Girl Uninterrupted

Biphobic Bisexual, Coercively Assigned American at Birth, cinephile and bibliophile WAY too into cooking 🍳

[t4nku]

But seriously, what is the psychological consequence of being required to wear an uncomfortable article of clothing every single day? What are the consequences of associating that uncomfortable clothing with being in public and social situations? And the required uncomfortable clothing is very expensive, and finding a comfortable one is borderline impossible to the point where the vast majority of women just accept this daily background discomfort. EVERY DAY. AT ALL TIMES. What does it do to a person to train them to accept physical discomfort as a fact of life? Oh my god it's horrifying

[fizzytrashcan]

[originalitysquared]

Excuse me... fucking. What?

[philipkindreddickhead]

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/08/06/business/uber-sexual-assault.html

Link to the article.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Im in the belly of the beast now. (Asheville)

[philipkindreddickhead]

Crashed my car. City is truly cursed.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Im in the belly of the beast now. (Asheville)

[philipkindreddickhead]

I forgot that many people were following me.

[philipkindreddickhead]

The thing that I find so exhausting about "if the roles were reversed" is that the roles will NEVER truly be reversed. There is too great a difference between a man doing something, his motivations, his capabilities, and a woman doing something with her motivations and capabilities. Fundamentally a woman breaking a restraining order to show up at her ex's wedding will never be the same threat as a man doing the same. Not when women commit only 10-20% of violent crimes and carry guns at half the percentage men do. Not when the average man can overpower the average woman.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Also the dinner party thing reminds me of the time I saw a cute recipe on Instagram calling for surimi saying it was cheap and easy and all the comments were absolutely ripping into this woman that if she thinks IMITATION CRAB is cheap then she's out of touch and rich. Imitation crab is 3.99 a pound! cheaper than both ground beef and boneless skinless chicken breast. Yes there is a reality where some people cant afford any meat but its no where near a common enough problem to be ripping a woman to shreds over unless your criteria for cheap recipe is thin gruel only.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Just jumping off the mention where I got called rich, rich at work for contributing 50 bucks to buy diapers... one of my coworkers who always complained about being broke literally just dropped 5000 on a gaming rig. Like I genuinely think people either dont know how to budget or just feel so guilty for not spending on others they tear people who do down.

[kiefbowl]

I saw on insta this morning a reel of a woman who's been hosting a dinner party for friends for the past two years show snap shots of the parties each month for the last year. and I'm interested in that in general, I'd like to start hosting more. so I go into the comments and there are just some rank ass ppl saying things like "oh so you're rich rich" and "some of us don't have money." Is it fun living so miserably?

[creatureofthecornfield]

maybe im too broke but if you can afford to host a dinner party every month thats fucking rich, unless you're hosting a potluck, dinner parties are fucking expensive

[kiefbowl]

okay so what?

[creatureofthecornfield]

so what? not everyone has the fucking means to throw fancy ass dinner parties constantly, some of us are fuckin suffering.

[kiefbowl]

yeah but like why is that relevant to someone posting their dinner party. it has nothing to do with you.

[creatureofthecornfield]

you're the one criticizing poor folks for being irritated that the rich can flaunt their wealth for everyone to see constantly. if you wanna have a nice thing with friends thats fine but its for a group chat, not the public internet. rich folks need to quit showing off.

[femmesandhoney]

if you're a bad cook and cannot budget a meal just say that

[philipkindreddickhead]

Right? I meal prep and most Ive spent on a 5 serving meal is maybe 60. Ill go all the up all the way to 200 to allow for drinks and twice that many servings/fancier ingredients. If you dont have a spare 200 a month thats real, but acting like 200 puts you in with the 1% is firmly not based in reality.

[philipkindreddickhead]

McKays rejecting all 3 of my 2nd wave trade-ins feels less like a marketability issue and more personal. Especially when they clearly threw the books back into the basket irreparably damaging one.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Trying to figure out why hard to be a god and on the silver globe are so similar.

[philipkindreddickhead]

By this I mean that I have not watched either have only been in the room while they were on.

They do not share a director or cinematographer however both contain people in squalid little rags absolutely screaming at each other the whole time. The camera appears to also be handheld or at least has more movement than American films. Shots are always close to the actors with the actors often walking up to the camera akin to an actor taking center stage. The plots are also really similar. Hard to be a God is about someone going back in time and being unable to stop the brutal hunt of intellectuals. On the silver globe is about astronauts making a colony that devolves into violence and chaos. Both are also nearly 3 hours long.

I made a joke last night that I guessed thats just what Polish cinema was like but then I remembered that Hard to be a God is based on a Strugatsky Bros novel, looked it up, its Russian.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Trying to figure out why hard to be a god and on the silver globe are so similar.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Emerald Fennel saying she wished she showed Margot Robbie's armpit hair...

the movie is like 3 months old! You didnt show it because you are a COWARD and your cowardice is evidenced in every movie you make.

[philipkindreddickhead]

My Mother never drinking and getting cirrhosis anyway.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Its gotta be the congenital rubella.

[philipkindreddickhead]

Watched a video about stranger things since im a sucker for drama. Found out Lily Allen has a whole album about her divorce from David Harbour. Id never listened to Lilly Allen. She's not very poetic. Its just a diary that rhymes.

[philipkindreddickhead]

I listened to the rest of the album and some songs are good and I appreciate her attempts to make her songs sound different from one another but at its core it's ukulele music.

[philipkindreddickhead]

I understand the gym is not a library but like do men HAVE to stand in groups of 5 and scream at each other about how much better they are than some other guy and how they're in the best shape of their lives? Im trying to read about syphilis over here.