Triad

Im a man who is sometimes in a triad relationship with two women and I think its simply beautiful

[polytriadfidelity]

This person really out here attacking people for being polyam. It's absolutely disgusting, I wasn't a fan prior but if I was I'm. Certainly not anymore.

[polytriadfidelity]

My wife has just discovered that she is a little.

Hi it's been a long while since I've written on here. A while back I wrote a huge blog about my entire life journey of discovering that I was poly and how and all that and my app crashed and I lost it and got discouraged. Anyway.... Yesterday my wife very concretely came to the conclusion that she is a little. And me being both a loving and caring husband and a total nerd have been trying very hard to find information on how I can best serve my wife in her exploration of this and find fulfillment in exploring it. As far as either of us knows there isn't a sexual component tied to her "littleness" but i guess it's possible that it could come up. I cannot find anything that can help me help her. Obviously I'm very supportive I asked her several questions about how she felt and reassured her that dispite her minor embarrassment from admiting it, that I love her all the same and that if she's happy I'm happy and I meant it. There is a bit of info for her to find online to help her explore her little space. But again I find nothing no matter how I word my search queries. I'm open to any and all advice about websites or books or even personal anticdotal advice. I appreciate it immensely. This is her journey and not mine but I know she needs me to hold her and and be her anchor while she explores this part of herself and in some ways I know she's going to seek and need my approval to venture into it so that she feels secure doing so. I'm cool with all of that. So please hit me with whatever ya got

[polytriadfidelity]

[polytriadfidelity]

[polytriadfidelity]

Hopes high but only hope

So we met up with the woman that was interested in us. We had a really good time went to the bar with her and her friends then again with her and her partner (basically her bf) and that went really well too since then she has seemed really interested and we have talked a lot on fb messenger and she has agreed to go on a date with us. However it's been almost 2 weeks since then and she has a lot of partners so I guess I'm very hopeful but I'm doing my best to not expect that a date will actually happen I definitely thinks she wants to but I don't think that it's any kind of a relevant priority for her either. It does kind of make me reflect and realize tho that sometimes that's how it is. I don't think regardless of how we've treated any of our partners or potential ones seeing us has ever been a priority. It seems we have a thing for unavailable people. While I'm not very optimistic about this we still did however put a lot of time and planning into our date and I really hope it does happen and goes well.

[polyamandhellaglam]

Hey. Poly fidelity is totally okay. If you prefer to have closed relationships, that’s totally okay. If you prefer its just the three, four, five of you. That’s totally okay. Closed polyamorous relationships are no less valid, no less supportive, no less healthy, and no less real than open polyamorous relationships. These relationships are real, they’re normal, and they’re supported here. You are supported here.

[polytriadfidelity]

Hey. I'm a girl in a triad poliamory relationship. It's our first polyamorous relationship. I mean all of us. We are my bf, gf and I. My bf is my nesting partner but recently we started dating this marvelous girl. We did lewd things last time but I wasn't really feeling for it. Actually I was having a breakdown but I couldn't bring myself to telling them. There's a lot of shit in my life rn but I can't find the moment to tell them. I'm turning kinda cold. I feel so bad, so sad.

Sorry I wasn't able to see the whole question when I first answered. I think it's absolutely important that you talk to your partners. I'm sure you have your own reasons for not wanting to talk to them about it but I really don't think you be able to start to heal until you do. It's really important that they understand that you have a boundry that was crossed. It's very important that they respect your boundaries. Keeping it in will only make it fester worse. I get really concerned when I read that you are getting cold. It sounds like it is really eating you up inside, which means you need to get it out of you. I'm sure your partners care about you and respect you. They might not be able to make you feel better right away but give them a fighting chance at helping you through this experience by being open with them. That being said I am also happy to talk to you anytime :) if you can't seem to find the time to tell them texting works fine. It may feel a little impersonal but right now your self care is way more important than asthetics.

[polytriadfidelity]

Out of the blue

So unfortunately the woman we were talking to decided just before our scheduled date that due to a date she had with someone 2 days prior she didn't want to be hurt anymore and decided not to see us either. She has since not spoken to us. I don't fault her at all however it was really disappointing we really seemed to get a logn and talked for 8+ hours a day we seemed to vibe really well. Anyway we had been feeling pretty down and not confident about finding another partner and just sort of decided to give up trying for a while. And out of the blue someone we've crushed on but never approached about it asked us out. She's a poly woman we know from our local game store. She's never been in a traid but I guess wants to see where things so with us. We were blind sided. It's so very rare that someone approachs us it's only the second time ever. And we are both so into her it's kind of wild how life be that way sometimes. We are going to the bar with her and her friends tonight and after party at her house. Just when we were feeling particularly defeated something awesome happened. I never wanted to ask her out because I value having an irl poly friend so much I was scared she may not want to be friends if we showed interest. Wish us luck all 3 of us are so hyped for tonight!!

[polytriadfidelity]

Tumblr is the best place for triads.

I swear to God Facebook has the most triad toxic poly communities. It's insane. The moderators are super good at shutting down any kind of lbgt+ hate or any kind of harassment in general with the exception of triad hate. I assume that my followers here know that we are very ethical and very far disconnected from unicorn hunters but as far as Facebook is concerned my wife and I might as well be the devil incarnate. It's not even possible to have a discussion. Although there isn't as much back and forth on my blog as I'd desire that which I do get is always really productive and I've never ever had to consider blocking a single person on this platform. I love and appreciate the space I have here so much as it's really helped me shape my ideas and therfore my behavior to be a really good partner (which I am very confident that I am). I'm still in those groups but only because they're a good source for poly positive memes. This is basically another thank rant to all the people that keep me active on here. I love you guys, 😘😘

[polytriadfidelity]

We might have met someone

We've been talking to a new women who lives pretty close to us she's smack in the middle of mine and my wife's age and she's super cute, impressively witty, and I cannot stop talking to her. We've talked for about 24 hours in the last 50 but have been talking for a few weeks. If my wife and I weren't dreadfully sick we would have already taken her out on a date. She seems really excited to meet us and we are definitely excited to meet her. I haven't seen my wife crush so hard before meeting someone in person it's really adorable. We have plans for a taco date because who tf doesn't love tacos.

Hoping next week we'll be feeling healthy enough to meet her. I really hope it goes well because based on talking to her it seems like she has a really good head on her shoulders. And she also seems like a very caring and compassionate person. And obviously she's extremely easy to talk to. I hope you guys wish us luck and assuming we get some of that luck I'm hoping to have a cute picture to post of the 3 of us soon. ♥️

[polytriadfidelity]

It's been kinda odd lately...

We have been trying to date for about the last month again after our last break up but haven't found anyone which is fine. We have a friend that we sometimes sleep with and I'm pretty into her and my wife is too but only sexually. My wife feels like our friend has too many issues which is a fair point but tbh she probably has less than anyone else we've dated, if not definitely less than most especially less than the one ex my wife was head over heels for. Not that she needs to justify why she doesn't want to date someone that's completely up to her. Its just a bummer because aside from that our friend has literally everything we've been looking for in a partner. She's extremely attractive, plays the same nerdy games we do, has a job and a car, and isn't very clingy. So it's just unfortunate to be hung up on the fact that she has moop. There isn't anything I can do about it I definitely don't believe in debating someone out of their feelings. I just told my wife that I was interested and she told me she wasn't. I think that's the right way for me to go about it. We still plan on seeing our friend as friends with occasional benifits but there is a part of me that will probably get a little more interested in our friend. It's... A pickle. But I'd rather still be able to see her one way or anothet and always be open with my wife about how I feel. And to be fair I crush pretty easily but I feel like I'm crushing on our friend for a lot of really good reasons not my typical infatuation crush. I hope that all made sense.

[puppetloverrulez]

I’m going to keep making these until I die.

[puppetloverrulez]

I’m going to keep making these until I die.

[thethiefandtheairbender]

The Good Place (2016-2020)

[insomniac-arrest]

brah

[postilionstruckbylightning]

The Good Place’s take on morality is so important to me. It never suggests that being good is easy or straightforward - quite the opposite - but it says, over and over again, that we need to try because we’re all people and we all matter.

[polytriadfidelity]

I'm struggling currently

Our girlfriend recently told us that she's now unsure if she is ready to be in a relationship. We just prior to this asked her to be more open with us and communicate more with us and she not sure that she wants to try to. It's now the third day and it's painful for my wife and I to go through. We really like her a lot. She is basically everything we're looking for in a partner. So we're kind of scared that she'll go. She's doing a lot of self deliberating right now. And I wanna say things to embolden her to stay with us but I don't want her to stay because of the things I say. I want her to stay because she sees a future with us. She deserves to be with someone(s) who will support her pursuit of being happy in this world someone(s) who have her back and truely care about her. Her relationship history is awful and I'd hate to think that if she left us that she'd find another like she's found before that would treat her awful. I would very much like her to stay with us but only if that would make her happy. But even if not what I really hope is that she does end up finding someone(s) that will make her happy weither its us or not. But it still hurts. And I've been quite stressed. I know that triads aren't easy but up until now this has felt quite easy and extremely rewarding. I suppose it was possible that while we grew closer to her that simply made her uncomfortable. I'm not sure what's going to happen but I'm absolutely hopeful that she's going to be willing to give her best efforts to us.

Because I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't miss her a whole lot. We only saw her briefly last Sunday and I've missed her since then. It seems like she doesn't want to see us until she's made her decision but I'm worried that if she doesn't that Idk she's setting herself up to feel less of a connection to us when making her decision.

[polytriadfidelity]

It's been really wonderful

It's been awhile since I've blogged, I think the last real blog was telling you guys that our beautiful now girlfriend agreed to start a relationship with us. That being said it has been absolutely wonderful. I have never seen my wife so completely without complaint about the woman we are with. After last weekend which was the first we spent together my wife expressed her complete and total comfort with our gf. We took a trip to the thumb of Michigan, myself, my wife, my kid, my gf, and her kid plus our two doggos. We had a fire they went to the beach, while I napped. And we had a bonfire and we got to both share a bed with our girlfriend and we had sex for the first time with her as well. And I must say that the sex was amazing Holy shit. I also learned that my wife is less comfortable around her partners until after she has had sex with them. I would assume that it is because my wife's love language is very much physical intimacy based. She likes to be touched and held and cuddled and kissed sweetly. My guess is that having a physical connection with her is key to making her more emotionally available. I asked her about that and while she hadn't thought about it she did seem to think that that may be the case. Since being home I talked to our girlfriend about her goals and she told me she wanted to do photography unsure if for just hobby or professionally, and I was really happy she opened up about it. We promptly got her a dope ass laptop and a 20MP digital camera to help her chase those dreams. And am working on getting her some photoshop software. When we are in a triad everyone's happiness is priority and everyone's dreams matter. It doesn't seem as much to us that we gave her gifts as much as it feels like doing our part to support her in living her best life. We are all truly happy and I really hope that she both knows how happy she's making us and I hope that she feels as happy as we do. I would also like to add a huge thank you to everyone who reads as of today I have hit 500 followers! THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR GIVING ME THE CONFIDENCE TO SHARE OUR STORIES AND FEEL COMPLETELY NORMALIZED IN DOING SO YOU'RE ALL AMAZING AND APPRECIATED! As a thank you here is a pic of our family on the road!

[polytriadfidelity]

Y'all ever do cute shit like this...

Kissing one partner to give the kiss to the other?