endos of any kind, lgbtphobic, hardcore christians, pr0sh!p, map/zoo or supporter, against neos, support mspec lesbians/gays, tcc, sh/ed blogs, racist, xenophobic, support autism speaks or peta, terfs, transmeds, believe in narcissistic abuse, fakeclaimers
Ppl are always like “it would be so much easier to be disabled if society wasn’t ableist” and in a general sense they’re very very correct but it would also drastically improve my life if my immediate family was just like…ten percent less ableist. Like that’s all I’m really asking for. Maybe just! Don’t make a disgusted face when I use mobility aids! That’s it that’s literally all I’m asking for.
can we stop using physical/sexual abuse for general system traumas?
physical/sexual abuse = trauma
trauma ≠ physical/sexual abuse
in fact, most systems around the world were developed because of these types of abuse, but indirectly people often end up invalidating other systems that have suffered other types of trauma by portraying it only as the physical or sexual ones.
here’s the meaning of trauma:
parents fighting each other every single day can be traumatic for a child.
humiliation, bullying, social exclusion and/or prejudice can be traumatic for a child.
religious issues (occurs when an individual struggles with leaving a religion or a set of beliefs that has led to their indoctrination. it often involves the trauma of breaking away from a controlling environment, lifestyle, or religious figure. font) can be traumatic for a child (ex.: a child forced by their parents to believe only in a certain religion and facing punishment if they question its beliefs or the parents’ attitude).
daily verbal abuse/emotional instability from parents can be traumatic for a child (yelling, insults).
Some system struggle related userboxes, based on ones we personally experience
(P.S. As a reminder, all systems will have unique experiences overall, and some of the individual things you may experience that make you nervous may actually be more common than you think. It's normal to worry about these things as well. At the end of the day, we are all different, and we don't need to fight to justify our validity in existing, or the validity of our experiences. We are here because of trauma, we don't need to justify our existence to anybody. <3)
[Text 1: This system struggles with worrying that they need to justify splits and alters existing]
[Text 2: This user gets anxious when the rest of the system goes quiet while fronting]
[Text 3: This system has many alters without clear or active roles and is afraid that it makes them less valid]
[Text 4: This system's alters worry about not being able to fulfill a clear role]
[Text 5: This system gets anxious about unusual and/or frequent splits]
[Text 6: This system is afraid that their experiences aren't normal and that others will judge them]
[Text 7: This system is still working on learning self-acceptance no matter their experiences or how their system functions]
[Text 8: This system struggles with worrying about faking but is getting better at avoiding those thoughts and worries]
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Shout out to disabled people whose family is ableist. Your symptoms aren’t invalid just because the people surrounding you don’t believe you.
You’re not faking, you’re not crazy, you’re not overreacting. Your pain, or any other symptoms you experience, is valid and deserves to be listened to.
👻This is for the kiddos who love to watch horror movies,
☠This is for the kiddos who listen to true crime,
🧟♂️This is for the kiddos who watch and play horror games,
💀This is for the kiddos who love creepypasta,
👽This is for the kiddos who care for all things creepy and crawly,
You are just as valid as any other little kid, not every regressor has to enjoy cartoons and pastel colours; your interests are important, don't let anybody tell you otherwise!
[ID: a digitally drawn two-panel comic. / Image 1: Text reads: “How I expected using a cane would feel:” Panel depicts a miserable person in tattered clothes, hunched over a cane and shaking as they walk. / Image 2: Text reads: “How it actually feels:” Panel depicts the same person, now standing tall and wearing flowing wizard robes and a long white beard. Their cane is at their side, glowing with magic, and they look confident and powerful. /ID]
‘i dont want my childs diagnosis to become their personality’ do you understand how LIFE ALTERING having a disability is. do you understand because i dont think you do! especially during the pandemic it is doctors appointment after doctors appointment and test after test and literally nothing else. i plan my entire life around my chronic illness! my livelihood is determined by my chronic illnesses!!! its not ‘my personality’ its my life.