Life of a new plus size sugar babe.

I'm really new to the lifestyle! if you guys have any tips or tricks please let me know! xoxo

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[deathklaue]

YOOOOOOO

I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS

LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL

IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS

[doryishness]

holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS. 

[victoriaringsinyourears]

I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT 

[lenshade]

SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP

[themixedbagofwhat]

WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????

[wodkat]

ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE

[acstiel]

THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.

GUYS.

HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER

20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.

GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.

[juststrokemyglabella]

I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.

[adweeb-deactivated20160228]

OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG

[plusbrownsugarrr]

OKAY BUT WHOS LOOKING FOR A SUGAR DADDY 

(ME AS FUCK)

[fka-feminish]

On a rare occasion, a woman will tell me that she doesn’t mind being objectified by men. To that I say:

That’s nice, but he’s not doing it because you don’t mind. He’s not waiting until he finds you, the (probably) only woman in the area who doesn’t mind. He’s doing it to every woman. He’s doing it because he wants to and he doesn’t care who likes it, and who doesn’t. He doesn’t stick around long enough to ask, he just takes.

[icanhassugar-deactivated2017120]

Time to talk about Surgeon.

So as my followers know, I recently ended things with this fellow.  I did not, however, share details of my first few encounters with him.  In retrospect, he showed all of the signs of being a nutcase but I ignored them.

He told me he expects sex weekly.  Ok, fine, whatever.  Heard it all before.  We went on several dates before doing so, so I mistakenly assumed he was legit.

We began by doing a pay-per-meet.  I told him this was escorting and that if he wants an escort, he needs to be prepared to pay by the hour and that I was not going to see him just for sex, waste 5 hours of my time, and get paid less than $200 per hour.  Idiot.  He did take me shopping several times, so again, I mistakenly though he was legit and just inexperienced or something. 

Once he DID start giving me my monthly allowance, he would make absurd demands on my time.  Wanted to text alllll day long, repeatedly asked me to send pictures after I had already told him I am uncomfortable with doing so, etc. 

The first time we had sex, he told me I would need a safe word.  He then proceeded to choke me to the point where I could not even say the safe word.  We did not discuss any type of BDSM beforehand and to be honest I thought he was kidding when I said I would need a safe word.  He stopped when he saw I was scared and said, “You thought I was actually going to rape you?”  Umm, yes, sir, I did indeed.  I was genuinely afraid, had started crying when I could not breathe or say the safe word, and he laughed and told me I had nothing to be afraid of.  

This past month, he demanded I see him when he wanted each week and refused to take into account my schedule.  He asked me to skip class, skip work, etc.  I told him that I was not going to do so and offered three different alternate days that would work for me.  He claimed to be busy.  

I had a major neurological event two weeks ago that landed me in the hospital.  He seemed sympathetic at first, then expressed that he did not believe me.  I offered to see him literally two days after I was released as well as several other days.  Once again, he said he was busy.

Finally, he told me that he thinks we want different things.  He said that “I made out” this month because I received an allowance without seeing him, despite me offering several times to do so and his turning me down each time.  He accused me of using him, etc. 

He accused me of lying about being in school, my health, etc. to avoid seeing him, despite my making several offers to do so when I could. 

He asked me if he could come to my house for dinner after I had explicitly told him several times that I would not be comfortable with this.  He told me I “have too many rules.”  Um ok.  I told him, “No, I have boundaries” and he said this was a problem for him.  The only two boundaries I have set up are that I will not send dirty photos and he can not come to my house.  Hardly demanding.  Basically, he wants someone with no boundaries whatsoever.  

When I told him that I did not want to see him again, he threw a tantrum and started sending me texts calling me all sorts of derogatory whoreaphobic terms, calling me immature for not wanting to be his friend after ending the arrangement, telling me he wanted to actually date me without being my SD and he cares about me sooo much, telling me I was so lucky to find someone like him and that it would never happen again, that he knows I’ll come back begging, etc. etc.  Classic signs of abuse.

Long story short, while it’s possible that he’s just a whiny man-child who freaks out when he doesn’t get his way and needs instant gratification, he has shown several classic signs of abuse (nonconsensual BDSM, attempting to control my schedule and demand I skip school/work to see him, demand I risk my health to see him, accuse me of lying about my health to manipulate me, etc.) I was manipulated and I admit it.  Please do not make the same mistake.  Stay away from this psychopath.  I have no doubt in my mind that if we had continued to see each other, he would have eventually become violent.  He shows every sign.  

Lastly, I know this was the right thing to do because I actually feel guilty/worry about his feelings if he saw it.  If that isn’t manipulation then I don’t know what is!

His name is R. Slater and he is in Vancouver, WA.  His phone number is 248-565-6469.  His member ID is e157ea79. 

Be careful out there, girls.  

[xo-sparkles-deactivated20150531]

I’m sorry this happened.

[plusbrownsugarrr]

Had to Block and report someone on SA Named Jay from Cainhoy, SC

Claims to give his SB's 3-5 k per month

his kik is redsxfan123

Literally only asked me sexual questions.

Wants a threesome with two men and you. 

didnt ask me anything about myself. at all. except "whats the wildest thing youve ever done" + other sexual things.

dont fall for it. I bocked and reported him, then he got upset and said im just mad cause we "didnt connect" and "you must have had a bad SD experience".

We didnt connect cause he didnt even tell me his goddamn name before telling me he wants to put his dick and his friends dick in me. (im assuming his real name is jay cause thats what his username says, we didnt exchange names yet -____-)

what kind of bullshit.

also that last POT i was talking to keeps pestering me for nudes. even though he keeps saying how he wants a "classy lady".

Ive known him for like 2 days, the fuck i look like sending him private pictures??? we havent even met in person yet.

Seeking Arrangment is total shit for me. (and black sugar babies in general i hear)

Is there a black sugar baby dating site yet or does someone need to make that like asap?

[sugaryamazon]

Reblog if you’re a Black SB. I’m trying to follow all the Black and plus-size SBs on here.

[xo-sparkles-deactivated20150531]

Almost always 💋

[bombshell-nextdoor-deactivated2]

SO MANY SUGAR MEN OMG

[plusbrownsugarrr]

New POT.

he loves curvy women and is an ex army vet apparently. 

hes annoying as fuck so far lmao.

he absolutely adores me though. 

hopefully hes generous too ;)

[ithotyouknew-deactivated2015051]

Going to stores where I can’t or don’t want to afford anything, trying on super cute shit, taking pictures and sending them to my POTs/SDs.

If they ask if I bought it, I usually say “no, it was a liiiiiiitle out of my price range. But, I’m definitely adding it to my...

[plusbrownsugarrr]

Wish :(

Dont you wish you could be BFF with another Sugar Baby in your area so you could hang out and talk with ??? Cause lets face it nobody really understands what we do except us ....

[caviar-wish]

Marlo Hampton and her SD.

[honeysugargold]

This is my idol!!!!! Marlo must have had this man whipped!!!!

[toptiertrash]

[itslibeauty]

Catya babbyyyyy!!! 

[bluebellebabie]

When people say being a sugar baby is degrading yourself

Having men pay hundreds of dollars just so that I will LET them buy me food and talk to them is no where near degrading. It’s completely empowering. Knowing that you as a person are so valuable people would actually pay to do something you enjoy like have a nice meal and go shopping. Clearly anyone who thinks its degrading has no clue what it is.

[sugar-nextdoor]

Traveling with your SD is an amazing opportunity and experience that every baby should strive for. Even though you might’ve traveled before on your own or with family, it’s nothing like it is when you travel with your sugar daddy! Personally, I love eating breakfast at…

[athenagray]

Tweet 1: I can see a lot of people either avoiding Plan B & ending up pregnant or attempting to take multiple doses & getting sick.

Tweet 2: anyone w a credit card (not everyone, I know) can/should use ella ella-rx.com they’ll ship it overnight $45

SIGNAL BOOST. Ella is another form of emergency contraception/the morning-after pill. It’s more effective than Plan B and can be taken up to FIVE DAYS after your mishap, rather than three days. Please spread this around; with all of the anti-choice legislation flying about and how difficult it can be for some people to get Plan B even OTC (like minors, people living in small towns, etc.), this might be the only way a lot of people can get their hands on the morning-after pill.

[queenconsuelabananahammock]

Boooooost

[imperiology-deactivated20140429]

I’ve also read that Ella is more effective for plus size people.

[sourcedumal]

This is important. Ella works for everyone. Plan B is not effective for people over 176 pounds. Protect yourself

[madnessinthemist]

Everyone?

Boosting the shit outta this.

[bunnymagia]

hey collaterlysisters this smells a little like bullshit to me, could i get a second opinion

[cs-inactive1-deactivated2020060]

It’s 100% accurate: http://www.popsci.com/article/science/fyi-why-doesnt-plan-b-work-heavier-women

[absentlyabbie]

Ella still loses effectiveness beyond a certain weight; it’s just a higher threshold. I can’t recall the the exact number and am at work, and don’t have a moment to hunt the information down, but definitely thoroughly research Ella if you are choosing it due to the weight restrictions on Plan B’s effectiveness.

[hungryhungryhipheux]

Wait you guys don’t use Ella in the US?!?!

Now I’m really intrigued by your contraceptive options out there.

What is available to you and how much does it cost??

[eyecandysugar]

Idk what it is about SA but it’s so inconsistent for me. Idek how some women are getting tons of messages, I wish I could figure it out. I’m not ugly, and not just saying that because my mom tells me so, I’m fine as fuck. My profile is well written, so idk what it is. It is because I’m black? Lol...

[xo-sparkles-deactivated20150531]

As a black sb do you feel like black girls are unwanted/ underpaid? Should I play up being mixed or does being fully black have more to offer?

Don’t ever play it up. Never discredit who you are for someone else.

We don’t have a hard time, there are hard moments. But I see a number of Black SBs doing big things. Frankly, I can’t stop hearing how guys want brown girls. The ones who don’t, you have to ask yourself… Who’s really missing out? Him or you?

Keep ya chin up.

[wickedclothes]

[wickedclothes]

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[cutthroatchorus]

OK I REALLY WANT TO BE KISSING A GIRL AND THEN I TAKE OFF MY SHIRT AND SHE’S LIKE “CUTE BRA” AND I CAN SAY “THANKS IT HAS POCKETS”

[theasscrackbandit-deactivated20]

the game has changed forever

[traveltobeprovedwrong]

THIS IS THE BEST IDEA EVER

[xxspoiledloverxx-deactivated201]

Finally