#NotAllMen will have the courage or the patience to read this!
Most of you will look at this and go “Oh no! Another feminist rant!”.
Many of you will text me saying “Arre itna lamba post! Kaun padta hai yaar aaj kal?!”.
A lot of you will just giggle and mutter, “She’s probably on her period or something!”
Well,let me break it to you. This post is more for you than for anyone else.
If you feel the need to say any of this, then you should know, YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM!
How easy it is to completely disown an issue, using a single fucking hash-tag!
How insensitive and how irresponsible it is to dive into the issue to protect your own egos instead of the dignity of some women!
How nice it is to ruin someone’s New Year celebrations and then blame their “clothes” and “Westernization” for what happened!
When you make stupid statements and use retarded hashtags to prove your own innocence, it shows how deep you’ve dived into your own narrow mentality!
Yes, blame us for this! You should! Because we didn’t call out the bullshit when we should have. So yes, blame us for believing in humanity. Blame us for believing you’ll stand up for us!
To all those of you who flaunted your decency with the hashtag, it’s never you! It’s always the next person! This very way of thinking is the root of all evil!
Stop running from reality. Start owning it. We’re all to blame. For not educating our people enough to know the difference between what’s ‘right’ and ‘wrong’! For not teaching our boys and girls to stand up against abuse! For teaching our people to protect their “honor” instead of standing up for themselves! For watching silently from the corners and blaming only the rapists and the molesters. Yes. We’re the problem!
Accept it. Face it. And learn what to do next. Preaching won’t help, I know! But some needed a reality check around here!
And for all you “cool” boys and girls who find pride and pleasure in disassociating yourselves from anything even remotely feminist, I pity you!
For you, it’ll always be #NotAllMen abuse and #NotAllWomen are abused unless the clock ticks and it’s you or your sister or your mother out there and you’re left as helpless as the girl who was abused just 50 metres away from her own house, yesterday !
Wake up, people! Time to put an end to the hypocrisy that runs in our blood!