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identity politics really took a massive plunge once the ideology surrounding it transformed from âwhats a good way to describe my identity/who im attracted toâ to âwhat identites are valid?â (hint: it turned into all of them), which turned from ppl saying âi am a dude and i like dudes, i must be gayâ to âim scared of ppl reciprocating my feelings, i must be lithrosexual (and definitely dont have anything to work through with a therapist)â its absolutely insane how âvalidationâ has thrown people into cycles of normalizing their unhealthy habits and symptoms of trauma lol⊠terfs and truscum dont touch this post also eat a bag of dirt
literally and its evolved to the point that any criticism of unnecessary or even harmful identities is evil or abusive or something like .. making your fears or trauma a core part of your identity doesnt do anything but harm you in the long run bc you ignore glaring issues in favor of âvalidityââŠ. sometimes you arenât lithrosexual you just need a therapist
Help Six Nations in their struggle to reclaim their land! Indigenous activists are being arrested in their homes (even if they live several hours away), those bringing food, water and supplies are being arrested! Six Nations is the largest Indigenous reserve in Canada, but has no access clean water and is therefore reliant on others bringing bottled water, yet these people are now being arrested
On July 19 2020 The Land Defenders of 1492 Land Back Lane stopped the housing dev⊠1492 Land Back Lane needs your support for 1492 Land Back
COURT DATE LOOMS AS POLICE PRESSURE MOUNTS FOR LAND DEFENDERS
[The OPP have asked camp spokesperson Skyler Williams to turn himself in for arrest this week, with the next court date for the injunction against the reclamation of 1492 Land Back Lane coming next week.
The press release from the camp highlighted the arrest, tasing, and shooting of rubber bullets on August 5th â only two days before the key injunction court date on August 7th â as a way of making preparation for the court date impossible.
The land defenders are battling on two fronts. One front is the criminal legal pressure of mounting arrests and the threat that more police violence brings, and the second front is fighting âagainst the odds â to navigate the expensive and complex civil court injunction.
âFacing criminal charges while going through a civil court process at the same time is very difficult,â Skyler Williams said in the release, âusing two different court processes to prosecute Indigenous people who are protecting their land is a colonial tactic that makes real justice unattainable.â
Justice Harper cited a lack of formal engagement in the court process as a reason for extending his injunction order on August 25th. This judge called property rights sacrosanct and said that âchaos, mayhem and anarchy would prevailâ if the rule of law were not upheld.
âIndigenous people are told over and over again to engage in these formal processes that are inaccessible, incredibly expensive, and take a very long time,â Skyler Williams also said in the press release from the camp, âour community has been in the specific claims process for nearly 25 years.â
The court process in Canada is expensive and comes with a price tag too high for land defenders to currently meet. Civil litigators contacted by Land Back Lane land defenders gave estimates between $250,000 up to as much as $1.5 million to challenge the injunction. A Go Fund Me to raise legal funds sits at $150,000 â well short of the low estimate to fight the injunction.]
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A group of artists installed a childâs portrait facing up in the heavily bombed Khyber Pukhtoonkhwa region of Pakistan, where drone attacks regularly occur.Â
One of the most powerful art installations weâve seen in a long time.
Please read more about the project #NotABugSplat at http://notabugsplat.com/
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Jewish People Problem #20
When you canât find a single book with a Jewish protagonist that isnât about the holocaust
I actually read a really nice novel that had decent Jewish representation when I was in college and its story was about a murder mystery. Due to how my memory works, I lost the book and I forgot the title :( :( :(
okay I wrote a really long thing and my phone deleted it so here is take 2 of my MASTERPOST OF NON-HOLOCAUST-CENTRIC JEWISH MCâs:
Historical Fiction
âAll Other Nightsâ by Dara Horn - Jewish spy for the union in the civil war
âShylockâs Daughterâ by Marjam Pressler - retelling of the Merchant of Venice with a sympathetic Shylock and a historically accurate look at the Ashkenazi AND Sephardic Jewish community in 16th century Italy
âThe Chosenâ by Chaim Potok - Hassidic + Modern Orthodox Jewish boys âfriendshipâ (lbr we all ship it)Â in 1945-1948 NYC
âMy Name is Asher Levâ by Chaim Potok - ultra-orthodox Jewish boy takes up art, paints a crucifixion scene, and sh*t hits the fan
âThe Museum of Extraordinary Thingsâ - Jewish photographer + (non-Jewish) daughter of a sideshow owner meet and fall in love in turn of the century Brooklyn, and also a subplot about the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory Fire
âEscape from Egyptâ by Sonia Levitin - retelling of the Passover story
âDaniel Derondaâ by George Eliot - itâs like Jane Austen. With Jews! (And while everything is not all hunky-dory, itâs also not the antisemitic travesty Iâve come to expect from 19th century gentile writers).
Contemporary
âHacking Harvardâ by Robin Wasserman - 3 nerds take on a bet to get a slacker/stoner into Harvard (also a really nice critique of the college admissions process tbh)
âThe Pactâ by Jodi Picoult - (suicide tw) A tragedy hits 2 families. The novel centers on a trial and flashbacks to the event in question.Â
âSomeone to Run Withâ by David Grossman - set on the streets of Jerusalem, a boy tries to return a lost dog to its owner, a girl who has run away from home in search of her brother (this is the English translation, obviously, but if you can read novels in Hebrew I highly recommend reading the original, ŚŚ©ŚŚ ŚŚšŚŚ„ ŚŚŚȘŚ)
Urban Fantasy/Fantasy/SciFi
âThe Mediatorâ series by Meg Cabot - teenaged girl starts seeing ghosts / YA romance (although the fact that the MC is Jewish is not even remotely relevant to the plot, it is mentioned outright several times which is more than most books)
âThe Cureâ by Sonia Levitin - futuristic dystopian society tries to cure one young manâs appreciation of music by sending him to a Jewish shtetl in 13th century Poland (fair warning for dystopian fans, though, the middle 2/3rds reads like historical fiction, so.)
Childrenâs (Middle Grade) Books
âAll of a Kind Familyâ by Sydney Taylor - the classic â1920s NYC Jewish familyâ
âDave at Nightâ by Gail Carson Levine - boy sneaks out of an orphanage in early 20th century NYC
âWitnessâ by Karen Taylor Hesse - told in free verse, the KKK visits a small town  (Iâm including it because itâs not a Holocaust book, and itâs really good, but it still might  will set off your antisemitism sensors so fair warning)
âAre You There God? Itâs Me, Margaret.â by Judy Blume - Classic. (Also, takes on an interfaith family in a really interesting and nuanced way!)
âSamir and Yonatanâ by Daniella Carmi - two boys (one Israeli, one Palestinian) end up in the same hospital and learn that they have more in common than they thought
Plays
âAngels in Americaâ by Harold Kushner - I canât even begin to describe this one just google it. (or: Jewish and Mormon gay people in NYC during the AIDS epidemic, and also angels)
âThirteen: The Musicalâ by Dan Elish and Robert Horn, music and lyrics by Jason Robert Brown - Jewish boyâs parents get divorced and he moves from NYC to Appleton, Indiana right before his Bar Mitzvah
Also for childrenâs books: Rebecca in the American Girl historical collection is a Russian Jewish immigrant.
Also for weird epic romances, I remember Cynthia Freeman having a lot of Jewish protagonists. Â One of her books (Illusions of Love) slightly discusses the Holocaust but it is from the perspective of an American Jewish character who served in World War II and itâs not presented as *the* thing that defines him. Â (Most of that book is a love triangle between this character, the Nice Jewish Girl his parents want him to marry, and an Irish-Catholic woman from a poor background who works her way into an advertising career.)
I havenât read them [yet? to-read list miles long, concentration about an inch long] but if youâre down with indie-pub check out @shiraglassman who authors a series of fantasy novels featuring f/f couples. Iâll bet she knows more novels t add to the list too!
(sorry hope itâs cool i @âed you ms glassman)
It is definitely cool! I actually didnât get the @ notification for some reason but I found this post just poking around Jumblr and then checked the notes to see what people were saying on it. I do have books to add to this list; not just my ownâas you said, fluffy f/f-focused fantasy starring Mostly Jewsâbut also:
Miss Jacobsonâs Journey by Carola Dunn (review) - Regency-era spy romance about escaping from France and getting back to England. Hero and heroine are both Jewish and although theyâre Ashkies, it has Sephardic rep as well
The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker (review) - 1900âČs fantasy set in the immigrant communities of NYC. Beautiful epic drama about friendship.
âŠand wonderful graphic novels like The Rabbiâs Cat, the Rabbi Harvey books (our legends told as if they were set in the American Wild West), and the Mirka books (fantasy starring an Orthodox pre-teen girl.)
The YA LGBT contemporaries Gone Gone Gone by Hannah Moskowitz and My Year Zero by Rachel Gold have Jewish MCâs. And non-LGBT but YA about Orthodox teenager is Playing with Matches by Suri Rosen.
By the way, @dappercat, your concentration may have an easier time with the standalone short stories in my universe than my full-length novels: Tales from Perach. They range from 900 to 9000 words and 6 of the 7 of them have Jewish MCâs.
The Lions of Al-Rassan by Guy Gavriel Kay - very thinly-veiled account of life in the waning days of Golden Age Spain, with adventures and political intrigue, starring a Jew, Muslim, and Christian
Gentlemen of the Road by Michael Chabon - A pair of 10th century Jewish mercenaries (who are almost certainly a couple) go on a quest to return the kidnapped prince of Khazaria to his empire.
(I want to echo the recommendation of The Rabbiâs Cat, and of Shira Glassmanâs Mangoverse stories, which are so lovely)
I havenât read it yet but Iâm desperately trying to get my hands on an audiobook of âHe, She and Itâ by Marge Piercy
None of the books listed under Jewish here are about the Holocaust, and only The Spy With the Red Balloon is set during WWII: https://lgbtqreads.com/representation/religion/
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It gives me tremendous joy to see people still reading this comic, and especially when they get something out of it.
Over the years I have faced many ups and downs, just like everyone else. Sometimes it really gets to me how mean people can be to each other. How mean I can be to myself. But for all the Level 1 Trans Fighters out there please know with acceptance, mindfulness, and self compassion I did in fact find my balance. Not a fast process. Basically a complete lifestyle change. Sometimes I lose that balance, sure. But when I choose to present my authentic identity? Iâm objectively drop dead gorgeous. Here are a hand full of my looks. Youâll notice none of them are 100% masculine or feminine. Peace be with you. Thank you for reading. Thank you for being you. -J
You deserve to feel comfortable, so donât push yourself to go at a faster pace. Itâll hurt you more.
Reblogging both for stellar comic and wonderful mustache
always reblog! I love this comic, so very much. *offers all the kudos* Thank you for this, it continues to help a lot. You look amazing in those lipstick shades, by the way.
Why dont you educate yourself before forming an opinion on bi lesbians? I'm genuinely wondering. It took me a second to understand but if I can, you can.
this has got to be the most insulting ask iâve ever received because youâre essentially implying that i do not know anything and have put no thought into it. how do you know i havenât educated myself? how do you know that i havenât spoken with other lesbians, other trans people, other bi people, and discussed how this label is kind of regressive and harmful?
you want proof? letâs walk through the logic of it right here, right now, together. we have the label bisexual; meaning capable of attraction to more than one gender (bi here being a latin root used in the label to denote âmore than oneâ). this is the definition of the label many of my bi friends have told me they use.
now, there are three manners by which i have seen people define the term âbisexual lesbianâ:
the first one is fairly old, itâs the manner by which transmisogynists have been super shitty to lesbians in relationships with trans women; calling them âbi lesbiansâ or âdick-loving lesbiansâ in a pretty straightforward attempt to strip them of their lesbianism and imply that their attraction to trans women makes them bisexual. obviously this is 1. deeply transmisogynistic and 2. not really how gender works. but iâm going to go out on a limb here and guess that this isnât the definition you want to use, because if you were a garden variety transphobe this anon youâve sent me would just be some milquetoast jab at my appearance instead of some incoherently high-horsed nonsense.
so letâs go with definition #2: âbisexual lesbiansâ as a nonbinary-inclusive identity. basically meaning 'bisexual means attraction to more than one gender, and bisexual lesbians are lesbians attracted to women AND nonbinary people.â which is not like, how nonbinary people work. you canât fit all nonbinary people into one concrete 'third genderâ because itâs an *umbrella term* that encompasses lots of people, some of whom do in fact identify with 'manâ or 'womanâ in a sense outside of the strict binary (youâll see this like 'men or man-aligned people dniâ or stuff like that when it comes to nuanced gender terminology). so there are nonbinary men, nonbinary women, bigender people, agender people, and etc. etc. etc. which means that you canât fit all nonbinary people into one gender category, itâs a term that includes a lot of different relationships to gender.
hereâs what i have to say to that: lesbian was already a nonbinary-inclusive identity to the extent that it included nonbinary people *who are okay with lesbian attraction*. there is a long history of nonbinary people within the lesbian community and those who arenât comfortable with lesbian attraction arenât going to be much more comfortable just because you slapped the word 'bisexualâ on to it.
like, this isnât how attraction works! take for, instance, this twink i had a small interaction with years ago at a target once: iâm waiting in line at target, right? and i have my back to the store. and iâm in full 'eyes over the shoulder because iâm a butch in public and america is terrifyingâ mode. i notice this twink guy walk by, stop and give me the up-down. and so my natural reaction is to turn toward the man behind me, right? and he sees the front of me and has this look on his face of 'oh shit thatâs a woman i just eyed upâ and so he flashes my partner and i a thumbs-up, we have a brief moment of like 'gnc gay people in public hell yeah.â
now did this guy stop and figure out if i was nonbinary or whatever? did he get my pronouns? no! he saw a big back and nice haircut and was down, and when he saw the full picture he readjusted and respectfully bowed out. because, and this is important, when you put the phone down and meet people in the world, sometimes youâre going to be fleetingly attracted to people who wonât reciprocate. and you readjust. you donât get everyoneâs name label and pronouns right out of the gate; people arenât pokemon. like, sometimes iâll see nonbinary people who iâm into but when i learn they wouldnât be comfortable with a lesbian being into them, i readjust. i donât hysterically tinker with my identity until it includes them so i was Unproblematic All Along, i grow up and move on.
point blank- lesbian attraction is going to include some nonbinary people and not some others, and if you feel the need to fix that you do not understand nonbinary people.
so letâs move on to definition #3, 'bisexual lesbianâ as a term for a bisexual woman/woman-aligned person (did you see what i did there?) who is capable of attraction to more than one gender, but is 'sworn off ofâ men or whatever or has a 'preference for women.â so youâre adding lesbian onto bisexual to like, 'fixâ attraction to men? in this case youâre tacking lesbian onto bisexual in order to be like, iâm bi BUT WAIT iâm with a woman not a man so iâm an Actual Wlw.
we have a term for bisexual wlw who prefer to be with women/women-aligned people. ready for it? itâs bisexual. the term 'bisexualâ doesnât need fixing and the things youâd try to fix by affixing 'lesbianâ on it are super telling. like, creating this new label isnât helping. you know what would help? if we didnât treat bi wlw who are in relationships with men like theyâre less wlw than lesbians. if we didnât make bi wlw feel the need to apologize for their bisexuality. if we didnât project our insecurities around men onto bi wlw, if we didnât say 'oh youâre with a man so it serves you right if heâs less good to you than a woman would beâ. if we stopped defining bi women by men.
tl;dr: creating a new label isnât 'fixingâ bisexuality or the way bisexual wlw are treated. we need to treat bi wlw better and stop defining them by men. thatâs just biphobia my dude.
Femme lesbians anytime they talk to a butch be like: đđ
Or like: đ„șđ„ș
And it's not fair to be honest with y'all.
the way they slowly scoot over đđ
call me a hatekeeper if you want to but any âfemmeâ that has nothing but contempt for butches is no real femme
femme and butch have existed as two sides of the same coin from the very beginning. there is no femme without butch. the âmasculine privilegeâ you deride is the very thing that gives femme any meaning.
femmes and butches have lived together, protected one another, and loved each other for years and years. to turn your back on your butch sisters is to turn your back on a rich history of lesbian love and resistance.Â
any âfemmeâ that hates butches is no femme sister of mine