Qui Suis Je

"Stop trying to be less of who you are. Let this time in your life cut you open and drain all of the things that are holding you back." - Jennifer Elisabeth

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Above is my genogram ---  a pictorial display of a person's family relationships and medical history.

A family is consist of member that has different roles to portray. Family is where each one of them supports one another. So what kind of family do I have? As you can see, my genogram is a bit complicated. But that doesn’t mean that we have also a complicated relationship. Each one of us understands each other, supports each other, and help each other. Even though we faced hardships, we still didn’t give up on what it takes to become a family. Family is where you can feel home.

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Above is the concept map of my study habits.

The old ones, it could help our brain to develop our cognitive aspect.

The new ones, it could help improve our study habits, and could make our grades go up.

Of course, each one of us has always bad study habits.

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The question now is, “What does it take to become a good leader?”

Some people mistook or perhaps interchange  the words “leader” and “boss”. But the meme above shows the big difference between the two. So, what does it take to be a good leader?

* Leadership is where you establish relationships between you, as a leader, and your members/followers.

* A  leader does not dictate, but guides his members.

* A leader listens to the suggestions of his members, not just his ideas will be followed.

* A leader  know what’s best for his members.

* A leader experiences hardships together with his members, not just watching his members having a hard time.

If that are the things that could take one as a good leader, then what does it take to be a good follower?

* Followers follows instructions from a good leader.

* Followers respect its fellow followers, and his leader.

* Followers got each other’s back, not that doing things on their own.

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-Brainy vs Hearty

Dear Ate Psych,

I don't like to share my problems but hell, I'm severely bleeding. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to cry in front of my friends and family because honestly, i really don’t know what I'm feeling right now. What would I do?

- A broken girl who doesn’t bother to fix what is needed to be fixed.

Reply:

Dear broken girl who doesn’t bother to fix what is needed to be fixed,

People would always experience their downs, it's nothing to be ashamed of. You're unsure of how you're feeling? Cry. Just cry. Let everything out, stop keeping all those emotions all by yourself. I'm here to help you, never be scared or feel shy to tell me your pain and sorrows, isn't that what sisters are for? As an ate I don't want to see my younger sister being in pain and suffering by herself because it also hurts me. I'll be your pillow when you need a hug, I'll be your shoulder to cry on and I'll be the ears to listen to your problems. You're never alone broken girl. 

 Love, Ate Psych

Dear Kuya Hearty,

Could you please stop acting so weird whenever you see him? You don’t have any benefits if you just keep on staring at him or worse, you’ll just keep on bleeding. You’ll just ache when your beat becomes fast.

- A girl who is “hanggang tingin lamang”

Reply:

To the  girl who is “hanggang tingin lamang”,

I'm sorry for being such a bad role model for you, I know you're right and I should listen to you. As an older brother I feel bad that I couldn't act right, for being immature. I know you're saying this to me because you care for me and you want what's good for me, but sometimes in love there are always times where you'd become a fool. I won't promise but I'll try to keep those words in my mind and be a good brother to you. Thank you. 

Love always, Kuya Hearty

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People nowadays are so hardworking to the point that their bodies and minds would shutdown because of their overloading works. That is what we call “STRESS”. It could lead to depression, anxiety, insomnia, frequent headaches, and more. So, how could we manage stress to avoid these psychological effects? Below are some techniques that we could apply on our daily lives. Steps on stress management: * Take a deep breath. * Relax. * Take time to reflect. * Find solutions to every problem. * lf you can't handle, then ask for help to other people and be open. * Think positive always. * SMILE 😊 You must try these techniques which I, personally, made. For sure, it will work on each and every one of us. 😉 Have a good day, young one!

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Teenagers are the ones who can feel intense emotions nowadays. To the point that they can't control it. Everyone can feel happiness, sadness, excitement, disappointment, and other emotions --- even love. So the now is "HOW CAN WE MANAGE OUR EMOTIONS?" There are different ways on how to manage one's emotion. Below are the different ways to manage one's emotions. HAPPINESS >You could share the good vibes to other people to enlighten the atmosphere. >You could do tasks in a light way. SADNESS >You could have journals/diaries to write down things that bothers you. >Taking long baths could help unburden one's feelings. ANGER >You could express anger through working hard. >You could listen to music to enlighten your mood.

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A Little Thing Called Love

According to people, Love is forgiving and not deceiving For others, Love is like bubblegum, where it sticks no matter what But what is really love? Is it where you get butterflies in your tummy? Is it where you feel different emotions? Happiness, sadness, excitement at the same time? But what is really love? Is it where you give up everything for someone? Is it where you sacrifice for other's happiness? Does it need to have a chemistry between two people? When can we say that a little thing called love exist? Nobody really knows what is love Nobody can explain what is love But everyone can feel it Everyone experiences it Even you, even me, even them.

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Above is my personal mandala. As you can see, it is divided into three parts. One portion takes the half of the circle and is drawn by simple "flowers". Another portion takes another 3/4 portion of the half portion that is drawn by many vines. And last portion is the very little space that was left in the whole circle and drawn by grids or whatever you call that. The first portion, that took half of the circle, represents my personality that I show to the people who doesn't know me which is being simple. The second portion represents my personality that I show to the people who are involved in my life: parents, families, friends, etc. The last portion is the representation of my personality that I don't show it to anyone, that I, myself, only knows which is being complicated. Yes, my inner self is so complicated, that I, myself, don't understand. You can also see the center part of the circle, that is drawn by a yin yang. The yin yang represents my whole self/personality. It is composed of good and bad.

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Here are some letters that my friends gave to me.

GOOD VIBES ALWAYS! - Nuraj

Hi Sittie! Stay who you are and stay pretty as always. If there are some other people who look down on you, don’t mind them ‘cause you know who you are. - CJ Diao

Bebehko! Always remember that I always got your back! Breathe the good vibes in, exhale the bad vibes out! - Justine

You may be experiencing hardships at the moment, but believe me, everything’s going to be alright. I love you! - Mai

Faisah! The bond we have maybe new but you will always be irreplaceable! - Micmic

Stay positive and always smile! - Ayenah

Hi Faisah! Please continue to being pretty, funny, cool, and smart! Stay just the way you are because we love you like that. - Sarah M.

Hi Sittie. Keep on smiling! I have known you to be a happy and jolly person. Keep on doing that. Continue to inspire others through the way you live your life. Keep it up and never stop living your dreams. - Miss May

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Gotta catch ‘em all

we worked hard, play hard

we pull hard, push hard

aiming a life of success

taming ourselves to process

do the things that are needed

mourn for the things that faded

dive deep into the hole

to pass through the flock of coals

one wants to give up

yet its better to wrap up

you expect

it makes me wrecked

she’ll be an engineer

need not to interfere

you may adhere

she’s breathing her time’s atmosphere

she’ll be a victor

she’s a successor

she’s a triumph

and her name is Faisah

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You are living my life

To the people who expect something from me,

You keep on expecting what I have to do and not to do.

You keep on demanding that I should do this and do that.

I try to live for your expectations.

I try to do my best to not disappoint you.

I try and try.

But I guess trying my best wasn’t enough.

Trying my best isn’t enough.

And for sure, trying my best will never be enough.

I ain’t a perfect human.

I ain’t superman.

That can do everything,

even the most difficult things.

I make mistakes, I fail at times.

No recognition that can be received,

but disappointments is all I received.

Can’t you get your own lives?

Because I have my own life.

Can you just stop expecting from me,

and everybody will be happy.

I live my life, you live your life.

I don’t have any problem with that.

You keep on expecting what I have to do and not to do,

You keep on demanding that I should do this and do that.

Let me remind you,

I am just a human.

- A girl who is living for your expectations

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A girl who experienced hell and heaven.

In life, everyone of us can experience many ups and downs. It already depends on how one would handle it. But for me, I would handle it easy peasy. I handle it simply and not make it complicated. I just enjoy every moment of my life. As you can see, I treasure every moment I have. I don’t accept bad vibes, and every time I make mistakes, I ponder upon it and simply move on. But I’m making sure that I would not do the same mistake again.