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20 | 🏳️‍⚧️Twanny🏳️‍⚧️ | She/Her :3c

[machineatmidnight]

pla nt

[godpup]

you'll never guess.

[godpup]

hi it's me the thing from the drawing. i will be homeless in 11 days if i do not scrape up the money to move across the country where my partner is doing all that they can to prepare to house me but the job search is not going great if you can imagine. i know we are all in dire straits which is why this drawing did numbers but if anyone can help out i would really appreciate it. thank u

VENMO | PAYPAL | KO-FI | TWITCH TIP JAR

[catarinastone]

So, to be clear, most cis people don't actually think that gender affirming care works.

[corpsehusk-creaturedoll]

> looking for smut > ask ao3 author if their work is transfem or futanari > they don't understand > pull out illustrated diagram explaining the difference > they laugh and say "it's an inclusive fic man" > click on fic > "transwoman"

[halochewer]

"i don't know how she'd react to me transitioning" who gives a shit? if it's not 'positively' she can kill herself

[halochewer]

i have known monastic levels of loneliness and never once have i considered staking my wagon to some fucking joke of a person who would only love me as an unactualized and depressed asshole.

[katieaki]

It Happened to Me

[kiwineverdies]

Doesn't it chap your ass that transmisogyny, after being coined, is discussed in academia by women who study feminist theory professionally and know what they're talking about but men care more about bullshit terms coined on fucking Tumblr.

[seymourworld]

Do your parents know you're a tmesandrist or whatever it's called

how do i even yes-and this i feel like ill ruin it

[zaktreas]

Take that's probably gonna get me yelled at: I'd be really interested to see how many trans men would still identify with queer womanhood if the word "lesbian" didn't exist. Like if they had to call themselves "gay women" or something like that. Because I, for one, have never seen a trans women who doesn't hate herself identify with the label of "man," gay or otherwise. I just feel like "lesbian" is seen as linguistically flexible enough to accommodate the men who want to make it theirs.

[zaktreas]

1) If you're going to use quotation marks, don't alter my words in them. It's dishonest.

2) I never claimed to know shit about anyone's gender.

3) That's not what exorsexism is. I'm not talking about nonbinary identities. I'm talking about trans men. Using that as a gotcha kind of makes it sound like you think trans men aren't men. Which you don't think, obviously, because that's pretty blatant transphobia.

4) Again. Not talking about butches, who I specifically said can be masc. That includes transmasculine butches. Not the same thing as men.

5) That history is exactly what we're talking about here. Historically, trans women have been excluded from lesbianism (an orientation based around attraction to women and non-men by women and non-men) and trans men have been included. Do you think, perhaps, it might be a little bit of a problem if people who specifically identify as men are welcome in lesbian spaces while a certain type of woman is excluded? Have I painstakingly explained myself well enough for you to listen to what a woman has to say about her own community and identity, or are you just going to continue putting words in her mouth?

[cool-deltarune-fun-facts]

Deltarune Fun Fact:

Many players believe that, based on their actions at various points in the story and their behaviour when they're alone together, Susie and Noelle have romantic feelings for each other. However this isn't necessarily the case. After all, I've seen my girlfriend behaving similarly with another girl, and she's reassured me they're just friends.

dont talk to me

[bruzum]

[lastvalyrian]

This is literally what people are talking about when they say AI will be used to mainstream widely held bigotry. LLMs are trained on frequency and probability -> straight relationships are more well represented in the dataset -> straight pronouns and terms become the "correct" normal.

This is a form of backdoor bigotry from both normative facts (there are more straight than gay relationships) and well represented bigoted beliefs (men are superior to women).

Combine this with the mass of people inclined to believe (and being encouraged to believe) that if AI says and does something it must be correct

[maeneiii]

toomhch helpt

[sicknastyjr]

Your 20s are not about getting your life together they're about learning to escape the self imposed torture labyrinth you've built inside your own head

[gockroach]

[girlballs]

okay so. officially starting a ko-fi goal to help with moving costs (shipping my stuff, physically getting me there, covering a bit of rent) so i can live with my wife . goal is at $3k which i know is a lot to ask for help with but hopefully i shouldn't have to ask tumblr for help like this again barring some catastrophe

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[rabbitkinglune777]

doggy wives 🩷💜

[rabbitkinglune777]

also lil lore (💜Maggie/Magna) is a witch that's over 100 years old and is non binary

(Tammy🩷) is a rockstar that is 28 and a trans woman. she loves rocking flannels.

they are both married

[rabbitkinglune777]

doggy wives 🩷💜