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☿trans woman♀ fae/faer + maw/maws + claw/claws + bark/barks suspected ASPD & NPD plural 18

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$wobbledogian

d0nate to my CA maybe

reasons you may want to:

I'm transfem, im intersex, im disabled (mentally and physically - my chronic pain and fatigue and deformed legs are the main shit tho), i am no longer homeless but not fully moved out of my abusive home and all my shits being held by other people so i have nothing, i live in poverty unable to eat in my new living situation, i'm out of work due to medical issues, in medical debt, etc

i dont NEED cash too bad i can pay to skip a few meals lol but.. it'd be nice idk:( i promise only to buy food or soap or water or medicine or medical supplies or etc with it

!!not verified cuz i have no ID so idk,, dont send 9 million dollars i wont get it and the jonkla will steal ot!!

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does this then blocks me.... honey did you read what you wrote?

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translation: i fucking hate trans women specifically but i cant say that so ima say essentially "males" except slyly make it obvious i dont mean cis men at all. teehee!!!

this the typa wording yall gotta be looking out for - TERFs will try to bend shit but the core message remains the same

[florellia]

oop is right lol males use LGBT labels as an excuse to worm into women's and LGBT spaces and prey on young women. "TMA watch" in your tags is obviously just "I hate women" it's not even subtle.

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I don't spend my days with hatred, unlike you.

[florellia]

unable to come up with any actual rebuttal or points lol

[schizoenjoyer]

Do you think only "AFABs" are TME? Lmao, most TME people are men. 99.5% of people are TME.

[autogynophelia]

How do you write a post that length and it never occurs to you to just stop making people so uncomfortable that they're only nice to you when they're socially trapped lol

Of course that's occurred to me, I'm not an idiot, and it's the default assumption that occurs to any bullied kid: people are treating me like this because I am doing something wrong. Even if all I am doing wrong is going to an event that I've been invited to many times.

It actually takes a long time to come to the realisation that, if your mere existence seems to make people uncomfortable, that's actually a problem with them, not you. It's not a crime to be an effeminate autistic boy, as a Gender Critical you are supposed to believe that effeminacy in boys is totally fine and not at all a moral problem. It's only when that "boy" claims the mantle of "girl" that you are supposed to object to it, and the post your referring to is set long before I did that. You're not supposed to admit that you think the oppression of effeminate boys is good and fair and understandable, that's supposed to be something you are politically opposed to. Are you sure you understand the ideology to which you have committed yourself?

The fact that you thought it wouldn't have occurred to a bullied kid that their bullying is justified only suggests to me that you were never bullied yourself, no bullying victim would make an assumption like that. And if you weren't bullied at school it's normally because you were the bully. I guess growing older didn't change much 🤷

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😧

translation: i fucking hate trans women specifically but i cant say that so ima say essentially "males" except slyly make it obvious i dont mean cis men at all. teehee!!!

this the typa wording yall gotta be looking out for - TERFs will try to bend shit but the core message remains the same

[florellia]

oop is right lol males use LGBT labels as an excuse to worm into women's and LGBT spaces and prey on young women. "TMA watch" in your tags is obviously just "I hate women" it's not even subtle.

[penatola]

I don't spend my days with hatred, unlike you.

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I'm really sorry but you give the vibe that Black people aren't safe around you.

No i don't. know how I know? because you are an anon made to stir up bullshit, whereas people who arent committing digital blackface use their real accounts every day and are black and talk to me normally. discuss normally. fell "safe" on my accounts normally.

[triumphofkingfreak]

cisgender people will look you in the eyes and say their favorite horror movie is sleepaway camp and it's "not transphobic because she's not really trans". and then it's the most transmisogynistic film you've ever seen

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this!

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if your entire blog is just shitting on trans women, no i dont trust your jax opinion

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a "he/it/they" in bio just told me "Jax went my He him until he Extracted. So im callin him He."

like shit remenver when we used to gaf. remember when we used to mourn all the trans people who killed themselves and werent out and so nobody to remember them could ever even think to call them the right pronouns. there was no shot the right name was on the grave. they died lonely, scared, tortured by society, like ISTTG they were burried alive and they died burried. Nobody ever saw the real them.

Remember when we used to mourn all the ways in death we would be unable to be ourselves, and then have compassion for those who never got to even in life? Now we have members of our own community saying things like this.

It's not a fandom discourse to me, it is indicative of your overall opinions on other trans people. If you want to go out of your way to misgender a trans woman in death, no the reason doesn't matter, I don't trust you. Fiction or not. In fiction y'all love to write think pieces about how y'all wanna brutalize us and be horrible to us - and we are just supposed to take any BS excuse as justification. I am tired. No more.

[no-imply]

Thank you for the insightful comparison. So then, what's the IRL alternative of referring to Jax, the closeted trans woman who spent the entire show hating femininity, with she/her pronouns that he explicitly did not want to use during the show.

It's outing Jax. Before he is ready, no less; like the "allies" who forcibly reveal their trans friend is trans because they were "trying to help," then insist that it's for their own good or that they know better than the person themselves. How much better are you than them?

This argument would make even a little bit of sense if Jax was even slightly receptive to being called that, or actually aware that he is closeted - and even then, if Jax didn't come out within the show, there is a reason for that. He's not comfortable, he's not ready, or he's not safe (though the last one is not true given the show's environment).

Your argument conflates trans people who actually came out in any capacity, died, and were/are remembered under the wrong name and pronouns with people like Jax, who realized it in (essentially) his dying moment, after trying to deny and fight it. He honestly probably would've avoided it longer if he could've. He spent the duration of that revelation crying about being a pathetic, hateable asshat who wanted no one to love him.

That's the problem with all your scenarios, because in all of them a trans woman vocalized to at least one person what she really wanted to be called. Jax did not ever get to say what he wanted to be called.

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jax is a fictional character. you dont bitch about gay headcannons or fanfiction as if they were real, yet now when acknowledging cannon you wanna go "but its weird". fuck you.

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ive been off chasing other places onlije to gather data

so many diverse viewpoints

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i come back from a mental health break and your red? who got mad and got them and their friends to mass mark you?

who knowssss lol

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WHY ARE YOU HARASSING MY TRANSFEMINIST BLOG FROM YOUR HERMIT CRAFY SNUFF FETISH BLOG..

YOU COULDNT CHOOSE A DIFFERENT BLOG TO YSE?? i dont want u posting about devious shit in the middle of harassing me cuz i said some people are privileged and thats okay

[scheduled post for obvs reasons]

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health update: nobody can take me to the doctor

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just fucked up my foot royally and may need serious medical attention, and at the very least need to go in

idk how much it will cost yet

but if anyone could send some cash my way that'd be nice

$wobbledogian

[sial-nawfed]

"i dont like intersectional feminist terminology because it implies that i have the capacity and means to enact violence and thats unfair because im literally so niceys" - one of the most dangerous and unsafe people youll ever meet

[sial-nawfed]

these people will say "hey dont group me in with all the other white/male/cis/TME people, im one of the good ones" without a shred of self-awareness

[ibawrfsprinkles]

can we as a society stop treating trans women like the scum of the earth holy shit get a fucking life

[0highlyvolatile0]

this has not been talked about extensively you’re just on the internet for 5+ hours a day