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don't look at me okay wait maybe do 👀 he/they/she/it || 22 || queer genderfluid switch ❗️18++❗️ONLY❗️ my space to express & explore kinky desires n ideas. occasionally funny. FL@sunny-switch

[painsmutt]

Intro Time!

Hi there! You can call me M, I'm 22, all/any pronouns. I'm a gnc genderfluid freak 🖤 and this is my kink sideblog where I post & reblog kink stuff I like or think is hot.

As far as kink goes I'm a verse switch & a big sadomasochist, I love playing with pain and power dynamics. I've been into kinky stuff for a while but only recently exploring my local scene. I'm always looking to learn, explore fantasies, & make new friends.

I'm polly & partnered but I am also looking for a kink dynamic(s). I am a switch but am currently mostly looking to explore my sub/masochistic/service desires irl but it'll be a mishmash of stuff on here.

Feel free to interact or send me kinky (or not) asks and messages! I love responding to folks--just be respectful. Not all the things I'm into are things I like both giving & receiving (some are) so just ask if you have any questions ;)

harder kink blog @extra---grimy

Likes:

⭐️ power exchange, roleplay

⭐️ pain play! & impact especially

⭐️ electro play, sensation play

⭐️ praise, degradation & humiliation

⭐️ bondage (rope, metal etc.)

⭐️ leather!!! &kink gear in general

⭐️ service, training, reward/punishment

⭐️ edge play (cnc, fearplay, knifeplay, interrogation)

⭐️ service oriented submission

⭐️ orgasm control, denial etc.

⭐️ primal, predator/prey

⭐️ honorifics & protocol (want to learn more)

⭐️ boot worship

Curious:

❔ bootblacking

❔pet play

❔water sports

❔hypno, mindfucks

❔master/servant

Soft Limits:

❗️feet, food play, needles, force fem/masc, fauxcest

Hard Limits:

🚫 misgendering/detrans, impregnation/mpreg, scat, vomit, abdl/diaper, age play, race play,

🚫 anything w/o all parties informed consent ofc

Fuck Off List: minors/ageless blogs, terfs, bigots, racists, misogynists & other hateful ppl etc. fuckin obviously

that's all, enjoy!✨

[vamplire]

a vampire stroking ur [REDACTED] as they’re fangs deep in ur neck. u agree

[chainmailstrapon]

google/men suffering

pornhub.com/men tied up and whimpering and suffering

ponrhub.com/men tied up with rope over their clothes and the clothes roughly pulled aside in a few places so you can see bruises and whelts and also they're whimpering and suffering and being crushed underneath a big leather boot and somehow being both so brave and so pathetic about it at the same time

[alexandritefangs]

Subs should be always looking bothered by constant teasing. Like yes baby, be all blushy and leaky because you're pathetically unable to restrain yourself from indulging in all the perverted thoughts I share with you

[gothteddiesdotcom]

I want to be stepping on a sub’s cunt while they pathetically grind themselves against my boot until I tell them to fuck it instead. Hearing their whimpers only get louder as they do what they’re told and switch angles to start pushing their hips against me, trying to fit the tip of my boot inside them. Only to have me suddenly pull my foot back and kick them there instead, laughing and telling them I was fucking joking, that I can’t believe they’re so pathetic they were actually going to fuck my boot like a real dog.

[1blowpriests]

two people getting off on something that isnt inherently sexual is genuinely so hot.... pressed up against a dude tracing a knife over his skin and occasionally leaving kitten scratches on him.... both so hypnotized and turned on but not even kissing..... just two freaks.... uhghghouygh

[cncleric]

Two subs who are allowed to play around but aren't supposed to cum getting silly and needy together.

One of them gets all sadistic and forces the other to cum thinking the one who came will be punished.

Fair and just dom comforting the one who came that "Dom knows you didn't mean to, it was an accident baby, don't worry, etc." before brutally punishing the sadistic little fuck who tried to get their angel in trouble.

Send post.

[tsoachilles-nsfw]

the thought of getting fucked out and marked up and then someone taking a polaroid of me dazed and covered in cum and hickeys is intoxicating

[aerisxblade]

aww, did you really think saying sorry was enough? it isn't, now piss yourself for me <3

[zwodderfly-deactivated20250114]

one of the hardest parts of having an overstim kink but nobody to enjoy it with is getting to that point when you’re masturbating and your legs are shaking, vision is blurry, and hands are cramping and you can’t move anymore but you have to if you want to keep feeling Like This

[soapydoll]

Really a core tenant of good bdsm is deciding what emotions you want to evoke in each other. Humiliation, fear, anger, and helplessness are all just as valid goals as comfort, relaxation, and security by way of experiences you want to have. Feeling otherwise overwhelming emotions in a situation you have some semblance of control over can be deeply cathartic, if done properly.

[vamplire]

a vampire stroking ur hair as they're fangs deep in ur neck. u agree

[dogboy-dyke]

Muzzles as a punishment for puppies with an oral fixation <333

All of the humiliation of being gagged with none of the satisfaction of having your mouth filled :3

Teasing them by resting my cock against the bars of the muzzle while they whine and drool and beg me to take it off and fuck their face

[wintercorrybriea]

Alex Stoddard

[goodgirlfuckdoll1]

[muttboy-rambling]

[leatherfag]

[Image ID: Lighter which reads “Kiss the hand that hits you” on one side, and “Lick the boot that kicks you” on the other.]

[fucktoyfelix]

Choking Safety

I've been seeing some kind of scare-mongering type posts going around about choking during sex, so I wanted to address how to approach choking in a safe way. Choking is not a 0 risk activity, but it is also not so dangerous that you will just randomly die either. Anyone who does martial arts will confirm that thousands of teenagers are being successfully trained to choke each other safely (for self defense) every day! There's no reason you can't learn to do it too.

First you should be familiar with some basic anatomy of the neck and throat:

The carotid veins on both sides of the neck and the trachea/windpipe in the center are the most important things to be aware of. If you want to enjoy the psychological element of having someone's hands around your neck with relatively little risk, you can do "choking" play that avoids putting any pressure on those arteries or the trachea. As with all choking play, safety is highest when both parties are fully sober. I'm not actually sure if there are people out there who are into having the windpipe or trachea blocked. This tends to hurt like fuck and cause an autonomic choking response. You'll know if you went too far center because generally the bottom will be like "WTH". I don't know if there is a way to do this play safely or not as I don't have experience with it. It probably carries some risk of the trachea collapsing which would be a hospital trip for sure. Most choking play is done with the intention of cutting off the blood supply to the brain by applying pressure to both the left and right carotid arteries. This type of choking is not really "breath play" because of the way it works (though many people refer to it that way.) This creates a pleasant light headed feeling, but is also where the higher risk comes in. It often doesn't take long for a person to lose consciousness once these arteries are blocked, often less than 10 seconds. Sometimes getting completely choked out is the goal, sometimes not. Either way, the top has to pay very very careful attention to every aspect of their bottom's body language. Once you realize that a person has lost consciousness, the choking must stop immediately. Because of this: the most dangerous way to do this kind of play is alone. (hence all the auto-erotic asphyxiation deaths you hear about) It goes without saying that intoxication also dramatically increases the risks. It's not recommended to lose consciousness this way on a regular basis. It's just not good for your brain to repeatedly go through, especially in rapid succession. Generally, the more time spaced out between this type of play: the better. Though some people may have medical conditions that make the risk higher, as long as you stop choking when you reach the desired headspace, this play is approachable. Anyone who's REALLY into the idea but feels unsure or scared, I highly recommend taking a few martial arts classes. MMA guys do this to each other all the time! For sports! The key is just stopping at the right time. There are two main ways to go about blocking the carotid arteries. The main one used in martial arts and self defense is the rear naked choke.

This type of choke is incredible effective at choking someone out quickly and easily. The forearm and the bicep are squeezing each artery until the desired effect is achieved. The risk here is how quickly it works in combination with not being able to have a visual on your bottom's facial response. When someone loses consciousness they will go limp and begin twitching somewhat. This is normal, and you should stop immediately if you notice those signs. The more common method of choking play during sex is what looks more like typical choking. Facing your partner, using both hands.

You want to find the arteries with both hands, and use the meat at the base of your thumbs to apply gradually increasing pressure upwards towards your partner's head. You can keep the thumbs tucked to avoid accidental pressure on the windpipe. (Though this is not required so long as you remember not to apply pressure to the windpipe.) This type of play has a few safety benefits. First, you can see your partner's face so it's more obvious when you can see they've hit a headspace that is desirable. Additionally, it's just a little more difficult to find the arteries and push up on them correctly. If your goal is to get a little light headed without losing consciousness, this is more easily accomplished with this type of choke. However, losing consciousness is still a risk and both partners being fully alert will ensure the lowest risk environment. I know choking play is incredibly popular, even 'vanilla' people participate in this type of play on a regular basis without really knowing the technical details. Most of them don't get seriously hurt...but knowing what you're actually doing with risky play is a base component of risk aware consensual kink. Anyway I hope people find this helpful! Happy choking!!