“Pros and cons of social media”- The benefits and pitfalls -part 3 How can we as writers on social media write on love, unity and kindness, or give advice saying we’re helping others when we are being critical, passing judgement or taking sides -especially without all the facts? This is hypocritical, demeaning and dangerous. Becareful not to become part of agendas that separate friends, fuel mistrust, form cliques and a mob mentality. Bad motives squash good vibes. It’s sad that we have to be on constant guard- and have slogans like “good vibes only” -to deflect -because of so much negativity around us. If you’ve taken sides without all the facts ask yourself what it says about your character. Social media is a place where everyone should have a voice. If you’re part of a social media “tribe” that has a reputation for slamming, bullying, controlling or intimidating others- rethink your tribe or at least speak up! Don’t stay silent for fear of retaliation. If they truly have your back they should give you the dignity of a listening ear without turning on you or making you feel guilty for not being a mindless follower. Social media engagement groups can become a force for good. They can be great supports and turn into long lasting friendships. A caveat; don’t let your sense of belonging lull you into thinking they are always right. Remember friendships are two-way streets. “Ride or die” is dangerous if the driver is out of control. There has to be a mutual respect even when minds don’t agree. If you feel you’ve become a victim of bullying, intimidation, or gossip take heart you are not alone. There are steps you can take to restore your well being and control of the situation...to be continued.//#socialmedia #thebenefitsandpitfalls #mobmentality #saynotobullying #commentary #stopbullying https://www.instagram.com/p/B2RZ9Ial9aW/?igshid=1bdrzx09s16qi