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[atuans]

here’s some of my random spotify playlists check them out if you want they make no sense

songs that sounds like they’re from the 80s but aren’t

you make a cute new friend but you’re not sure if she’s gay and you don’t want to ruin this new friendship so you’re going to try to have fun hanging out with her while not developing any feelings

waiting rooms are liminal spaces

chill vampire tunes for ppl who just got bitten recently

soundtrack for a horror movie where the lesbian couple survive and kill the axe murderer/exorcise the demons/bust some ghosts,etc.

those kids riding on their bikes in indie movies

this one literally makes no sense if you haven’t read the basic eight i guess but i’ll put it here anyway because imo it’s good if you haven’t read it just picture a teenage girl at a party that goes very very wrong

modern songs i would put on the soundtrack of a western movie (ignore the title,,)

[themessyjournals]

French Movies

Hey guys! Movies helped me a lot to improve my French. I love French movies and French cinema and now I wanna share a few of my favorite movies and must-sees with you! I hope they’ll help you!

La peau douce (a bit older, about a man who has an affair with a young girl, black&white, a bit dramatic)

La vie d’Adèle (LESBIANS!)

Sur mes lèvres (a very nice thriller about a deaf girl and a criminal)

Dans la maison (a high school student writes stories about the mother of his buddy and it escalates)

8 femmes (lesbians, bisexuals, drama, a dead man, nice clothes, takes place in the 50ies)

Swimming Pool (you see boobs sometimes, a British writer spends a few days in the South of France and writes about mysterious things that happen there)

Sagan (a biopic about Françoise Sagan, dramatic and a bit gay)

Le placard (a guy pretends to be gay so he doesn’t lose his job)

Poltergay (gay disco ghosts from the 70ies mess up a man’s life and relationship)

Une nouvelle amie (great movie about a trans woman)

Le fabuleux destin d’Amélie Poulain (y’all know this one)

Belles familles (family drama about a house and feelings, a man falls for his very young step sister)

La femme d’à côté (a man discovers that his new neighbour is his ex girlfriend, a lot of amour fou, sad film, dramatic)

Le dernier Métro (a Jewish theater director hides in his theater and his wife falls for an actor, during WW2, nice clothes, 2 gay characters (not main characters but still…))

L’enfer (1994 version) (a jealous man turns his wife’s life into a real nightmare, very interesting film)

L’homme qu’on aimait trop (based on a true story, takes place in Nice, crime, mystery)

Lila dit ça (drama, 2 teenagers living in Marseille, sad love story, a bit nsfw, about a writer)

La belle saison (Lesbians in the 70ies, unshaved arm pits for the win, cute yet sad, takes place on a farm)

Rien à déclarer (a very funny film about French and Belgian ppl and stereotypes)

Bienvenue chez les Ch’tis (y’all should know this one!!! a classic! watch it with French subtitles!!!!)

Persepolis (animation film, an Iranian girl tells us about her life in Iran, France and Austria, very moving, based on real events)

Les innocents aux mains sales (older movie, with Romy Schneider!! a woman kills her husband but he’s not as dead as she thinks he is)

A la folie… pas du tout! (You think this is a cute romatic lil film? you are SO wrong!!)

Les intouchables (y’all know that one I guess)

[thoughtkick]

“I dream of lost vocabularies that might express some of what we no longer can.”

— Jack Gilbert, “The Great Fires”

[naturaekos]

“To know how to think with emotions and to feel with intellect ..”

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[naturaekos]

“Don’t settle for a relationship that won’t let you be yourself.”

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[ghibli-collector]

February 2020 release includes: 

Castle in the Sky (1986), My Neighbor Totoro (1988), Kiki’s Delivery Service (1989), Only Yesterday (1991), Porco Rosso (1992), Ocean Waves (1993), Tales from Earthsea (2006)

March 2020 release includes:

Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind (1984), Princess Mononoke (1997), My Neighbors the Yamadas (1999), Spirited Away (2001), The Cat Returns (2002), Arrietty (2010), The Tale of The Princess Kaguya (2013)

April 2020 release includes:

Pom Poko (1994), Whisper of the Heart (1995), Howl’s Moving Castle (2004), Ponyo on the Cliff by the Sea (2008), From Up on Poppy Hill (2011), The Wind Rises (2013), When Marnie Was There (2014)

[limonadaroja]

Venezuelan-born, Los Angeles-based creative director Eliana Gil Rodriguez for The File

[naturaekos]

““I was tired of pretending that I was someone else just to get along with people, just for the sake of having friendships.””

— Kurt Cobain (via naturaekos)

[dosesofgrace]

Grace Kelly and Cary Grant in To Catch A Thief (1955)

[homojabi]

Who else can’t wait until they get their first apartment with their girlfriend and get to sleep with them in a big bed and have lazy Saturday mornings and go to the farmers market and hold hands and buy flowers for the kitchen table and just finally feel at peace with the world in general because you’re in each other’s lives forever?

[tullipsink]

“I want laughter at 4am and sloppy kisses between dinner dates and hands fumbling underneath the blanket because god knows there is never a minute i can go without touching you and i want silly jokes and awkward handshakes and quiet “i love you’s” over the phone and dancing a lot of dancing i want to dance with you in an aisle at the supermarket as we both try to come up with which taco shells are betterand i want to dance with you on the night we both say i do i want to hold your hand in front of my friends and kiss your cheek when my mother asks me why i am so god damn happy all the time and i want you now,and for as long as forever with you can take me.”

— A.M// i want you always,

[twentyonegirls]

if her smile turns you on im sorry to tell you but you’re fucked

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[coltre]

Giorgina and Nikolay check my instagram for more pictures! Paolo Raeli

[coltre]

Greta and Davide, first day of summer. 21/06/2018 check my instagram Paolo Raeli for more pictures of me and my friends

[teenagecrush]

[myragewillendworlds]

Recognizing emotionally mature people

Taken from Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, Psy.D. A summary of the tips the book hands you on how to recognize emotionally healthy people.

They’re realistic and reliable

They work with reality rather than fighting it. They see problems and try to fix them, instead of overreacting with a fixation on how things should be.

They can feel and think at the same time. The ability to think even when upset makes an emotionally mature person someone you can reason with. They don’t lose their ability to see another perspective just because they aren’t getting what they want.

Their consistency makes them reliable. Because they have an integrated sense of self, they usually won’t surprise you with unexpected inconsistencies.

They don’t take everything personally. They can laugh at themselves and their foibles. They’re realistic enough to not feel unloved just because you made a mistake.

They’re respectful and reciprocal

They respect your boundaries. They’re looking for connection and closeness, not intrusion, control or enmeshment. They respect your individuality and that others have the final say on what their motivations are. They may tell you how they feel about what you did, but they don’t pretend to know you better than you know yourself.

They give back. They don’t like taking advantage of people, nor do they like the feeling of being used.

They are flexible and compromise well. Because collaborative, mature people don’t have an agenda to win at all costs, you won’t feel like you’re being taken advantage of. Compromise doesn’t mean mutual sacrifice; it means a mutual balancing of desires. They care about how you feel and don’t want to leave you feeling unsatisfied.

They’re even-tempered. They don’t sulk or pout for long periods of time or make you walk on eggshells. When angered, they will usually tell you what’s wrong and ask you to do things differently. They’re willing to take the initiative to bring conflict to a close.

They are willing to be influenced. They don’t feel threatened when other people see things differently, nor are they afraid of seeming weak if they don’t know something. They may not agree, but they’ll try to understand your point of view.

They’re truthful. They understand why you’re upset if they lie or give you a false impression.

They apologize and make amends. They want to be responsible for their own behavior and are willing to apologize when needed.

They’re responsive

Their empathy makes you feel safe. Along with self-awareness, empathy is the soul of emotional intelligence.

They make you feel seen and understood. Their behavior reflects their desire to really get to know you, rather than looking for you to mirror them. They aren’t afraid of your emotions and don’t tell you that you should be feeling some other way.

They like to comfort and be comforted. They are sympathetic and know how crucial friendly support can be.

They reflect on their actions and try to change. They clearly understand how people affect each other emotionally. They take you seriously if you tell them about a behavior of theirs that makes you uncomfortable. They’ll remain aware of the issue and demonstrate follow-through in their attempts to change.

They can laugh and be playful. Laughter is a form of egalitarian play between people and reflects an ability to relinquish control and follow someone else’s lead.

They’re enjoyable to be around. They aren’t always happy, but for the most part they seem able to generate their own good feelings and enjoy life.

–  © Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Lindsay C. Gibson, Psy.D.