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I finally bit the bullet and made a bunch of sideblogs. I’ll still be posting here on rare occasions, but I want to be more intentional about blogging about things I’m actually interested in. I’ll also be unfollowing a bunch of people in the next couple days, it is genuinely not personal for anyone I unfollow. I’m just really tired of scrolling through a lot of discourse that I agree with y’all on, but I'm getting really frustrated with the compulsion to mentally engage with the garbage takes that y’all are refuting. It’s been a challenge not to doomscroll and I want to stop putting mental energy into discourse that I’m not learning anything from, or adding anything to.

Anyways

@sapphosuckled is gonna be were homestuck stuff goes from now on

@urinegaming is where fighting game stuff is gonna go (mostly Melty and Gear)

@tsukihime-official is where I'm gonna talk about tsukihime lore, themes and memes probably. I’ve wanted to talk about its lore and themes more but haven’t done so until now because those games are such potentially triggering source material

Follow whatever of those blogs interest you!

edit: tumblr does not like the blog links so they’re @ed in the notes, will also reblog this post a couple time in the next couple days while I wait for the links to unbreak

#@sapphosuckled #@urinegaming #@tsukihime-official

TW: discussion of transmisogyny, Bigotry it’s a pretty heavy rant

Man I really tried to keep these takes of my dash but they’re like fucking cockroaches and I can’t get rid of em. Do not fucking reblog or share this to a large audience, I’m probably gonna be taking a break from tumblr for a good while.

Hey if you only ever mention transmisogyny to engage in the discourse in the discourse of who it affects, or you only bring it up to discredit the oppression trans women face, you’re a rat bastard. We do not focus our discussions about oppression towards people who might get caught in the crossfire, and for good reason. Yes, it is important to help people when they are battered and beaten down by oppressive systems and bigoted behavior, regardless of context. But we do not fight homophobia for the betterment of heterosexuals, we should not denounce transphobia on the case that it might end up hurting cis people, and I know that a lot of y’all understand how blatantly awful it would be to only discuss misogyny through the lens of how it affects men.

and yet, this website is full of people who are far more concerned with hashing out the petty specifications of who transmisogyny affects, than doing anything meaningful to combat it. This website is full of people who think that transmisogyny is a big fancy word those “crazy trannies” use when they don’t get their way, who think it’s just some nonsensical obstacle to transgender unity. I want to be fucking frank, if you think like that, you’re missing the goddamn point. If you think you understand transmisogyny and believe it to be functionally the same as transphobia, you do not actually understand transmisogyny.

it is an insidious and constricting net of policy, attitudes, language, beliefs and behavior. It is the reason that transgirls have to be polite with their tongues and gentle with their opinions, if they’re even allowed to formally exist. it is the reason I’ve seen so many blogs by transwomen disappear overnight with baseless accusations of predatory behavior. It is the reason I heard coworkers and friends brazenly talk about their suspicions to our peers who were closeted trans women. It is the reason they jumped to the conclusion of predatory behavior with no evidence. It is why I personally know at least 5 trans girls who were framed as predators and kicked out of my college queer student cultural center overnight, without even talking to them. It is the reason the queer community objectifies us, holding our predatory and powerful caricatures in reverence while they harass and frame us the moment we get too uppity. It is the reason trans girls have the most to loose with the current wave of legislature trying to ban drag in the US. And I’m fucking done, this shit is too real, too much of my fucking life, and I’m tired of y’all repeating the same preschool ass takes for years, dragging an important ideological concept through the slur discourse mud without saying a goddamn thing about how to fight or challenge transmisogyny.

If you're trying to figure out how to get a cardio workout without feeling like you're torturing yourself, I really do recommend just throwing on your favorite music and dancing. You don't have to be good at it and you don't have to be athletic, you just need to put on the music you already know that you like and move your body in a way that feels fun. Heck, you can even turn off the lights or close your eyes if you feel self conscious (this is me, I do this). And if it starts to feel too easy, even adding something small like a 2 pound weight to each hand will do a lot to get your heart rate up. You won't be enduring something unpleasant for some dubiously achievable long term goal, you'll be having fun. And regardless of the season or whether or not you have a workout buddy or what your long term goals relating to exercise look like, none of that needs to be a factor, for you to decide to have fun and dance.

Spring is a lie made up by people who live in places where it doesn't snow 10 inches on an April day

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trans women on here will be like "[weird kinky sexual fantasy] would fix me i think" and it will be the most degenerate dehumanizing thing youve ever read