It's Pole Life Darling

I'm a fan of Fate: The Winx Saga, all things Disney and can usually be found with my nose in a book. When I'm not writing or reading, I'm training

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"We speak with purpose, rise with power, and build with intention. Our pasts do not define us - our visions do. Our dreams are not distractions - they're directions." ~Unreserved: Rewriting the Rules of Business

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"We speak with purpose, rise with power, and build with intention. Our pasts do not define us - our visions do. Our dreams are not distractions - they're directions." ~Unreserved: Rewriting the Rules of Business

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"I'm sort of scared of being known. Really known. Every time someone gets close, I feel this urge to run. Like I'd rather be alone than risk disappointing them when I'm not what they thought." ~Blake Logan, Love Song, Elle Kennedy

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"Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you." ~Anne Lamott

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"But me and her? It's as personal as it gets. When you've been desperately in love with someone for fourteen years, a fling isn't good enough. I want to be her last, and I need her to be mine." ~Ellie K. Wilde, Only in Your Dreams

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"I don't want bright and happy," he whispered roughly. "I want real." ~Callie Hart, QuickSilver

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"And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears." ~Mark Anthony

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"Woe betide you if you break her heart." ~Mona Kasten, Save Me

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Access, Growth and Boundaries: The Change When You Start Choosing Yourself

Written By: Lauren Long Date Published: April 15, 2026 Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others.” ~Brene Brown Hi! I’m back! This is something I’ve had in mind for a while, and I hope that when people read it, they’ll walk away feeling seen. It’s about how access, growth, and boundaries influence your life, and how they…

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For the month of February, there will be no new blog posts. I'm taking the month off to recharge and prioritize my mental health. See you in March!

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"Because love is the ultimate goal. It's not the one I had strived for, but I was lucky enough, so damn lucky, to achieve it." ~Elle Kennedy, The Goal

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"I love you. I fell in love with you in the depths of my soul, and it's my soul that will find yours again in the next life." ~Sarah J. Maas, House of Flame and Shadow

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"Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling five balls in the air. You name them - work, family, health, friends and spirit - and you're keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged and even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life." ~Brian Dyson

Work-Life Balance: What My Life Looks Like As a Business Owner

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"The truth didn't matter, the clickbait did." ~Meghan, Harry and Meghan

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"To paint an image and to write a poem, is to reclaim the dignity and personal joy...it is reclaiming my life." ~Isabella Koldras

2025: A Year of Reclamation

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"The ballroom world will never be the same without Len." ~Anna Trebunskaya, Episode 5, Season 32 of Dancing With the Stars

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"We don't let them decide who we get to be. We'll carve our own paths." ~Sarah J. Maas, House of Sky and Breath.

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