#1 women fan

the future is still female btw!! ❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🕸️

[parasitefem]

intro post

evil bisexual emo feminist

about me!!

beliefs

- anti porn

- anti kink

- gender critical

- anti ai

- anti beauty industry

- pro having a small treat every now and then

interests!!

- music ofcccc (industrial metal, gothic metal, dark wave, ethereal wave, emotional hardcore/ emo, 2000s indie)

- i fw dahlia seed, flyleaf, alexisonfire, sunny day real estate, february, paramore, mcr (unfortunately…), heavenly, pj harvey, mojave 3, cocteau twins, portishead, garbage, hole, massive attack, 8mm, patti smith, snake river conspiracy, the cry, the cure, the naked and the dead, jejune, 45 grave, strange boutique, autumns grey solace

- aspiring film director/author

- I FUCKING LOVE PHYSICAL MEDIA 🤍🤍🤍🤍

- diy stuff (blank tank tops HATE to see me coming)

- i read mostly feminist lit and fiction

- collecting stuff

- emo, scene, goth subcultures

this is NOT satire. i am NOT a method actor. i WILL be the next big thing

i’m open to talk about whateva!!! just don’t be a freak.

anyways byeee :3

(i will try to update this whenever i can 🙂↕️)

[radfemme-rage]

[parasitefem]

thinking about the type of language men use when describing sexual violence against women and girls.

“he cracked a 14 year old” no that man RAPED a 14 year old. “had sex with a young woman” no he raped a girl. it’s rape, call it rape

[marmorada]

Well fuck Doctor Mike then, another male creator down

[virtualcremefem]

men can never shock me anymore at how ignorant they are and how much they don't give a fuck

[callusugly]

[zomb-beth]

Suffragates didn't ruin the lives of other people though? I think they'd be horrified and ashamed of posts like these

[swissjeez]

Not letting men erode women’s sex based rights = ruining their lives apparently

ETA: Men during that era absolutely did think the suffragettes were ruining their lives btw

[parasitefem]

women’s criticism on male authors putting rapey undertones into their novels should be taken completely seriously btw. it doesn’t make them less intelligent or intellectual for refusing to read anything with misogynistic material

[prodigalwitch]

when I say repackaging of rape as a 'fetish' or 'kink' activity that's ~actshully~ consensual delegimatises victims i'm talking about how articles about rape culture in the music scene- as in "rapey lyrics are HOT and should be recontextualized as KINKY"- are linked in news articles about high-profile band members' systemic sexual abuse of minors

[prodigalwitch]

I’m actually so mad. Imagine being a 17-year-old girl and you read that a member of your favorite band has hurt a girl your age in irredeemable ways + linked within the news story you’re reading is a scholarly peer reviewed journal. In this article a supposed “feminist scholar” argues that lyrics glorifying rape can be “recontextualized” as “sexy” and “hot” if that’s “your kink.” essentially saying to this girl “no, hun, it’s okay that he gets off on abusing you- you can also get off to him abusing you if you try!!” and implies that victims are only hurt becuase being abused is not their kink. they're not ~sexy~ enough to sexualize their own abuse. cool, hot, and even smart scholar girls like to be abused.

THIS is what I mean when I say kink-positive feminism actively delegitimizes current victims AND grooms potential victims into accepting silence and complacency

[prodigalwitch]

Yep. this is very relevant to the specific situations I am discussing as well. Many of these men who've been outed as abusers had lyrics glorifying toxic relationships, presenting violence as a marker of intensity and therefore 'real love'. Pre-emptively shielding themselves from criticism while mass-manipulating their mostly-teenage fanbase to equate violence and predation with intensity and attraction.

And when they were outed, they apologized for 'mistakes' they claimed to have committed 'unintentionally', further claiming that 'finding out' they abused fans is 'deeply hurtful' to them.

Then, their male fans attack anyone who's still rightfully outraged for 'ruining his career.' Classic DARVO. Rinse and repeat.

[unrespectability]

EVERY SINGLE ISSUE YOU CAN THINK OF AFFECTS OTHER WOMEN INVISIBLE TO YOU BTW. wars, resource extraction and exploitation of the Global South, environmental issues and pollution, modern slavery, horrors of animal agriculture - all of it. people invisible to you suffer ever day in ways invisible to you, and women tend to suffer the brunt of it. impoverished women of color suffer the environmental consequences of animal agriculture as farms pollute their waterways and poison their neighbourhoods. wives and daughters of slaughterhouse workers suffer physical and sexual violence the men externalize on them after hours of getting traumatized at work. if you spend any time with it, you will see real living breathing women suffering while YOU preach about how they are supposedly your priority! your priority is your own damn peace and entitlement and you should at the very least be honest about that

[loveridden1999]

this is how i feel abt euphoria

[infectiouspiss]

seeing the mature content warning on a post just means i get to play the game of is this actually mature or is this just a woman

[i-am-a-lazy-mess]

hate when I type :) and this 🙂 fucker appears. Go away you evil soul

[zylifd]

these screenshots taken from video fanfictions on youtube from 2009 will never not be funny to me

[femme-fatalistic-serial-killer]

Stop obeying to the censorship, grow some backbone actually. It's rape, not grape. It's suicide, not sewerslide. It's pedophilia, not pdf file. It's dead, not unalive. It's murdered, not pew pew.

[woman-respecter]

it really irks me how men addicted to sports betting are treated like poor helpless victims of a corrupt industry who can’t help but blow their entire salary on a parlay about a dbacks spring training game but women who overspend on lattes or clothes or blind boxes are stupid and evil and everything wrong with capitalism, whose “overconsumption” is noboby’s fault but their own. ignoring that they are also preyed upon by influencers and corporations.

like to be clear i think neither are blameless, but both are somewhat taken advantage of. i just hate that men are given a way more generous interpretation of their situation when women are criticized much more harshly for analagous behavior.

[parasitefem]

guys i’m one second years old how do i respond to this

[marbleguard]

the way so many shows, especially historical shows, will be like, "and let's throw in some PROSTITUTES to liven things up a bit, what a nice titillating garnish to add to our period piece" make me want to kill all male screenwriters forever and ever

[parasitefem]

banana bread latte 😋😋😋