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"trans men benefit from terfism" yeah if i detransitioned and became a submissive pregnant wife for a man i might. but like its almost like being trans isnt a choice or something and isnt just a costume we can take on or off depending on the political climate or something
the only way someone could see terfism / the ways that TERFs prey on trans men + transmasculine people as a privilege or a benefit is if they love conversion therapy and think itâs a cool and good thing. because thatâs what that is. terfs are preying on trans men + transmascs.
theyâre victims, not benefactors. being indoctrinated into a cult is not a positive thing. itâs a tragedy. nothing you gain when youâre indoctrinated into a cult is real, because itâs all contingent on you maintaining a belief system based on lies. why do you see it as a privilege that trans men + transmasculine people are being preyed on and indoctrinated into a cult that seeks to isolate, detransition and harm them by turning them into chess pieces and canon fodder? that sounds horrifying. Iâm horrified that itâs happening.
I donât blame cult victims for being indoctrinated into cults and if you know anything about cults youâd realize you blaming them for it isnât actually helping at all. What does help? Analyzing the conditions that are creating this pipeline without blaming the fucking victims. Maybe consider listening to the people susceptible to being victimized in this way about what they need to not feel isolated / unsupported / vulnerable and without recourse? I think that would be a cool place to start and would help a lot.
Unfortunately nuance isnât real on the internet so a lot of people will read this and hear âso youâre saying itâs trans ppls fault this exists and we have to fix itâ nope! Sorry! Iâm saying we are real people who exist with these people and we have influence over each other. The more you act like nothing you do matters or affects other people the more you will do things that affect other people and the less youâll ever consider changing and growing as a person. We do have influence over these things. I donât want to lose (any more of) my brothers to the terf freaks preying on them and Iâll do everything in my power to make that so.
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The secret to gluten free baking is that the bastards donât put enough xanthan gum or other binders in their gluten free flour and you should add your own. Add like 1/4 tsp of xanthan gum to your baked goods aight itâll be better and most grocery stores these days have some in the baking aisle.
Discussion Shorthand TMDP/TWDP
I dislike using the words male and female to refer to sex traits because it misgenders trans people with those sex traits. And I also just don't believe in "biological sexes" to begin with.
TMDP (Typical Mullarian Developmental Pathway)- referring to typical/perisex development of characteristics such as breasts, vulva, uterus, ovaries, etc.
Examples of people with TMDP
(perisex) cis women
(perisex) trans men
some (perisex) nonbinary people.
TWDP (Typical Wolffian Developmental Pathway)- referring to typical/perisex development of characteristics such as facial hair, penis, scrotum, testicles, prostate, etc.
Examples of people with TWDP
(perisex) cis men
(perisex) trans women
some (perisex) nonbinary people.
What if someone has neither TWDP or TMDP traits? They are intersex.
This exists for the purpose of talking about anatomy/medical needs as well as for the purpose of explaining how intersex variations differ from perisex sex traits without using the words male/female, as just using those terms further reinforces the coupling of gender and sex traits. I believe all sex traits should be completely decoupled from gender.
Not a sports guy but this is wonderful
@tired-old-men hope you donât mind the @ but you pointed out that this post has been deleted on Twitter and asked for a link! Wanted to both give that to you and also to anyone else curious.
The first all trans-masculine football team in the world is proving that there is a place for everyone in sports
This is being reblogged a bunch again so hereâs the version with a link since the Twitter post is gone!
The radfems found this post again and are being shit-heels in the reblogs so Iâm gonna reblog this again myself so more trans positive interactions happen.
This is so badass!!!
"Femininity is rewarded!" "No, masculinity is rewarded!"
You're both wrong. It's perceived gender conformity that's actually rewarded.
iâm not aromantic but i believe in their beliefs
for me being bi has contributed a huge amount to noticing all the ways in which romance and friendship run together and i think in general people would benefit from recognizing that romance and friendship are socially constructed categories used to describe a vast, nebulous, and often overlapping range of feelings
My way of parsing it:
Every Relationship is actually a specific, unique thing. We invented Shorthands, such as Friend or Husband, to help describe recurring motifs in Relationships. But. The labels are simplifications. They will always fail to adequately contain the entirety of the Relationship.
like this post if you're a trembling theyfab plucked from a pop punk concert resisting anti trans laws, reblog to give a fist bump and a hug to a clocky 6'0 tranny with a big rifle! we're going to the same protest! I love the trans community <3 death to exorsexism and transmisogyny forever and ever <3
and if you happen to BE the clocky 6'0 trans girl and you're reading this, you need to report to my house immediately because we're going on a friend date to the bubble tea shop. and I want you to get the fanciest drink with as many toppings as you want, because it's on me <3
Okay this is gong to sound condescending on several levels but:
There's a kind of cliche about training a dog - that if you want it to always come when it's called, you should never scream at or punish it when it does. Even if you just spent twenty minutes getting increasingly panicked thinking it was dead in the woods! Even if it had been trampling through the neighbors garden! It is very important that it's direct association is 'stopping whatever super interesting thing I was doing to go back to human = being praised and rewarded'. If the association is instead being screamed at or punished, the dog will be less enthusiastic to stop whatever fun thing it's doing to run to that.
I feel like a great many people would noticably improve their own lives if they started applying the same logic to how they treated other humans.
As someone in behavior science, this is absolutely true, and very important!
When your learner doesn't know whether they'll get an aversive (uncomfortable/unpleasant) or appetitive (desirable, pleasant) consequence for performing a specific behavior, it creates stress and conflict, and often leads to the behavior breaking down.
In our industry this is known as a "Poisoned Cue." And it's the reason we generally recommend folks choosing a NEW cue when enrolling in a recall class!
Humans experience poisoned cues all the time. Imagine your mom texts you:
"Call me"
Nothing else, just the text. And your stomach drops.
But why? She might want to tell you she bought you tickets to your favorite concert, or that she wants to drop off some cookies! What reason would you have to assume you're in trouble? Because if even ONCE that kind of text resulted in a negative experience, THAT is what your mind will conjure up first. And that is why we want to be very careful NOT to accidentally mix reinforcement with punishment, especially for important behaviors like recall which we may need to use in situations regarding safety.
And there's scientific evidence to support it!
The purpose of this experiment was to compare the effects of combining negative reinforcement and positive reinforcement during teaching wit
@helloitslance (link) with over 26k followers on tiktok, blocks anyone who points out that he is spreading misinformation about intersex experiences, such as implying intersex individuals are less likely to face harm or don't experience being outed
Just a few examples of the calm comments that were left by a few different intersex individuals. Myself, another user I know, and my gf were all blocked after leaving these
The post itself isn't awful, it's not horrendous or anything but the way he responds to having biases pointed out is very concerning. He is not an ally to our fight. Look at what this content breeds in the comments
"pity points" are them viewing you as less of a person btw. Also "gyno insecurity" is a disgusting thing to say abt societal abuse regarding intersex traits. This is not only using our abuse, it encourages it to strangers! It supports the belief that we should be medicated, that our existence is pitiful and depressing
As for the last one, I hate to say this, but have any of you ever heard about Brandon Teena? You know he often used being intersex as an excuse, but he wound up being outed anyways, leading to him being brutally raped and murdered?
This whole theory relies on denying intersex abuse
I fucking hate perisex people sometimes (cw I am angry)
I'm so serious, if you do shit like this, or support shit like this, you ARE a NASTY bigot.
If you're a perisex trans person pretending to be intersex for your ""safety"" you're assuming we are fucking safe. What the fuck is wrong with you? Why do you hate intersex people so much that you think it's acceptable to use us for your own gain?
I hate this shit! I fucking hate that the trans community as a whole just assumes we have it so much better than they do, that we're just 'allowed' to look the way we do, because 'it's a medical condition'. They have no idea what it's like, the isolation, the shame, the harassment, the complete lack of an irl community for so many if us.
The amount of perisex trans people who do this is NOT insignificant, and it DOES impact the way cis people see us, this does matter, it DOES harm our community, and it DOES promote harm against us. Most people only know of intersex conditions as "DSDs" and "Hormone disorders", continuing to promote that idea is ACTIVELY HARMFUL.
Perisex trans people lying about having bodies like mine and simultaneously referring to that sort body as "disordered" and saying they're trying to fix it, that existing like this is a horrible medical problem, etc, what the FUCK is wrong with you? God. That rhetoric is what gets people like me FORCED onto hormones & puberty blockers, it gets us COERCED into unnecessary cosmetic surgeries, AS CHILDREN.
I hate this shit. I hate seeing this shit from trans people. If you're perisex and you see people doing this, you tell them to cut that shit out immediately. And if you don't? You're being complicit in our erasure and in the promoting of violence against us.
so can we start hunting down white liberals now or what
The full picture is even more heart breaking after you open the uncropped version. Just a heads-up, it's rough
âThe Roman Catholic Parish in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan was just grafitted.â
Nah letâs post it. Letâs feel it. Donât look away.
I notice alot of my followers on here skipping these posts just to mess with my lgbt ones, suspiciously the white popular ones.
Heres a not so friendly reminder, as an lgbt metis person, i dont give a single fuck what your blog is themed or if this is too painful for you to look at. Reblog this post. Reblog this post with the sources of the 751 children who were found.
Your compliance and silence as well as the compliance and silence of your ancestors is what allowed these schools to open and kill first nations children. The children of MY people.
Dont follow me if you cant reblog this post or the one with sources to your political blog or your most popular blog. Add trigger warnings if you must but if your political blog is only focused on the harms you personally face like being lgbt then you need to see some bigger pictures and stop being afraid of angering your racist mutural or actually saying some shit about racism. If you can reblog some antifa graphics or add blm to your bio to be a surface level ally, you can reblog some sources on the genocide first nations people faced and still face today.
They were CHILDREN.
They were murdered in cold blood.
Iâd like to add this photo I took last night in Victoria of the statue of Captain Cook. Though I myself am not indigenous, I 100% agree that these murderers, kidnappers and rapists shouldnât have huge statues and plaques that decorate them and say how âgreatâ they were.
Hereâs another photo of the legislative assembly from yesterday. Later on there were more items, candles and signs at the memorial, as well as a big poster with 1505 painted on it but I didnât get a picture
People need to see this. Not just quickly glance at the photos and keep on scrolling. They need to see this.
Reblog this or just stop following me
I had seen the first picture of the church, but not the second.
I went to a âCancel Canada Dayâ event and burst into tears - not because I was surprised to learn of the unmarked graves (survivors told us they were there. Our government pushed it aside, and we let them), but because seeing all the people gathered in mourning drove it home: They. Were. Children.
This is my countryâs legacy - and itâs not history. The last schools closed during my lifetime. My Father went to school with students who lived at the local residential school, after it was changed to a boarding house (read: holding centre) for indigenous youth who went to local schools.
They were all children, injured, abused, and killed in my countryâs attempt to erase them. I want the world to see this and hold the state accountable to *active* reconciliation> I mean we could at least truly adopt UNDRIP in action instead of words for godâs sake.
here you can read an article about a survivor of the church and some of the things he experienced to help put into perspective how awful and just how recent it was
this is the memorial at the vancouver art gallery. 215+ pairs of childrenâs shoes (as well as stuffed toys and flowers) cover the stepsâŚ
I *hate* how they always bury the lede with psych shit. Info paraphrased from Wikipedia, though it's the same sort of thing everywhere really. Also apologies for the art; I cannot draw
people keep reposting my comics without credit or permission so heres a dump of my comics frome my twitter @/cuptoast
do not my reposts my art, if u see one of my comics uploaded to here, it was not with my permisiions!
I need perisex people to understand that the 'corrective' surgeries done on intersex children are nothing like bottom surgeries for trans people. Not just because of the lack of consent, but also because it is literally not the same surgery.
Bottom surgeries for trans people are done with the intent to maintain function and sensation in line with what the individual wants, they are functional just as much as they are cosmetic.
IGM on the other hand is purely cosmetic. It is done for the comfort of the parents due to the violent biases against intersex people sterily written into medical protocols. Visibly intersex genitalia is seen as already being faulty and disgusting; therefore anything done to change it would be an improvement, regardless of the side effects.
I need you to understand how they speak about what they do to us.
I really love the dragon reaction image. Can I have one or does it have to be asinine trf hatemail?
idk why people tend to act like only medical transition has any bad repercussions when social and legal transition too are constantly under attack
trying to ban using someone's correct name or pronouns at the workplace or school, outing kids who socially transition at school to their parents, the whole bathroom thing, the fact that legal transition is impossible for british nonbinary people, the fact that legal transition in general was made very difficult in germany for the longest time until last november and that nonbinary germans couldn't legally transition until just a few years ago, the fact that the US is destroying passports of people who legally transitioned, the fact that german bureaucracy makes it so that social transition sometimes requires legal transition because a lot of places will refuse to change your name if you don't have legal documents, that an X in your passport makes if dangerous to go to certain places, that the mere concept of pronouns is mocked to death, that nongendered terminology for gendered languages is mocked to death, that places in germany are actively banning the use of nonbinary-inclusive language, that i got mocked at my graduation ceremony for daring to ask for inclusive language, that my second ever therapist refused to actually help me with my real problem because all he wanted to talk about was my gender, that my loan with my bank kept getting denied over and over until we realised it was because my Mx title caused a problem in their system, the fact that i had to fight for my legal transition for 6 years all the way up until i was signing my paperwork because they falsely forced a middle name on me, that socially transitioning at school increased bullying, slur calling etc, that transgender people "coincidentally" became a debate topic in class after i came out, constantly legislating transgender people out of existence and so much more
none of these have anything to do with medical transition and yet they're actively making transgender people's lives harder or even dangerous, fucking with our health and livelihood. or do you all really think these are someone exclusive to medical transition.
social and legal transition are just as life-saving for trans people of all genders, and we're losing access to all of it. the fact that social transition in particular is forgotten is rooted in exorsexism, ageism, transmedicalism. a lot of people only connect social transition to trans kids or nonbinary adults, people who one day will "grow up" and become "complete" i.e. binary and medically transitioned trans people.
