To men punk is just a cool way to say “I can do whatever I want because I’m a man”
Literally so many “alternative” guys are actually conservative af. My abusive ex told me I shouldn’t curse or sit with my legs open because it looked bad. Another “punk” guy told me I needed to remove my lip and leg hair. A couple more were hell bent on convincing me I needed to have kids eventually, and these are just off the top of my head. All types of men are fucking idiots js
as a gay man i personally think that if you are in a relationship you should have enough self respect to keep yourself groomed. a lot of people just dont like hair and being a hairy fuck puts you from an 8 to a 4. everything else you said is fine tho.
you can say what you want or sit how you want. you are the one bearing the child so if you dont want one you cant be forced to have one.
if you think men are idiots tho, why do you date them?
……. That’s kind of gross. Also its your opinion- which is kind of the point. Shaving isn’t an issue of ‘self respect’ its an issue of either you do it because you want to (like me because of sensory reasons) or because some guy wants you to, and i don’t find the latter a valid reason. If the guy hates body hair so much that its a dealbreaker he can find someone who wants to shave or get over it, but the fact remains that women dont need to alter their bodies just because one guy has a preference
well yeah obv nobody has to do anything. but what im saying is that if im boutta go down on some dude and hes got a nasty ass hairy fucking butthole imma go flaccid in a snap.
like i dont disagree but i dont think that you shouldnt get offended that someone asked you to shave while you were in a relationship. its called loving someone enough to respect each others likes and dislikes.
now obv if this person is an asshole to you you should just drop the relationship, or you can find someone that doesnt care either way and just go with that.
