candy coated

Enchanted. Lady. Older than you think. Too young to care. Love is my muse. Life is but a dream.

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Midsummer Wishes

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Run...

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TBT... I find a ton of old pictures recently. I didn't realize how photogenic I used to be, as opposed to the photo hermit I am now. I also miss every single pair of shoes pictured.

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[itsjustaprilnow]

…her wings are cut and then she is blamed for not knowing how to fly.

Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex  (via plathisms)

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Soon...

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She floats like a swan 

Grace on the water

[ibegantoseevoices-blog]

Keepers of private notebooks are a different breed altogether, lonely and resistant rearrangers of things, anxious malcontents, children afflicted apparently at birth with some presentiment of loss.

Joan Didion (She is a genius.)

Soooo many notebooks

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Some rare cuddle action going on earlier. Which was really a sunbeam battle in disguise. 💕

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Boredom is the bane of an Aquarius and I am feeling very bored. Also, very incomplete. Something is tugging at me, but I can’t pinpoint what.

[aquariussitsalone]

Do aquarius' get hurt easily and how do you know if they're hurt ?

If you’re someone who is very important to the Aquarius then they’re probably very sensitive to your actions and behavior toward them and it’s very possible that they could easily be hurt by you. Otherwise, with people they don’t feel close to, Aquarians tend to have a pretty thick skin. 

Correct me if I’m wrong, but I think we tend to avoid people when we’re hurt. It’s very difficult for us to face someone who has hurt our feelings because we don’t want them to know that they’ve hurt us because that draws a lot of attention to the fact that A.) we are mushy and feel pain just like everybody else, and B.) that person has the power to make us feel said pain. For an Aquarius (and for a lot of people, I’m sure) it can be difficult to realize that just because someone sees that you are hurt, it doesn’t mean that they will think you’re weak or oversensitive or dumb.

When I get hurt, there’s usually a lot of anger that comes along with it. I would assume that this applies to other Aquarians as well because we take sssssuuuuccchhhhhhhhhh fucking care who we let into our hearts and who we let get close enough to hurt us. Like, if you are one of the chosen few, you must have proven in some way or another to be a really. remarkable. fucking. person. so that just makes it 10000000% more frustrating and infuriating and maddening and just fucking PAINFUL when we feel betrayed or neglected or abused or manipulated or etc. by you. Now, with anger by itself, you’re more likely to get a confrontation, I would venture to say…but if it’s anger mixed with hurt, or just plain hurt, then there’s a good chance that the Aquarius might just withdraw from you completely and try to distance themselves from the pain. 

That doesn’t mean that they don’t want or would not be willing to talk it out. Usually if there is ANY type of tension with someone important to us, it’ll drive us absolutely insane trying to figure out what we did wrong to deserve the treatment or what might be going on in the person’s life to make them act that way and why aren’t they apologizing and maybe I’m just being oversensitive and perceiving things differently than they were intended or no maybe they actually just hate me and don’t want to be my friend/significant other/whatever anymore and a billion other thoughts that we just can’t hold the fucking reigns on so we just decide to try and ignore the situation completely and hope that the other person makes the first move towards resolution, which just results in sadness. Lots and lots and lots and lots of quiet sadness. 

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Perfectly put.

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Holy freaking tbt! I found this little gem last night. I think it was 2006…

[larmoyante]

What I want is to be needed. What I need is to be indispensable to somebody. Who I need is somebody that will eat up all my free time, my ego, my attention. Somebody addicted to me. A mutual addiction.

Chuck Palahniuk, Choke (via larmoyante)

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A cat and her gigantic Franken frappicinos. Like a sugar mesmerized deer in the headlights.