBLR:

I would like to coin a type of drag/ren Faire style: calling it Magical Drag.

Going absolutely balls to the wall with your most magical self and make wonderful LARPy type characters to attend parties and shows and things.

Becoming the town wizard, reading tarot cards in the corner of gay bars & drag shows. A subcategory of weekend performer.

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

I'm pitching this to my partner's drag troupe tonight. Offer to read cards for the donation bin.

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

I'm going to be the Town Rainbow Wizard one night a month.

[overthinkingwithvinz]

you are the town rainbow wizard every night

[elisecairo]

[rainbow-jello-wizard-man]

Dammit. Kid, what is your URL???